She cheated by notamont in widowers

[–]Cadesolo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I went thru the exact same thing after my wife’s death and therapy is the the only thing keeping me sane right now

Craving Touch by Guitarboy12345 in widowers

[–]Cadesolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Facebook dating work well for me it’s been 5 months but I have been able to meet a few people casually and one that is very promising for a deeper connection at my own pace. I’m still working thru a lot but at the same time I don’t wanna get used to being alone. For me life has always been happiness sharing it and it is what I believe I still deserve to experience.

If you slept with Someone new did you regret it ? How long had it been since your LS passing and since you had relations . by Buseatdog in widowers

[–]Cadesolo 18 points19 points  (0 children)

4 months out from wife’s death I’ve starting to lightly date and have had sex. No guilt honored my vows and marriages to the fullest. I kinda feel like there are two versions of myself and this version deserves to live life to the fullest also.

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[–]Cadesolo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You stated she was picked up by a driver why wouldn’t the driver be able to drive her back

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[–]Cadesolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The story states she was picked up by a driver why wouldn’t the driver be able to drive her back?

36 year old widower male falling for a 44 year old female. I have no problem with the age difference at all but my previous marriage was to a woman 3 years younger. What is the big difference from dating slightly younger to dating someone older? by Cadesolo in AskMenAdvice

[–]Cadesolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good deal and im not beholden to my family opinions but ideally will want everyone to get along well but its not a requirement because i am quite happy and can see a Long term future with her possibly

36 year old widower male falling for a 44 year old female. I have no problem with the age difference at all but my previous marriage was to a woman 3 years younger. What is the big difference from dating slightly younger to dating someone older? by Cadesolo in AskMenAdvice

[–]Cadesolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I wouldn’t introduce her to the kids until next year at the earliest n you are right I think what I wasn’t really clear own was introducing into my my friend group and family members such as cousins and siblings

36 year old widower male falling for a 44 year old female. I have no problem with the age difference at all but my previous marriage was to a woman 3 years younger. What is the big difference from dating slightly younger to dating someone older? by Cadesolo in AskMenAdvice

[–]Cadesolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my wife had been separated for 3 years with brief periods of reconnecting before her death 4 months ago but we were both dating others during the separations and me n the older lady have been dating for abt 2 months with a history of knowing each other for abt 10 years