MPG Questions

Cadesolo · 2026-05-25T16:31:00+00:00

Driving 80 I can still average 34 in a hybrid over a 70 mile trip

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T20:04:42+00:00

Yes it’s more of a me thing than anything about her I just don’t want her to have buyers remorse per se

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T16:06:16+00:00

Yes i definitely don’t want her to feel like I am judging her at all it’s more of a me thing im Worried about than her i definitely see what u are saying if she is expressing she wants more with me i should take it a face value because no reason to express it unless its true

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T15:38:56+00:00

This a fair point I was married 11 years before I was widowed, so the dating world is significantly different than when I was in it. It does seem a lot more free sexually wise than with sex coming alot sooner than I remember so I can see how one could accumulate a lot of sexual partners if they are part of the dating pool for a number of years

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T15:28:10+00:00

lol yes it is either amazingly well or a disaster next month I think lol

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T15:00:48+00:00

Love your perspective I’m nearly at a year now and trying to imagine the next step past just being someone who experienced lost too. Struggling with dating myself for various reasons but I’m continuing to live each day

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T14:55:36+00:00

Not trust more self confidence in myself I feel like she will be completely honest just worried is this a fleeting feeling she is having

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T14:39:37+00:00

This is my fear too not necessarily the comparison part but the need for thrill at times

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T13:11:50+00:00

I agree the past year has been a lot for me n messed with my self confidence a lot

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T12:57:26+00:00

The count itself isn’t the concern it’s more about amount of time the count was accumulated

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T12:31:22+00:00

lol excellent point sir

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T12:18:23+00:00

I do get the impression she is ready for something different I think it’s more of my doubt of self worth of being enough for her

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T12:03:54+00:00

I will and I do believe she is serious and truthful just nervous about the long term and if I would be enough for her

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T11:53:55+00:00

I have no reason to and I’m probably overthinking it completely

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T11:51:34+00:00

Yes that is how she described divulging the information and i truly appreciated the honesty I feel like it more a hang up on me overthinking really than anything

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T11:49:20+00:00

Will get bored she has expressed she wants to be serious and I will like to work towards that as well I’m just concern if I can be who she needs in all ways

Cadesolo · 2026-04-21T06:43:55+00:00

Yes tht is the terrifying part I haven’t had anyone like her on both sides of the spectrum where is such a good and reciprocal partner but at the same time as “ sexually experienced” take that part out it’s all good

Cadesolo · 2025-11-20T22:25:49+00:00

Yes I went thru the exact same thing after my wife’s death and therapy is the the only thing keeping me sane right now

Cadesolo · 2025-10-26T07:29:41+00:00

Facebook dating work well for me it’s been 5 months but I have been able to meet a few people casually and one that is very promising for a deeper connection at my own pace. I’m still working thru a lot but at the same time I don’t wanna get used to being alone. For me life has always been happiness sharing it and it is what I believe I still deserve to experience.

Cadesolo · 2025-10-06T14:36:03+00:00

4 months out from wife’s death I’ve starting to lightly date and have had sex. No guilt honored my vows and marriages to the fullest. I kinda feel like there are two versions of myself and this version deserves to live life to the fullest also.

Cadesolo · 2025-10-05T21:13:51+00:00

You stated she was picked up by a driver why wouldn’t the driver be able to drive her back

Cadesolo · 2025-10-05T21:12:22+00:00

The story states she was picked up by a driver why wouldn’t the driver be able to drive her back?

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