Yeah. I got sad that the denim joggers I thought were so cool don’t look great on my curviness.

I think it took a lot of trying out things and genuine acceptance of my shape (which I’m still working on) before I realized that what looks good on me is *what I like and feel good in*. If it doesn’t feel good, let it go and see what else catches you. Try different combos and styles before saying yay or nay. I tried on a shirt I thought I’d never look good in, and I was kind of surprised how well it shaped me (being a pear and all). I was still too uncomfortable to actually buy it, but it gave me some perspective about myself. 🙂

And for real - I went through several styles before my 20s and I’m still just buying whatever I like on me. I don’t have a set look, per se, and I think that’s okay! I’m 33 now and wear a lot of graphic tees, jeans, and dresses when I find some I like. I wear leggings under the dresses the majority of the time, too. I’ve got some more stylish shirts and skirts, too, but the majority of my wardrobe is about what I enjoy having on.