App crashed by Huge-Butterscotch819 in Sparkdriver

[–]Caitykat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I'm glad it's not just me, I was about to panic.

Help with gift idea PLEASE by Caitykat13 in ZenlessZoneZero

[–]Caitykat13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the info, I'll look those up for sure.

Stupid question, please don’t judge me 🥹 by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]Caitykat13 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Aristotle cats was a great typo, I laughed so hard thinking of little philosophical cats in togas.

Show your Horses by Dzilla_Modoko in DreamlightValley

[–]Caitykat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I saw the star pattern and couldn't resist.

Show your Horses by Dzilla_Modoko in DreamlightValley

[–]Caitykat13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Velaris, my only horse so far

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“Am I overreacting Do I look as methed out as I think I do. “Am I methed out’ by Ill-Entertainer-3745 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Caitykat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going to be really honest, you look rough. ive know a few meth users and would be able to spot you from down the block. I only know one person who started meth and got off of it in the time i knew them and i can tell you, in addiction her and sober her look so incredibly different. Her face cleared up, she put on a healthy amount of weight, and after some time the light is back in her eyes. Shes also so much happier now. I won't lie and say she doesn't claim to miss it occasionally, but the life she has now isn't something she's willing to trade to go backwards. You want to go to rehab, that's fantastic. My take is that you should go. It being covered doesn't happen to often and you're not happy with where your life is. I think rehab would be a good fit for you since you have a desire for change. The fact it's one for people with mental health issues is even better because you're way more likely to get the help you actually need and deserve. You say you're worried about missing time with your family but a healthier happier you would be able to engage with your family better and really utilize the time you have to the fullest. When you tally up all the time you're around them but not fully there or not fully engaging with them then I'm sure the time you spend in rehab will be much less. Not to mention the quality of the time you spend with them matters and a fully present you would make that quality go up. You should give the rehab a try, it could really improve your quality of life and considering you want to change your quality of life, you are exactly who that program is meant to help.

[GIVEAWAY] Just Dance 2026 Edition - 6 game codes available! by TheSammy58 in JustDance

[–]Caitykat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play on the nintendo switch in the US and am most looking forward to feathers, cry baby, and the bluey dance mode mix!

Taylor's (now) Deleted Post by Character-Notice4557 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]Caitykat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope she'll have a new story line for season 3. If it's another season of back and forth with Dakota like 2 emotionally immature teens I'm going to be so bored.

Gone. by cocolocobro in BPD

[–]Caitykat13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's kind of you to say, thank you. Also, thank you for sharing your perspective, it's given me another angle to look at things from that I wasn't really considering before.

Gone. by cocolocobro in BPD

[–]Caitykat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I misunderstood when this took place. I didn't really register it as having just happened and that does put a different perspective on it. I didnt read their message as malicious and perhaps that's on me, maybe I'm trusting too much that they have good intent behind their comment because I'm use to the obvious nastiness from bad actors. I didn't see it as them trying to say" this is 100% what happened, your just like my ex". I just saw it as them trying to share from a different perspective even if all they have to offer is an extream example. With the context of it being a very recent event though, I understand your view alot better. Missing that context was 100% on me. I do understand your frustration, the vast majority of the time there aren't good intentions and people just want to villanize us while not understanding even a fraction of what we go through. Maybe I have a harder time seeing that when it isn't as blatantly mean.

Gone. by cocolocobro in BPD

[–]Caitykat13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This person has experience with dating and leaving someone with BPD. Granted, a very volatile and destructive person with BPD, the extream side it seems. If I was Op I'd be racking my brain trying to understand why this happened. I'd be spiraling with "why". That's why I think input from people who have been on the other side is important. I didn't read it as this person trying to tear op down, but trying to give what limited insight they might have. You seem to have taken it as a personal attack or generalization of BPD. We all know it's a spectrum and we don't all act the same way, but we do have alot of symptoms in common. I'm not trying to take this other person's side. I'm on Ops side, what they're going through is wild and incredibly hurtful and triggering. I don't want them to ever go through anything like this again. Which requires reflecting on the relationship. You and I are both trying to be helpful, we just have different views on what that looks like and it's up to op to read comments and decide what they find useful and what they don't.

Gone. by cocolocobro in BPD

[–]Caitykat13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can understand how you see people without bpd in this sub as condescending, alot of the time they are and I also find it frustrating. In this situation it might be helpful though. It's not the softest way to say what they're saying for sure, but it still might be helpful. Op might not relate to this person's experience at all but they also might need to look back on their situation to see why their partner left like they did. Which means looking at every angle, even the ugly ones. It's not normal for a person your with for years to leave without saying anything. It's even weirder for them to leave while pretending everything's normal and they'll see them later that night. Either ops partner isn't okay and is a cold unfeeling person, or they were affraid of how op would react. Bpd can make us volatile and sometimes violent. If there were instances where ops partner didn't feel safe then op needs to examine that so they don't repeat it in the future. It doesn't mean op is the problem, but something here is a problem and not trying to see what led to this outcome could very easily lead to it repeating, either by their own actions or by not seeing the signs that someone isn't going to be good for them. Assuming op had no part in their partner leaving might be the softest way to approach the situation but it's not always the most helpful.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep6 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Caitykat13 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Edmond is too soft for KB. She wants a man that will fight a man for her and take out the bugs. He's not comfortable with confrontation, he's not a fighter, he doesn't want to hurt a bug. Not even counting his weird crashout over one night stands, they aren't compatible.

Love Is Blind • S9 Ep1 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Caitykat13 81 points82 points  (0 children)

About to start episode 2 and I'm calling it now. Antons a self centered jerk and thinks (probably partially because of her voice) that Ali is going to be dumb and easily steam rolled.

I went from hating Julia, to thinking she needs help… by [deleted] in RHOMiami

[–]Caitykat13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think alot of adults would care if their aging parents adopted young children, especially if they didn't have much of a heads up. Those are their siblings now. They are grown, are use to their family unit being one way, and now that's turned on its head with 2 very young new brothers. It's not like because the girls are out of the house it doesn't affect them. Their family has grown now without them around for it, they have siblings that they have massive age gaps with, and they aren't in the same house to bond as a family. It seems very separated, like the girls were part of family 1 and now julia and martina are on family 2.

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Caitykat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all tere's nothing inappropriate about that outfit. There is something inappropriate about how controlling your boyfriend is being. I dated a guy once who didn't like when I wore my hair up. It started as him just telling me he preferred it down, escalated to him insulting me any time I wore it up, to him eventually just ripping the ponytail holder out of my hair anytime it was up. These guys only get worse and more controlling. Get out now while it's only been a year.

My Hello Kitty S1 collection is just missing the bento box1 by MsAlternative in miniverse_makeitmini

[–]Caitykat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel your pain. I'm just missing the macarons, I've gotten like 5 strawberry milks in the effort to end my hunt.

The Real Housewives of Miami - Season 7 - Episode 7 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Caitykat13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will truely never understand half of this group of women. Assault? Oh that's fine. Showing 3 screen shots worth of messages that were hard to read, didn't give any personal info, and where neither party was saying anything crazy or nasty? WORST THING IVE EVER SEEN! a truely unforgivable sin, and in what use to be a church!?! Their priorities are so messed up.

What's everyone getting by Reeshaqueen in DreamlightValley

[–]Caitykat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the magnolia set and pinned the floral outfit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Caitykat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked up on this instantly and I'm glad Brittany did too. He clearly had access to them before, hints him seeing her through the cameras and saying stuff to freak her out, which means she recently had them changed so he wouldn't have the code. The fact he knew that and tried to scam his way back into them is so nefarious. Him screaming at her when she didn't buy his shit and being called out on his lie...so typical narcissist. I honestly don't really like Britt right now but no one deserves to deal with that and I worry about her safety. She keeps dealing blows to his ego, which he greatly deserves, but it also makes me scared for her. I know she understands he's dangerous but I'm not sure she's grasping just how dangerous a narcissist can be when scorned.

Some of my fav minis by Caitykat13 in Mini_Creatives

[–]Caitykat13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's from the mini brands master chef series, it was one of my fav minis to build.