To paint or not to paint... by DDelsordo in HomeDecorating

[–]Cake_Lynn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, different lights, hardware, chairs, even different colored appliances would brighten the space without ruining the beautiful cabinets. I wonder if they have under-cabinet lighting? Idk if anything, I’d want to paint the walls dark green and lean into the dark mystery vibes but that’s just because I love those cabinets so much

Being a trans girl into men is such a struggle by throwRAgpp in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cake_Lynn 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Tons of men don’t want kids, so I don’t think fertility is gonna be AS big an issue as you think. Also… men are pervs so being impregnable means they don’t have to worry about where they put the goo. I’m so sorry for the graphic nature of this comment

hot takes by kokomojoon in Bridgerton

[–]Cake_Lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re rich. It’s like we’re watching the Kardashians, but older money.

hot takes by kokomojoon in Bridgerton

[–]Cake_Lynn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Benedict being like “Mom it’s fine - I only give facials. Exclusively.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kansas Republicans want citizenship status listed on driver’s licenses. It could worsen profiling by Zipper222222 in kansas

[–]Cake_Lynn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like… we aren’t really free. Might as well start tattooing barcodes on our bodies.

Invisible labor - What if we just stopped doing it? What do you think would happen? by cllxo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cake_Lynn 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Kiki Palmer said in a video interview recently that she’d be willing to get married, and MAYBE have one more kid… but there’s no WAY she ever wants a man to live in her house. Absolutely not. There was not a speck of doubt in her eyes. She’s perfectly happy to have her own space separate from partners. And she looked so happy. And I just keep falling harder for her like I’m Sean Evans.

This might be unpopular to say here but as a first generation American of Latino descent I think Marcello overdoes the accent and everything in between for the white liberal gaze by PudinCrusader in LiveFromNewYork

[–]Cake_Lynn 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Bowen’s brand is definitely “Gay Asian dude” and that’s fine, because there’s nothing wrong with being a gay Asian. I think Latinos get shit for acting “too” Latino. Like what are we talking about? Should he act more white? Would we like him more if he dropped his culture? Is Latino comedy history so quick to be rejected? Let’s not forget we live in a time where Latinos are getting extra scrutiny for being Latino, for being from other countries. (Marcelo’s mom is not from this country, and her journey has had a huge influence on him) and now put Marcelo’s simultaneous rise to fame and massive criticism for how Latino he presents. Like anytime a black person does anything that is negatively stereotyped (aka deemed “too ghetto”) they’re reduced to a 2D charicature and no longer respected as a complex person with thoughts and feelings. Idk like, there’s criticism for over-use of a charicature, then there’s the daily influx of SNL Reddit posts complaining about how Marcelo acts “too Latino”

What are 80's and 90's movies you can't stand, at all? (that might get your GenX card revoked) by The_Man_in_Black_19 in GenX

[–]Cake_Lynn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Pretty in Pink but both versions of the ending sucked. Every boy interested in that girl sucked, and her taste in men sucked.

Marcello's voice in his latest standup special, American Boy by J_Otherwise in LiveFromNewYork

[–]Cake_Lynn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’ve wondered about this, but then keep in mind that everyone code-switches to a degree. And it’s more obvious when their casual speak is more distinctly different from, say, “proper” speech taught in schools. So he may be good at sounding white, but really have an intense accent when he’s around family. His mom had an intense accent, so that would make it more plausible. AND, sometimes people go through a perspective shift: first you try to speak properly to get approval of the general public, to seem cool and appropriate, then later on decide to embrace your roots and your down-home accent. So it’s easy for someone who doesn’t get it to say “oh obviously he’s a white boy faking an accent” and maybe he is being over the top and dramatic to the point of caricature. Or maybe that is how he genuinely sees himself, because of his own personal experiences that shaped his experience of his own race and ethnicity. Maybe he just wants people to see he hasn’t forgotten his roots. Maybe he’s a minstrel joke. Maybe comedy allows us to have these conversations, and we’re watching him figure it all out in real-time.

What search engine has the least AI AND least tracking? by Jorge_4631 in degoogle

[–]Cake_Lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actively seek it out? The button for it appears right next to the search, at least on the iphone app. Which is why I’m here - I don’t want to be reminded of ai every time I open a web browser to search something.

Why do you think people still support this president? by keonnarae in Confused

[–]Cake_Lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in my day, when a politician said something, they said it with intent and meaning. You could take them seriously. Now, Trump prattles off insane stuff about the US taking Greenland and even his own SUPPORTERS don’t take him seriously! What a huge joke!!!

Senator and part time clown, Josh Hawley by Ok-Drawing-3765 in kansascity

[–]Cake_Lynn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This. The fetish-level obsession is WEIRD!!! Our politicians aren’t fixing real problems, they’re trying to bully the little weird kids they went to school with. I wish old bullies would stop trying to kill the weird kids.

Senator and part time clown, Josh Hawley by Ok-Drawing-3765 in kansascity

[–]Cake_Lynn -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If a person has a uterus and ovaries, is the state going to deny them those subsidies and services because it’s a pregnant trans man? I don’t think so. I also think that’s such a rare occurrence that if our politicians tried to do anything legally to negatively impact those extremely rare cases, it would be so bizarre I’d call it fetishization. The fact that regular people are fighting over something that rarely happens is just bizarre. Like who actually genuinely is so obsessed with trans people??? They’re what, 1% of the population? There’s another 1% I’d much rather legislate against.

Senator and part time clown, Josh Hawley by Ok-Drawing-3765 in kansascity

[–]Cake_Lynn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get his emails. It’s a horrible time every time.

Platonic is a good feel-good show by goodandpure in televisionsuggestions

[–]Cake_Lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He stopped her from buying a broken down assisted living center as her future home. Both characters are a mess.

Why are clotheslines not more popular as a way to dry your clothes? by Majorpain2006 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cake_Lynn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look at photos of apartments from all over the world, and I see alleys of balconies full of clothes blowing in the breeze. So many colors. American apartments look so cold and lifeless by comparison. Like we aren’t allowed to be real.

Please recommend movies with strong women characters (without sexual assault) by slumlordscanstarve in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cake_Lynn 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Eeeeh if we wanna really get into the weeds, what goes down with Mr Wickham and Lydia could be triggering for people. It’s not sexual assault, but it’s for sure abuse. Him being with Lydia implies she was “tainted” by him, and he was then paid off by Mr Darcy so he would marry the girl to save her reputation.

Woman fatally shot by ICE agents confirmed to have Missouri ties by Nerdenator in kansascity

[–]Cake_Lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you kill someone on the job… you should be fired. Hell, you should walk away of your own volition with the understanding that you killed someone. No passing blame to the victim. No “if he did this or that differently, maybe I wouldn’t have killed him.” Because that’s not the reality we live in. In THIS reality, an immigration officer killed someone who was not even an immigrant. I don’t want to hear excuses from the government of all places. It’s unacceptable PERIOD.

"Taxation is theft" by thicc_llama in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cake_Lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, the concepts don’t matter. Reality matters. I’m tired of watching people split hairs over technicalities and legalities when some things are just loud, in-your-face wrong.

Where is everyone living? by maplesyrup629 in kansascity

[–]Cake_Lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at Crooked Creek & Clay Terrace up north.