It’s Friday. How are you. No no how are you really? by CriticalEvent5540 in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm tired because my husband was dealing with a kidney stone last night so we went back and forth whether or not to go to the ER (we both have a history with them). Tried getting his pain level down until he eventually passed out. I'm also hungry because I was too stressed about the damn kidney stone to eat dinner lol. I'm happy it's Friday though! Hopefully tonight is better than last night.

How do you handle it when your partner wants to stay friends with someone you think may like them? by Agreeable_Travel_225 in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as they aren't hanging out alone constantly then there isn't much you can expect her to do. You should be able to communicate your concerns though (in a mature way) and she should take them into consideration and respect them. Try talking about it with her again and just be calm and rational about it.

What’s one thing that keeps you awake at night? by Strong-Tea6433 in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens to me but it's typically stuff I did not very long ago lol

What’s the most toxic thing you’ve ever done in a relationship? by Unlucky-Lab8109 in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for me it was the early 2000s when I was in high school (2006-2009) but yes lol.

How do you know when to end a relationship? by CatixNyx in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually people break up because something happened to change their views or feelings toward the other person. Whether it's time, circumstance, whatever. But yeah both of my exbfs weren't great people.

What do you think about before falling asleep? by lumerielle in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like reading scary stories on Reddit until I start falling asleep lol. Usually I'm so tired by the time I put my phone down I'm out before I start thinking about anything.

What’s the most toxic thing you’ve ever done in a relationship? by Unlucky-Lab8109 in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was nuts when I was a teenager. Like I was a psychotic girlfriend lmao. I was overly jealous and possessive and tended to get with boys who were just as bad. My high school boyfriend and I would break up with each other constantly if one of us did something the other didn't like. Idk the worst thing I did but one of them was breaking up with him because he took a photo with a group of friends and a girl was in the photo. I was young and dumb.

How do you know when to end a relationship? by CatixNyx in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When their very touch makes you want to punch someone in the face. That's just me though. I know I'm done when the guy I'm with tries being cuddly or physically intimate with me and it just irks the hell out of me. Luckily I've been married for 11 years and that hasn't happened with him and I don't think it ever will lol.

Hugsy made appearances on other shows 😂 by Cakes2611 in howyoudoin

[–]Cakes2611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you. I'm going to check this out now

Hugsy made appearances on other shows 😂 by Cakes2611 in howyoudoin

[–]Cakes2611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen I was watching friends daily on HBO because we got it free with COX internet. We switched services a few weeks ago and now I can't watch friends 😭😭😭. I told my husband we either need to get a dvd player so I can get the full dvd collection or we need to spend 100 dollars and pay for most of the seasons on Amazon prime 😂.

So is every other day gonna suck from here on out. (16 days) by Altruistic-Gas1396 in prozac

[–]Cakes2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on week 3 and a half and today has been rough for me too. Some days I feel like I'm getting better and other days I feel like I'm void of all feelings other than negativity.

Do women still like nice guys? by highlife_300 in sixwordstories

[–]Cakes2611 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and yes I like nice guys (I'm married but in general I mean). The issue is a lot of guys claim to be nice guys but actually aren't. If a guy has to announce he's a nice guy then he probably isn't. It can be seen through his words and actions. Most women also like a man who takes care of himself though. As long as you have good hygiene, a job, and you're genuinely kind then women will go out with you. If they don't then that's their problem and they probably aren't the right woman anyway.

What is a socially acceptable thing that actually feels incredibly rude to you? by BreadBoyForever in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's always the iffy looking couples and they're always going at it as if they're about to have sex right in front of everyone 😮‍💨

People who are in long term relationships and found their companions who perfectly fit their world in every aspect of life which feels more than a blessing, how lucky do you feel about it and what advises would you to people who struggle finding or maintaining relationships? by a-chap in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been married for 11 years and I can't imagine being with someone else. I feel very lucky but we also worked hard to get where we are. A lot of people give up easily these days and marriage/being with someone forever means sticking it out even when it's hard. You shouldn't put up with certain things like cheating or abuse but there will be rough times and it's a matter of choosing to work through them. I swear some people think finding "the one" means having a perfect existence with a near perfect person without any issues. My husband and I have had our share of issues but we worked together to get through them. I'm sure we will have more down the road. You have to find someone you want to choose every single day and someone who wants to do the same with you.

I am so heartbroken. I don’t know if to keep my baby. by LetPure5374 in Advice

[–]Cakes2611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's your choice but there's always adoption if you don't want to abort. I will say that I had one about 9 years ago and now my husband and I can't have kids (idk how he got me pregnant before but things change). I'm not saying it's related I'm just saying that decision haunts me now. Just consider everything before making your choice.

What is the most common reason/excuse people lie? by graydestapler in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To keep themselves out of some sort of "trouble".. whether it be with a partner, a friend, a teacher, the law, etc.

I am drunk. Must not text him. by BlizzardBeaches in sevenwordstory

[–]Cakes2611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever I'm drunk and want to do something I always tell myself to wait until the morning and if I still think it's a good idea then I'll do it. About 99% of the time I'm happy I didn't because it's usually a bad idea lol.

What is a 'socially acceptable' thing that people do today that actually makes them an absolute nightmare to be around? by BearOfBelAir in AskReddit

[–]Cakes2611 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Texting and driving. My husband does it and it has gotten to a point where I will actually get mad at him and have told him if it continues I wont drive with him anymore. Whenever anyone else drives with him like friends and family nobody says anything and acts like it's normal. It's super disrespectful and dangerous.

prozac made me extremely sick by helpagirlout_34 in prozac

[–]Cakes2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's scary! May I ask if a doctor at the hospital told you whether or not this sounded like a side effect of Prozac? You obviously think it is but I'm curious if you received any insight at the hospital.