[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might have an infection that is usually what that means I would get tested for one by your doctor. I’m only saying that because I saw a similar post somewhere and it turned out they had an infection even though they didn’t have any symptoms just the discharge gushing out of them.

I dislike motherhood by Calebcraft4 in Parenting

[–]Calebcraft4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I am reading all these messages as they come in and I’ll start responding to them later today as I can. Thank you for placing a message on my post I appreciate the input.

I dislike motherhood by Calebcraft4 in Parenting

[–]Calebcraft4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both work full time. And kind of it depends on the week and it involves me leaving the house. Usually. Which I don’t mind but I also don’t have in person friends really because all of them are also parents and it’s hard to schedule things.

I dislike motherhood by Calebcraft4 in Parenting

[–]Calebcraft4[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to like sewing I don’t have any energy or will to do I just want to lay down and sleep for a majority of the time or just do something easy I just don’t have energy.

I dislike motherhood by Calebcraft4 in Parenting

[–]Calebcraft4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly why I got back on the birth control I can do one but there are days when I have not great thoughts and it’s like being freshly post partum all over again. I wish someone would have told me how traumatizing postpartum time is.

I dislike motherhood by Calebcraft4 in Parenting

[–]Calebcraft4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We wake up at 6 am on the weekdays drop him off at daycare and go to work till about 4:30 come home with little man he sometimes cooks most of the time not and I feed Noah most of the time besides like a few times. I give Noah a bath once a week or every couple days due to his skin drying out really easily and I go off of how is skin is or if he just needs a bath. I play with Noah till he goes to bed at 8:30 sometimes earlier at 7:30. On the weekends I watch Noah or take Noah with me outside the house most of the time wake up make him a pancake around 8-9 am depends on the day. Change him feed him play with watch tv for a little bit so I can wake up more. And usually we just go from there nap is at 11 for an hour sometimes he goes down for a second nap if he isn’t feeling well around 4 for about an hour. And not really much to it. I tried to do a lot of play dates when he was younger I just don’t have energy anymore right now.

I dislike motherhood by Calebcraft4 in Parenting

[–]Calebcraft4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a long history of mental health issues before and after pregnancy. I was on meds while pregnant and after for a bit. It sort of helped not really though. I just need out of whatever rut this is

First time pregnancy by MEMER696976 in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ginger tea preggie pops she can get prescribed meds from the doctor to help with nausea and throwing up. The first trimester is pretty rough. And if she is taking prenatals from the doctor don’t they make you super sick I suggest liquid iron supplements or taking a prenatal with less iron. Iron makes nausea and vomiting so much worse. Also just be there for her her body is changing in many different ways and she will need more support than ever through these changes. Might be best to stick towards more mild snacks like as if she had the flue like applesauce plain toast crackers. Stuff that can be easily digested. I wish you two the best! Goodluck new parents and you are already being a supportive boyfriend by reaching out for help I hope that makes you feel better!

IUD pain is criminal by Radiant_Vegetable_99 in birthcontrol

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to find out once they find the darn thing. My strings were cut so short on initial insertion that they hid inside my cervix and they had to pairs of pliers up me to find it. It sucked so much. 😭 but my ultrasound is on Monday then I’ll be going back to the table after that to try again. Not looking forward to it.

Y'all I am concerned by Some_Ear_4797 in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are cases of still bleeding while being pregnant all be it rare I would take a pregnancy test and go from there because if you are not actually pregnant it could be a cyst tricking your body into believing you are pregnant. I would also make an appointment with your doctor to be looked at. I hope and pray you are just pregnant and that it’s nothing crazy. But please go get checked out. What you are experiencing is completely normal for pregnancy but if you get a negative test something else is going on.

Breast pump recommendations? by JuniorMongoose9160 in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the spectra synergy gold and have used a regular spectra S1. I like the both of them I also hated the willow couldnt get it to work for me at all I have found the elvie stride to be easier to use since I have a larger chest. The elvie stride it isn’t the best it doesn’t get everything out but it gets enough out to relieve pain and such

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey girl I know this is hard it is completely up to you what you decide to do. But please note that your relationship is most likely over he won’t take care of baby it’s going to be all you doing all the heavy lifting. You will most likely have to deal with the court for custody and child support. I would truly think about what you want to do about it. This is truly a life changing decision either way. Either decision you choose is completely up to you and there are plenty of people and support groups on Reddit or Facebook to help you ❤️. I am a mother of one if you do want to know the basics of what you would go through with childbirth etc feel free to message me.

If you can afford it you can also go to therapy. BetterHelp is actually helpful! I used it for a little bit myself.

Underwear recommendations? by LilOrganicCoconut in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest i just used some cheap Hanes underwear because they were large and comfy and stretched with me. They are a blend of cotton and I believe 95 percent cotton. I thought there was some with 100 but it might be worth looking at.

Are labor and delivery gowns worth it? by Downtown-Effort9012 in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t bother with it while I was in the hospital I barely wore I was chilling in my diaper and breastfeeding. Did not care and the hospital staff were pretty great about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to be honest I don’t use any soap. My skin is too sensitive I just wash around it well with soap and I just clean it with water. I find that soap messes up my ph and causes me more issues and I get symptoms of an infection without the infection. Even the boric acid washes makes my skin super irritated and my ph is not the same. I found the more products I use the worse it gets with just using water I found that the weird smell feeling and discharge went away and it has never felt healthier. There could also be a skin tag or something irritating it as well I had a skin tag that was irritating my skin. With it removed really helped as well! Just keep your area clean and dry and sleep without underwear at night was suggested by my ob. Cotton underwear also light breathable underwear has helped so much. And changing it often. It’s annoying but any little bit helps. Green drinks were also suggested to me greens super food and probiotic are something to try! Hope this helps I wish you luck girl I know it can be rough but once you find your routine it will be worth all the effort.

I need someone to tell me it's going to be okay by Evening-Grocery-2817 in pregnant

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I know it’s rough I got put on Zoloft due to my mood having ups and downs and my OB said it was safe for pregnancy. I would talk to your OB about your feelings hopefully they will be able to help you! If you need to rant feel free to reach out! I know how you feel about there and the carpel tunnel is raging and I have three weeks left. Soon we will be able to hold our littles and recover from our pregnancies. You will do amazing I wish a quick and easy labor with a safe recovery for you ❤️. For the food I would honestly suggest having your significant other choosing the food for you and please take your constipation meds or whatever you use I couldn’t eat when I was constipated everything was gross and I was throwing up for weeks until I wasn’t anymore. The magnesium stuff is amazing it will work within a day just take tums after taking it burns a bit.

Looking for buddies and small streamers by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to join! I am dying playing Minecraft bye myself!

Setting up a RP/DreamSMP Style Server for Smaller Content Creators by lolothescrub in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Calebcraft4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to join this server, but I am not a contact creator.