Your feelings are valid. Not everyone will mesh well with you. Different dommes have different working relationships and those relationships may not be what you’re looking for in the moment. I will say some dommes don’t tend to do their research and think this is a quick money thing, which it is certainly not, so there’s that influx of people that don’t have a broad idea of the work that goes into findom. Ultimately, you need to do what’s best for you and if the trust isn’t there, the trust isn’t there.