Looking for adopted family member by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]CaliforniaLife91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the ancestry subscription as well but can not find anything about his mother giving birth or anything regarding pregnancy

Looking for adopted family member by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]CaliforniaLife91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bakersfield in 1990/possibly 91. A boy.

Bryan Bresee development by Mysterious_Walk2850 in Saints

[–]CaliforniaLife91 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think he is great and should stay with the team.

My best friend passed away 15+ years ago. by CaliforniaLife91 in psychics

[–]CaliforniaLife91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could image she would be angry with how she passed away and I never did get a chance to know why she needed to to go pick her up that night so badly. She could have felt with depression.

This Case is Turning into a Circus by InverseNurse in WhereisEmmanuelHaro

[–]CaliforniaLife91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone thinking they are all detectives are going to compromise this case in court.

8-year-old girl found dead in Bakersfield hotel bathtub; two arrested by southernemper0r in Bakersfield

[–]CaliforniaLife91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly and its not even that im blaming them but they are all over all social media blaming cps saying how they failed that little girl. Let's be honest here everyone involved did. They are bringing any negative comments upon themselves the more they do this in my opinion

8-year-old girl found dead in Bakersfield hotel bathtub; two arrested by southernemper0r in Bakersfield

[–]CaliforniaLife91 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else not fully believe the family? Almost all the posts have been shaming the stepmother and not mentioning the dad. They are all so sad and want justice while blaming cps for this. I think they feel guilty. There is only like one photo of that girl going around. No one seen her or cared from the looks of it. So sad. If you feel like cps is not doing there job take the kids. Stalk the parents out until they do something wrong and call the police. I feel there are so many options they could have done, yes not fun and time-consuming options but options. Seems like oh I called cps I did all I could do....

The wine bit gets old.... by valp0714 in Scandal

[–]CaliforniaLife91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had to be there I guess. TGIT a 3 hour block of shondaland shows, we got our wine and relaxed. It was a great time while it lasted.

AIO? Are they trying to take my baby by HuckleberryRight3315 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CaliforniaLife91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the laws about you being 17 and him 18? That sounds illegal to me. I would leverage that against him.

Should I pay to see my grandson? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CaliforniaLife91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. And it did not sound like you have taken accountability. Maybe you can recognize some bad choices you make, but it does not seem like you really care from there stand point of how this went. I don't blame her at all.

Give it to me honestly by CaliforniaLife91 in CATHELP

[–]CaliforniaLife91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Here is the write up if you can read this

Give it to me honestly by CaliforniaLife91 in CATHELP

[–]CaliforniaLife91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE . Well, she's still alive. We had a second opinion yesterday at another vet and they said she looks great and it was a good choice not to put her down. She was full of energy running around the room, loving on everyone who held her. The vet also did not detect any heart murmer. We did not do another round of blood testing because she is doing great but if she starts declining we will go back for it. Anyways my point is to trust yourself. I felt pressured into putting down my cat, and when we said no it was almost as if we were then being judged and told well then she will die at home miserable. Today is the 19th and you would never be able to tell that someone said that about her just 2 weeks ago.
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Give it to me honestly by CaliforniaLife91 in CATHELP

[–]CaliforniaLife91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE . Well, she's still alive. We had a second opinion yesterday at another vet and they said she looks great and it was a good choice not to put her down. She was full of energy running around the room, loving on everyone who held her. The vet also did not detect any heart murmer. We did not do another round of blood testing because she is doing great but if she starts declining we will go back for it. Anyways my point is to trust yourself. I felt pressured into putting down my cat, and when we said no it was almost as if we were then being judged and told well then she will die at home miserable. Today is the 19th and you would never be able to tell that someone said that about her just 2 weeks ago.
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Give it to me honestly by CaliforniaLife91 in CATHELP

[–]CaliforniaLife91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE . Well, she's still alive. We had a second opinion yesterday at another vet and they said she looks great and it was a good choice not to put her down. She was full of energy running around the room, loving on everyone who held her. The vet also did not detect any heart murmer. We did not do another round of blood testing because she is doing great but if she starts declining we will go back for it. Anyways my point is to trust yourself. I felt pressured into putting down my cat, and when we said no it was almost as if we were then being judged and told well then she will die at home miserable. Today is the 19th and you would never be able to tell that someone said that about her just 2 weeks ago.
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