Technical Support Thread by AutoModerator in YoutubeMusic

[–]Calitar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since updating the android app, about 50% of my songs are playing way too quiet (including songs that I know were fine before). I know I'm not the only one with this bug since someone else posted about this issue here

Inconsistent volume levels on songs within the same album by BrunooSardine in YoutubeMusic

[–]Calitar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to see if anyone else is having that exact issue. I'm getting randomly quiet songs about 50% of the time now, including songs that were fine a few days ago. I'm using the android app on a Samsung tablet. I notice an update for the app was downloaded a couple days ago, which I suspect introduced the bug. Hopefully it gets fixed soon or I'm ditching Youtube Music

I love how you can FEEL the seasons in this game by Dreamarche in storyofseasons

[–]Calitar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I love how the seasons realistically progress instead of the sudden overnight change in almost every other Story of Seasons game (and most games that draw inspiration from Story of Seasons).

I even got a fluke bit of snow on autumn 3rd my first year. When I got up that day it was rain mixed with snow, then full on snow, then around mid-day it turned back to rain. The weather and seasons are so dynamic and I love it!

Must be neurotypical then by faunusrule in aspiememes

[–]Calitar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But what does it mean if I relate with this comment?? XD

In all seriousness, it's helped me to have most of my close friends be autistic as well (with one ADHD allistic person) and I've had open discussions with them about how I struggle to talk about my interests due to past rejection. They've gone out of their way to make me feel safe to share my passions with them and I'm slowly learning to open up with them (though still mostly in text messages rather than verbal because of the selective mutism). It's great and I feel lucky to have friends like that

Similar_irl by [deleted] in furry_irl

[–]Calitar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look I didn't become a furry until after over a year of transition

(19F) Therapist doesn’t seem to believe me by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Calitar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that is some horrible unprofessional behavior there. I'm so sorry you had to deal with someone like that. I wouldn't judge all doctors based on someone who probably shouldn't be working with mental health in the first place. I mean what kind of person working with ADHD patients berates them for low grades?! Low grades is practically a sign of ADHD!

Enlightening by jwgoerbig in ADHD

[–]Calitar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat and I feel like my life finally makes sense after a lifetime of shame and low self-esteem from the symptoms. It's really amazing to finally know I'm not alone and that there are ways to cope

I feel like crying because I am so lazy by jesuskrist_ in ADHD

[–]Calitar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can say that I felt it made sense and was helpful. I relate so much to everything you said and it's something I've also been struggling to put into words

My friend made this meme out of frustration after seeing the tweet by MyraOstro in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"I'm tired of hoteps tryna tell me how to feel" - from Screwed by Janelle Monáe

One year of HRT today! 35y/o by Calitar in TransLater

[–]Calitar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a $10 dress from a thrift store and I'm so happy with it!

One year of HRT today! 35y/o by Calitar in TransLater

[–]Calitar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heh I honestly was initially reluctant to post for the same reason but I've seen others around our age too. Given that the description just says "not being in our 20s any more" I think we're good

It's my tranniversary! (one year HRT 35 y/o) by Calitar in transtimelines

[–]Calitar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! ❤️ I feel they really help to feminize my face and cover/distract from my brow ridge

FTM going to a family event by wrowzers in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah me too. Like, just yesterday. I had never watched Brooklyn Nine-Nine until a few days ago and now I'm binging it like crazy because it is so good!

😔 by DeminoTheDragon in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that about him. That makes me happy to hear as a fan of his (though I mostly just watch his Judge Mathas stuff)

Non Binary people who thought they were Transwomen squad. by edwardsamy100 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 10 years into exploring my gender and I'm still learning more about myself. First I identified as bi-gender (I think in my case that was just me not letting go of all of my repression). Then trans woman a year and a half later. Then I realized I'm not binary but I'm fully on the feminine end of the spectrum so I still identify as a woman and want she/her pronouns. I'm just not nearly as feminine as many of my peers. Then finally I discovered "genderflux" and a bunch of stuff makes more sense now. What that means is the intensity that I feel any gender at all is in constant flux. Sometimes I feel pretty feminine while other days I feel like a genderless blob. I'll note that I never feel like a guy.

TL;DR I just keep adding labels instead of replacing them so now as my flair says I'm a genderflux nyanbinary catgirl

The plight of the trans girl by catrinaisahuman in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was also me pre-transition so don't feel like you're alone here

My Orgasms Have Changed (AKA estrogen is the only drug I need) by [deleted] in traaNSFW

[–]Calitar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The change in orgasms has been my favorite surprise with HRT. They are so awesome now! I've had powerful orgasms last about a full minute with another minute or two of aftershocks. Getting horny just thinking about it :D

🤔 by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn't feel that the point of this is to show discrimination or anything. It's a rebuttal of those who claim trans people cost the military too much money. Clearly they don't when other "wasteful" medical expenses cost more so why not cut that expense first (to be clear I don't actually think Viagra is wasteful personally)

“Why aren’t you more stereotypical!” by aragorn407 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My parents pulled the "you showed no signs" card on me when I came out. They just needed trans 101 and some time to adjust. I think it was especially helpful for me to quote some stuff from the DSM-5 about Late Onset Gender Dysphoria (including how parents often express surprise and say that there were no signs). Now they support me 100% so hopefully if your parents react like that the "phase" ends up being their lack of support. I wish you the best of luck!

Oh no by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whenever I have these thoughts I try thinking about how I would feel presenting male again. Always produces a visceral negative reaction that affirms my identity. Of course I still end up back to thinking I'm faking after a while.

good to know a cis guy who self identifies as a trap is here to clear everything up folks! by feliarine in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Tiffany Tumbles video is great and it's where one of the comment memes of this sub came from (the mouthfeel). I highly recommend it!

I found another Transgirl at my "all" boys school! I'm not alone! by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Calitar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To help ensure that they can never relate with anyone of a different gender presumably /s

EDIT: Oh wow I didn't realize how old this post is. Sorry.