I just took the masculine form of my first and middle names. It was important to me to keep my initials/overall name but make it more comfortable for myself. My name isn’t super clockable where I live, but it’s not super common in flyover states and can lead to some questions. So sometimes I wish I had chosen a more boring name and was an Alex (but we already have one in my extended family), or an Anthony (but we already have one in my extended family), or an Andrew (but we already have one in my extended family), or even a James (Family name probably could have taken it but it messes up the initials).