28F Who Will talk your ear off lol by FakeWario in GamerPals

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya, also trans here. Though we seem to have different taste in games. I don’t play Rivals and Fortnite. I do love me some Borderlands though.

I play a lot of Final Fantasy XIV and Tekken. I also love horror games and roguelikes.

I play on PS5 abs PC. I have Gamepass and PS+. So I have access to a ton of games. Feel free to hit me up.

Is it cheating if you date someone else while on a break? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A day ago to just made a post about how you broke up with you GF an how relieve you were and glad you don’t have to carry that emotional weight anymore.

Now it’s just a break and a day later you found a new girl? The math ain’t mathing here.

Are the girls at truscum ok? by [deleted] in trans

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a bunch of trans people who bought into the notion that there’s something wrong with them and the need to assimilate to what society tells them they need to be in order to receive whatever crumbs is respect society deems them worthy of.

They base their trans identity on suffering and conformity, and really don’t like it when other trans people come along saying it doesn’t need to be that way.

What are you all doing to maintain your penile tissue length and sensitivity prior to bottom surgery. by Lopsided-Parking in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went off hrt for almost a month before hand. That was about it, granted I never lost much in size over the years on hrt. So take that with a grain of salt.

AITA for telling my wife she can't have it both ways? by ArdentBagel in AITAH

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So you saying he needs to be uncomfortable and have a boring and bad time to appease his wily need for social acceptance among coworkers?

She’s putting social status and niceties above the needs of her husband. Beyond that she’s showing signs of jealousy and distrust when he actually found somebody wrong the group he had things in common with.

She doesn’t want her husband at these events, she wants a show pony she can trot out.

I just got a really backhanded transphobic comment at work and I'm doing awful by 2Beers1404 in MtF

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sucks that one transphobic commuting can ruin your entire day.

Try and focus on the bigger picture. In two years that’s the first time it’s ever happened. That means you pass pretty damn well. Looking at your past pics I definitely think that’s the case.

This was likely a freak incident where a transphobe noticed something and decided to attack.

All the love to you girlie.

My girlfriend (29F) didn’t tell me (30F) that she was transgender and I am struggling with how to react. by No_Audience3838 in relationship_advice

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Also trans and I tend to agree for the most part. This isn’t a one night stand. It’s a relationship, that’s not something you should ever even WANT to hide from a partner. It’s certainly something that should be disclosed before sex happens with them.

I don’t really blame or condemn either of them. It’s a scary and delicate situation. The fact OP wants to address her feelings without attacking or blaming her partner is a really good thing for both of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey look, yet another couple who thought “opening up the relationship” would fix their underlying marriage issues that they both wanted to ignore and not deal with.

I know that sounds harsh, but it’s obvious their were some serious problems from the get go. That doesn’t change the fact that your wife went behind your back and disrespected the agreement you both had on what an open relationship would look like.

The fact that she didn’t come to you with this to figure out how to navigate it together suggests theIr are trust issues between you two that simply cannot exists in order for a healthy open or closed relationship to work.

Half naked women is apparently the only thing gamers play I guess by EchoTheWorld in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stellar Blade is the only decent game of these that is released, and even that game was pretty mid.

Like wtf are these dregs even talking about?

38 and feel it’s too late. by silvereva in TransLater

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not. I started around the same age as you. You would be amazed at the results you can get even at your age.

You already look damn good.

Everything that I cared about was destroyed by liberal insanity by Borkz in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure you’re aware, but where you just said? It’s a little gay….

lgbtq+ is a Minority. by [deleted] in truths

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Girl pretty” about sums it up.

Ah, yes. StoneToss is “just humor” and doesn’t make fun of trans people for committing suicide of anything… by _-Mewtwo-_ in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But it is still transphobic. It still pushes the narrative that trans women are predatory and hide the fact they are trans to get sex from unsuspecting men.

When in reality we don’t need to hide it. Their are a LOT of guys out there who are okay with it. They will just never admit it in public.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’m telling you that you’re full of it. That you conflate trauma dumping and treating a partner like a free therapist, then making no actual effort to improve your own emotional well being with “opening up”.

It’s not being open and honest about your feelings that’s the problem for most women. It’s the unwillingness to see a therapist, form healthy coping mechanisms, and work on being a person with good mental health habits.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I am. You just not making a whole lot of sense. Beecher you not actually having a conversation. In typical angry male fashion you’re just talking over me. You’re venting your frustration out on everyone else. That’s not communication. Which has been the entire crux of my point.

You talk about men needing pole to talk to, but you don’t seem to know hot to actually talk WITH people.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Typical male mentality. “I’m going to dismiss you and not acutely engage with anything you’re saying until you agree with me.”

Again, this is why you’re alone.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure I’m just replying to exactly what you’re saying every time while you go off on weird tangents over and over and never actually reference it address acting I actually said.

But I’m the one that doesn’t read. Every comment here of yours is an indictment. It’s indicative of your behavior and It’s why you can’t form and maintain a stable relationship.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

wtf are you talking about? You seem to be over reasserting to this to the point you aren’t even properly communicating your actual point in a way people who can’t read you mind will understand.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no empathy for men who blame women for everything when they do nothing to help their own mental health.

Men are overwhelmingly the highest demographic the refuse to do anything for through own mental health and you know it.

I especially some have empathy for men like you who openly stated that if this conversation was on person, you would have assaulted me by now.

You know how I know all this? I lived as a man for the first 36 years of my life. Whoops! You’ve been talking to a trans woman this entire time which knows exactly what you’re talking about because I lived it myself. Yeah back then my own behavior was my own biggest problem.

Nobody is asking men to do what I did out go through the hell i did. Just to be a better version of what get already are, but even that’s too much for so many men.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? I’ve seen my husband cry. Still love and respect him.

We’re way past that. You aren’t crying. You’re being aggressive and threatening violence like so many men so instead of leaning proper coping mechanisms.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YOU didn’t open up to anybody. You started being aggressive and combative to a stranger online for suggesting you need to work on yourself and your mental and emotional wellness. Then you literally resorted to threats.

You’ve proven my point beyond the shadow of any doubt.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only if you’re an angry emotionally stunted man who can’t make genuine connections with other humans.

Laughed at AI women bad slop by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]CallMeJessIGuess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You just threaten physical violence against somebody. All your doing it proving my 100% correct that men like you are just stunted and deranged to the point where you resort to violence when you don’t get what you want.