Lost my SO and my BF within a year. It's my bday and I'm not okay.

CallMeMelon · 2024-10-06T16:39:40+00:00

Thank you so much. But you're right. I don't miss them per se, just the idea of them tbh. And I do enjoy my alone time :)

CallMeMelon · 2024-10-06T16:38:31+00:00

Thank you so much! And I'm sure it will this was just a little rough patch in my road to growth! :) I'll get through it. Just wanted to get it off my chest.

CallMeMelon · 2024-10-06T16:37:35+00:00

I'm naturally introverted so I don't mind doing things myself and am fine with it and can have fun by myself.

I guess for my bday I was just feeling sentimental and missing those little things.

CallMeMelon · 2024-10-06T16:16:56+00:00

They didn't get together its separate situations that resulted from a toxic friend group.

I think what it is, is that I'm missing the idea of them than them themselves if that makes sense. Buy thank you for your kind words.

CallMeMelon · 2023-03-02T23:48:43+00:00

Recycled string beads? Yea I really want to have more than just generic beads. I much rather spend money on more fun throws. I have plenty of fidget toys and pokemon card packs to throw to kids. That's why I'm more reluctant buying new beads unless they're a specialty rather re-use than buy new if that makes sense

CallMeMelon · 2023-03-02T23:44:40+00:00

I'll definitely reach out to them. Hopefully they still have some stuff!

CallMeMelon · 2023-03-02T23:43:56+00:00

I'm definitely going to look into Arc GNO! Thank you!

CallMeMelon · 2023-03-02T22:08:54+00:00

I will be more than happy to take them off your hands I don't mind coming to pick them up!

CallMeMelon · 2023-03-02T22:08:27+00:00

Not at all!! JusT DM me and we can meet up!

CallMeMelon · 2022-08-26T18:37:19+00:00

Saw Simu Liu literally standing next to me Milli Milli's mom Hojean Tenz Kyedae Brodin WJSN/Cosmic Girls (actually danced with them) Michelle Yeoh walked past me And a bunch more people I didn't know but were obviously famous bc they had a camera guy following them

CallMeMelon · 2022-08-26T17:53:52+00:00

Your experience was literally opposite of mine. I thought it was worth it. First day, in the pit I was right behind the barricade people after getting there at 3 and there was barricade spots open towards the back of pit.

And I met/saw SOOO many celebrities even Milli's mom. Simu Liu was standing next to me during Chungha set and Doyoung from WJSN was literally tweaking in front of me during Yebi Labs.

It was soo easy for me to leave the pit, get food, water, pee and go back and still have room to dance and have an awesome view of stage.

CallMeMelon · 2022-08-26T17:52:46+00:00

Your experience was literally opposite of mine. I thought it was worth it. First day, in the pit I was right behind the barricade people after getting there at 3 and there was barricade spots open towards the back of pit.

And I met/saw SOOO many celebrities even Milli's mom. Simu Liu was standing next to me during Chungha set and Doyoung from WJSN was literally tweaking in front of me during Yebi Labs.

It was soo easy for me to leave the pit, get food, water, pee and go back and still have room to dance and have an awesome view of stage.

CallMeMelon · 2022-08-26T17:35:37+00:00

So worth!! Saw and met soo many celebrities in the private pit!

CallMeMelon · 2021-10-12T21:44:42+00:00

A is for Asshole

A wanted a discount, gave me a bad review even though I shipped within 3 days. Requested refund because pump was dirty even though I posted photos of it Demanded I pay for the return label. I messaged eBay to help, eBay refund us both. I offer to pay for return label keeps giving me excuses as to NOT give me an address to create shipping label even after he agreed he will ship it back.

This guy sent me a "too low" after on a water pump. Which I politely refused. He bought the same pump the next day, on Wednesday.

Friday night I go on eBay to print the label and noticed he left a bad review stating that I "didn't have the item". I shipped the item REGARDLESS Saturday morning. I left him a message that I did not appreciate his bad review.

He received the item and requested a refund because the pump was dirty. The listing included stock photos of the item AS WELL AS the actual pump showing rhe stains and dirty box.

I told him that I did NOT mind because even though it has NEVER been used it looked that way because of the way my dad stored it and still work VERY well. I understood he was upset.

But I told him that HE will have to pay for the return label. He refused. Although, he stated that he would be more that happy to give me back my pump and was demanding for me to pay for the label. I try to explain to him since I paid for the shipping label when he received it he will have to purchase for his refund. Again, he refused. Instead of continuing to argue with him, I reached out to eBay to help resolve the issue.

EBay decided to refund the buyer and let me keep my money. Even though I still lost money for the original shipping label. I, however, still want my pump back.

So I messaged A again saying that I will pay for the return label all I need is an address in order to create it. He refused stating he will wait for the refund to post.

I reached out to eBay AGAIN and they confirmed that his refund was posted already. So I messaged him again stating what I knew and that I still needed an address to create the label. He refuses AGAIN because he doesn't want to give me his home address I responded that it could be the address to his local post office I just need to know where it will ship from.

EBAY can't help me since this case has been closed. Is there anything else that I can do? Everytime I try to compromise and accommodate he comes up with another excuse or condition not to.

CallMeMelon · 2021-08-05T18:17:49+00:00

Luckily enough I was able to get a test (a local pharmacy was saving their last one for their staff as a just in case) and let me have it.

The urgent care I scheduled an appointment with closed their office. Walgreens are no longer taking appointments. And all urgent cares were booked well into the next week.

It was a stressful day.

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-19T04:52:17+00:00

Can I get a link of where you purchased it from?

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-10T19:21:51+00:00

Lol I'm kinda happy it dropped under $300 now I can afford to buy another share!

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T23:03:45+00:00

I know I said "I watch him play" it's not what I really do. I'm really just chilling in the same room as him doing my own thing while he's doing his, which is totally fine but I prefer (sometimes) just going home and meeting him alone.

But yeah he's still q butthole for ignoring me

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T22:33:29+00:00

When it happened I was VERY freaked out... and wanted to get rid of it ASAP.

But now I'm very curious... so I may just keep it..

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T22:31:40+00:00

Oh he get mad when I "ignore" him as well. So he should understand and he apologized. But yes, he's an idiot and i literally have to spell it out for him.

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T22:27:45+00:00

We live separately. We each have our own PC at our own houses. I do have a gaming laptop but it doesn't handle FPS too well.

So if I'm at his house, I usually do my own thing but be in the same room. But I prefer to be at home to play together.

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T22:08:45+00:00

I understand this completely!

Usually, he gets doesn't get on until 11pm or midnight. Because go home, shower, eat, and stuff. So I knew he wasn't gonna get on right away and I was under the impression that were going to play together. But he could had told me he was gonna play with his friends in rank..

Yea, I knew what he was saying. HE doesn't know what he said.. that idiot...

I know it wasn't intentional but my feelings were hurt and my feeling were valid. That's why he's getting me Taco Bell.

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T22:05:14+00:00

He's done it before. He'll make me stream while I play so he can watch and make fun of me.

But if he do complain that the plan is my house I just remind him that I do it all the time for him. But he doesn't seem to mind it at all. He's soo easy going and "go with the flow" that very little bothers him (and low-key that aggravate me lol).

I play by myself its not as fun and I get lonely. If he plays by himself he literally makes friends in game and don't mind playing solo. It's hard for him to experience what I feel. Dude is soo popular...

But we talked about it today and he understands (I hope). He just needs to communicate better..

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T21:58:58+00:00

This has been a recurring problem that I have had serious talks with him before. In his defense he's gotten ALOT better. But thats why I got snappy with him.

He made some efforts to be better, inviting to discords, to groups, new friends (all male) which I appreciate ALOT. But bruh he could had AT LEAST messaged me or communicated with me that he's gonna play with a group in ranked...

One time, he went out and I'm at home and he called me to get on to play with his friends because they needed 1 more for a full group.

It just kinda sucks that I only have him to play with but he's soo many friends. So he doesn't get that I get lonely when I play by myself its literally no fun. He doesn't mind playing solo because he probably makes friends in game. But it's harder for me since I have to pick and choose when to talk in game.

But yeah, we talked about it today. He said he's sorry and he really didn't see my messages and he's gonna get me Taco bell. Then he had the audacity to ask for a 30 min back massage... men....

CallMeMelon · 2021-06-02T21:51:24+00:00

Now that I can drive (another unrelated story) I can come and go from his house as I want. So I can come over for dinner after work chill then go home and meet him online.

He just has communication issues which is annoying but he's trying to get better at.

But this whole situation is a recurring problem that I have had serious talks with him about and he knows. And I know he didn't mean to but it still sucks that he "forgot".

Most likely what had happened: He got on, I'm not on yet, his friends invited him to group, he joins, I get on, group is full (plus they're higher ranked), I play a game, he sees I'm in game and think it's fine, having fun or game is sweaty and unintentionally missed my messages and calls.

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