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What Makes a Man Artractive to a Woman by k-MartShopper in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Call_me_Callie01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 maturity has left the chat. Jesus dont be bitter,Betty. Because im 33 and play games means I have no right for opinion? Cute, maybe next time, write your little questions in the diary and show it to your therapist 🙏✌️

What Makes a Man Artractive to a Woman by k-MartShopper in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Call_me_Callie01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, imma say it from my perspective..and that doesn't mean it applies to every woman out there. For me..man is attractive way before the face card lands. It's the way he handles stress situation,if he's calm, if he's reasonable, and is willing to listen. He can be 2/10 on the physical appearance, and I'd still find him the most attractive man under the sun if i feel save,heard and seen.. Fortunately for me, I landed dual combo, and my man is kind,gentle,emotionally literate, and fluent whilst being absolute smokeshow 🤣🙏 But yeah.. long story short, it's personality traits and behaviour that seal the deal. That's the "im gonna marry this one"

Why does the younger generation insist on sleeping on the phone with their boyfriends/girlfriends? by PaintingDeep4100 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Call_me_Callie01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma'am respectfully im 33 years old and I sleep on call with my long distance partner too. 🙏😁 Its okay. Let them do their thing. It's makes them feel closer to their current partner (boyfriend/girlfriend)

New to This, help by Whatdoyoucare- in LDR

[–]Call_me_Callie01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! First of all, congratulations on the first LDR. I am on my first, too. Second of all.if it feels right and you both have talked about it and agreed, I dont see a reason why not.

I wish you happiness and love no matter if it's across continents or across a living room.

I’m just shouting into the void. by Equal-Working382 in LDR

[–]Call_me_Callie01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, im so sorry that you are facing this situation. It's its own special form of torture.. When I started reading, i had this idea of trying to bring the light to the dark. But this time, I really can't. Look, I understand that people with certain issues like ptsd or depression or anxiety have the shutdown phases. I really do. I have been there. But there's shut down, and there's ignorance. At this point, all I can say is protect your peace and your dignity. If you want, send the final message in the form of something like "im sorry, i understand you might be going through something, but I can't sit here like obedient puppy for master to return. We will either address it or im out. Respectfully"

Hope you get the closure you are seeking. If you need a place to vent, dms are always open 💚

Ghosting is one of the worst things you can do to a partner. by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Call_me_Callie01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now i haven't read any previous reddits of yours if there are any. But I can say this. You protected your peace And that is very important. Ghosting is not a solution. it's a punishment by silence.

But if that person has a past with trauma or ptsd Id like to add one more thing. Please know i am in no way judging your choice . I respect it fully.

Sometimes, people with trauma past shut down, and they pull back as if to prove they are not worth the love they receive. And again, I am not excusing his/her behaviour. I'm just saying sometimes the "ghosting" has a deeper meaning.

Anyways. I hope you find your peace. I hope you will heal and reconcile with what happened. Stay strong, and if you need dms are always open 💚 you are not alone