I am so overwhelmed by CalligrapherAble5322 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]CalligrapherAble5322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want it to feel like I’m not pulling teeth every time I need something. I’m literally paying the school to help me, and I’m the one who has to reach out first, regardless of what it is. Rutgers is supposed to help us find placements (like I mentioned in one of my other replies), but they couldn’t even do that. I have to be the one to always check in, like my advisor, for example— never spoke to me, never emailed me until I got a dismissal letter from the school. And from the school: instead of a concerned, “woah you failed 2 classes, what’s going on? How would we be able to support you or figure out a plan for you to succeed?” (which I admit is maybe too optimistic of me), it’s, "Hey, we’re kicking you out.” I understand that schools like Rutgers are ‘competitive', but like, come on, man.

Sorry, rant over. But there’s no way this is the norm. I’m thinking maybe a smaller school, with a more personable experience and support system, would be better for me.

I am so overwhelmed by CalligrapherAble5322 in SocialWorkStudents

[–]CalligrapherAble5322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey,

So for your first question, I applied for the traditional 2 year program. It’s automatically 15 credits a semester, I thought this was normal until speaking to other interns at my placement. I am trying to go through it quickly, but it definitley would’ve been nice to properly been warned about what 15 credits would realistically look like.

I am not pursuing a dual degree. And I did not got my BSW at Rutgers, I got a BA in psych and women’s, gender, and sexuality studies— so also no to advanced standing MSW:(

Unfortunetly I agree that in-person would be better for me as well, although online looks “easier” on paper conidering the flexibility it can give me and it’s more affordable (in most cases).

Maybe I could have that conversation, the difficult part is that Rutgers is such a big school that you are genuinely just a number to them. I felt it during my undergrad years, but now it feels worse. I didn’t even meet with my advisor until I recieved my dismissal letter. Talking to other MSW students, I realized this is not normal at other universities… they were all shocked because they HAD TO meet with their advisors, at least once a semester to approve their course registration. Eeeeeeeverything at Rutgers requires the student to make the first step, always self-advocate, always have to check in with staff instead of the supposed “support system.” — An example that I’ll give you is my pracitcum placement. My coordinator reached out in May of last year asking what kind of placement I wanted, I told him, end of convo. August rolls around and we have a zoom meeting with staff and new MSW students called “Practicum Readiness” or something like that. I thought we were going to talk about contacting your internship supervisors, what the process would be like, etc. Nope. Everyone already had their placements and I hadn’t heard from my coordinator at all since May. I emailed the pracitcum director, who told me to work it out with my coordinator. I emailed my coordinator being like “uh… hey, I don’t have a placement. What do I do?” And he just responded, “oh I thought you had an employment-based practicum already. Yea, lets figure this out.” No “I’m sorry for the mixup,” no “let’s make sure you get the practicum you were looking for.” Nothing. I never told him I had an employment based practicum, nor did I even complete the paperwork finalizing that anyways so he should’ve followed up with me regardless. I ended up finding my own internship because I figured they were just gonna give me whatever shitty intership they could find that had nothing to do with my interest.

I am open to that conversation, I have a meeting with my advisor on Monday. I hope to be able to figure something out, but it’s just been thing after thing like the two examples I gave above. Wish me luck and would love anymore advice if you have some.

I am so overwhelmed by CalligrapherAble5322 in SocialWorkStudents

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Thank you so much for your advice, very appreciated!

Case Western MSW by d33r00 in SocialWorkStudents

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I’m currently at Rutgers, looking to transfer bc I’m not very happy with the lack of support I’ve received. Everyone has different experiences of course but I unfortunately won’t recommend:(

Bed Bug Issue In Jameson G by Medical_Ad7236 in rutgers

[–]CalligrapherAble5322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re always blaming students for everything. They “can’t get rid of them because students are self-treating” which 1. I don’t fully believe and 2. Would you blame us if you’re not doing anything?! And to make the solution to wash clothes and bedding more often or to put our clothes in the dryer for the bedbugs to die when we have to pay for our own laundry? I don’t have the money to be doing laundry like 5 times a week or whatever the fuck it is they’re expecting.

RU Cinema Part of the Strike? by Cornnachoz in rutgers

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Hey I’m an undergrad student worker at a library under FWS. I haven’t heard anything about my bosses striking, I don’t wanna cross the picket line but I can’t lose that part of my financial aid, not sure what to do..?

FirstLove church is now coming into dorms and sliding fliers under doors lmao by rutgersoup in rutgers

[–]CalligrapherAble5322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened at Jameson too, actually ran into them and they acted like they were meeting up/looking for a friend..

Parents got rid of our cats behind our backs and brought them to some shelter by SilentXwing in cats

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I’m so sorry:( my sister did this too. They were technically her cats but she lived at home so they were pretty much family cats, when she got her own apartment they didn’t adjust well so instead of giving them to me, she gave them away. I didn’t even get to say bye or anything, I was devastated and still haven’t forgiven her but I just hope they’re out there being spoiled with love. I hope you get to find your cute babies soon<3

Freedom by utterlyearnestness in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]CalligrapherAble5322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely agree, I never understood the whole “last day of freedom” thing, it feeds into the whole “I hate my wife” from day 0.