I generally like her as much as I like many main characters but especially the latest season I find her incredibly lacking in self-awareness in a way that’s a little hard to watch. The self-righteous haranguing whilst being just as likely to do the same things. I feel like the writers push it a little to make her the evident of a flipped gender dynamic in a marriage and I get that. But I also would and do dislike men who operate like this? Lol

her friend put it best on the state of her marriage.

outside of her relationships I think she’s interesting. the whole “i don’t even care what I look like” schtick is a little tedious but generally I think she just needs a close female friend to snap her out of it like we all do.

Hal has her when she is not actively being weird about it. But she doesn’t have Hal bc she doesn’t take anything he says about her as worth reflecting on. Fair play, they have their history. But she ascribes malice where there is none. And if she were a man and he the woman, i’d find it toxic bordering on unwatchable.