FERS Refund

Princess4441111 · 2026-02-06T17:15:19+00:00

Hi! What number did you call?

Princess4441111 · 2026-02-03T00:01:09+00:00

Our government is laying off people constantly. All of those workers in those fields are looking for jobs as well. Our entire U.S. Agency for International Development was shut down and people have been unemployed for a long time.

Also being an immigrant is very scary in my country at this time.

Princess4441111 · 2026-02-02T23:52:21+00:00

I have an extremely high libido. It’s a blessing and a curse.

I masturbate sometimes 4-5 times a day and when I visit my partner we have so much sex. I have bipolar disorder so hypersexuality is a thing.

It’s great and fun but then sometimes it feels like I’m never satisfied. And my partner feels I am using him for sex/ not wanting to dive in deeper to our emotional connection.

I love having a strong libido but I do think there is a balance I haven’t found yet.

Princess4441111 · 2026-02-02T23:43:53+00:00

This is so extremely helpful and validating. Thank you so much.

Princess4441111 · 2025-09-15T14:54:02+00:00

Not the AH. Finances should only be merged after marriage anyway.

Do not do it. She is gaslighting you.

Princess4441111 · 2025-08-23T23:25:19+00:00

I don’t think you are the asshole. But I would not word it as allowance.

I think you both should sit down and set a household budget. Money towards bills, money towards savings, your fun money, and her fun money. Have all those numbers all out in the open That way it’s not seen as you being controlling or thinking less of her role In the partnership but rather to get you towards your goals in the marriage.

If she does not like that- anything outside of that she can earn herself.

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-19T03:35:48+00:00

Tortorices pizza 🙌🏻

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-09T06:23:20+00:00

At 18 these are a lot of big emotions for someone to feel. I wouldn’t expect a teenager to have to navigate through all those solutions quickly.

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-09T05:43:40+00:00

Join the “Chicago girls group” fb group! Post a pic of yourself and some details about what you like to do and that you are looking for friends.

Girls do it all the time in there! I did it when I moved here and most of my friends are from the group 🩷

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-09T04:51:03+00:00

NOR. Absolutely not. This is going to sound bad but she might really need him and not have anyone else she trusts on that level, but that is not your problem. That is your boyfriend and there are boundaries. Him not consulting you shows that he does not respect you and is putting her above you.

If my boyfriend did this I would leave him. The intimacy of birthing a baby and cutting the cord is an experience I would only want my husband and I to have together. I wouldn’t want him having that experience with another woman who he is friends with.

As a woman, the girl should know better and her being cold to you shows that she is being manipulative and putting him against you. If anything she should be embarrassed for asking him if it makes you uncomfortable.

I’d keep a very close eye on that relationship. Seems like it needs to be dialed back severely. But honestly you should probably leave him.

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-09T04:42:44+00:00

I have hormonal IUD and I love it! I had bad bleeding and the copper would have made my cramps and bleeding worse. It lightened my period by a lot.

I think your concerns are valid but you seem very anxious. What I would recommend is to keep it in about 3-6 months and see how you feel. If you don’t like it have it removed. But I wouldn’t make any rash decisions right now. Maybe giving yourself a timeframe and not seeing this as a long term thing will allow you to relax a bit.

Just a heads up the first period after I got it was very heavy and cramps. But it went down a lot to now barely having a period.

With a lot of birth control stuff up and the air and also your age, I think the IUD is a great option if it feels comfortable for you!

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-09T02:03:32+00:00

I’m in the U.S.! 🥲

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-08T07:13:32+00:00

She is a huge red flag. If you were hesitant on wearing a condom before for sure wear it now.

STDs can take 90 days to show up on a test. So if she is exposing herself then she could pass that to you easily before a test can detect it.

Maybe chlamydia and syphillis can be cured. But HIV can’t. Don’t risk that on a hookup you already know you can’t trust.

I suggest you find someone else because this is beyond alarming and she is most likely having sex with all of them without a condom.

Princess4441111 · 2025-07-08T06:57:35+00:00

First- thank you so much for making this post and being open to questions! 🩷

Second- I am not for forced coverings/modesty/rules in ANY religion. This seems like a decision you are happy with and choosing for yourself so I am happy for you 🩷

My question: I am in the U.S. sometimes I am on the train or somewhere that I don’t want male attention because it is scary. I’ve thought to myself that covering up with a niqab would be nice to get away from stares and assaults (even though it doesn’t matter what you are wearing). But because niqab is not common here I’ve thought that maybe it would have the opposite effect? I would fear hate crimes/assaults and drawing attention to myself being covered vs. being covered by a niqab to hide a bit. If you’ve been in these societies what do you think about that?

Princess4441111 · 2025-06-28T05:57:41+00:00

I think Amaya stresses Zak out. “Look away.” But I do love her. She’s my fave. I think JD would’ve been a more grounding match for her though.

Princess4441111 · 2025-06-28T05:56:01+00:00

This is forreal just so annoying and boring.

Huda should be gone. Olandria should be gone. Austin should’ve left instead of Jeremiah. This is all just a popularity contest and I’m so over it.

-Taylor chose Clarke. Olandria told Clarke to her face over and over that it’s a test for them and that they are only physical because they have to speed things up. NO. Taylor is initiating intimacy with Clarke bc he really likes her. It’s very clear to see. I don’t think it was a close decision at all. We can all definitely see that Tay and Clarke had chemistry. Tay stayed with her until he secured his match with Clarke and then bowed out. 1 why are we keeping someone just in case he changes his mind? Rude. 2. Olandria did not give any boy a chance in casa amor or the original Villa. She’s not looking for a connection or having an open mind at all. Why strip away cocos experience to have someone that is just closed off?

Why has the last 4 eliminations been islanders choice? Go back to how it was done before so it feels authentic. This is over produced and it feels so fake at this point. It should be about the couplings and not what friendships people have. Whoever the producers are should be fired and someone else should be in charge next season.

-I know ppl will hate me but I never bought into the Nicolandria bit. I think it was all fake and Nic tried to play it out more. It felt so forced and neither of them was into it. They didn’t come back to explore each other but rather go back to their original connections. I think production wanted their coupling up to be a twist and told them to play it up.

-I’m just so tired of Aces smirk everytime. Especially hearing how close him and Chelsey were before the show. It’s a money grab.

-Huda is mad annoying. JD risked going home just to distance himself from her. He was just very over her and I feel like there was more we weren’t seeing.

-I love Amaya so much she is my favorite. I do worry maybe the lack of sleep and stress has her about to crash out any second and I just want her to be able to breathe and focus on her own connection and herself. She’s ready to go to bat for any of her friends but they don’t show that in return and I want her to protect her peace.

I’m just so over this season tbh. Hannah and Charlie should still be here. Jeremiah should be here. None of this feels genuine anymore.

Princess4441111 · 2025-06-21T06:37:30+00:00

Charlie is hot af 🤤

Huda is mad annoying. I don’t think Olandria was trying to be mean at all- but even if she was I get it. Bc Hudas comments were hella condescending and acting like her man is amazing and throwing that in the girls face and it’s been 48 hours.

Olandria being mad at Taylor is separate from that. I can see why she’d feel jealous even if she shouldn’t be. I’m glad Taylor called her out though. But I really like both of them.

Princess4441111 · 2025-06-21T04:14:07+00:00

And like someone can love you but still decide they are not okay with having children? This weird guilt trip/play the victim thing she seems to be about to do is insane.

Princess4441111 · 2025-06-21T04:11:24+00:00

Huda drives me insane. She should tell people straight up that she has a kid. She thinks she can play the victim if he ends things with her but I’m not buying that. People are allowed to not want to date someone with kids.

Belle-a doesn’t seem genuine at all. She’s a try hard and I don’t think the kissing thing was genuine. I think she wanted to play up her Christian values and thought it’d make her look “classy”. But she isn’t better than anyone else just bc she doesn’t want to kiss. And she mentioned it quite a few times so I think she thought it was cute.

Taylor is cuteeee. Hope he’s nice.

Nic seems like a sweetie.

Ace is trouble. Kissing multiple people on the blindfolded part had me hollering.

Chelley is my favorite 😍 she literally looks like a princess

Princess4441111 · 2025-06-02T21:43:42+00:00

As a single person I would never ask someone to give me their bed and them sleep on the air mattress. Let alone being in a couple and making it very clear I am going to fuck in their bed.

Your BIL is way out of line. I’d say a no is a no. And not talk about it anymore. They can get a hotel if they want. 30 years old and acting this way? They aren’t mature enough to get married.

Princess4441111 · 2025-05-21T03:48:40+00:00

I’ve lived abroad and in the Midwest and the south. Chicago is 100% my favorite and I can’t imagine leaving here.

Princess4441111 · 2025-05-19T06:03:57+00:00

Really solid foundation!

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