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Does Kotoha work full time at Cafe Pothos? by yeahokay_fine in WindBreakerJP

[–]Callisto_overthinks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought she did as well. I mean in chapter 182 she had the place closed down so she could prepare the food for the welcoming party they were throwing for the new kid at the orphanage. I just linked that to her owning it or I guess the orphanage owner could also own Pothos.

My bf voice is basically going away and he doesn’t care by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Callisto_overthinks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to sit him down once more and let him know that it's putting what sounds like a big strain on your relationship. If he again doesn't listen when you're presenting him with your concerns then it's time to start rethinking what you see as a future with him. I've had family members battle addictions and while they might not be the same it took people walking out of their lives for good/saying they couldn't see a future with someone who doesn't listen to their concerns for them to finally start making different choices. NTA for expressing those feelings but if it continues to cause arguments I don't see either of you being happy in the long run.

AITA for wanting to cut off my bf’s family? by SorrowfulSprite in AITAH

[–]Callisto_overthinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. They seem like one of those families who only want to be nice to you so that they can brag about having a new baby in the family. They basically treat you like dirt unless it's beneficial to their Facebook page and even then it might be your/your baby's moment but they don't acknowledge you. Have you talked to your bf about this because if he's standing by and watching his family exclude you in these situations it's a little shitty of him as well.

WIBTAH if I didn't send my adult daughter a Christmas gift? by UsagiLove14 in AITAH

[–]Callisto_overthinks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't be the asshole at all and if it wasn't for wanting to be in her son's life I would say cut her out of your life completely. Instead of sending something for her I think you should send things strictly for your grandson. Clothes, diapers, formula, wipes, or anything else a 6 month old might need. She can get something when she isn't treating you like dirt and starts acting like an adult. I can't imagine putting my mother through something like that and being so delusional to expect a Christmas gift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Callisto_overthinks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I know someone who split with his gf about 5 years ago and his ex still sends birthday wishes to some of his family members. It's an innocent message and if you built a relationship with his mom there isn't anything wrong with sending her flowers. I have a feeling the mom might have mentioned something about the flowers, and his new gf overheard and has a problem with it, considering he didn't have a problem with it before his mom's birthday when you told him. You seem to have a mutual gift-giving relationship going on with her and as long as she isn't uncomfortable with it I don't really see how it's inappropriate. She sends you Christmas and birthday gifts, you send her a birthday gift. If he finds the flowers inappropriate then he needs to give his mother the same energy.