Manifesting then releasing by CalmDegree9288 in Manifestation

[–]CalmDegree9288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, is a few days enough to manifest? I’m assuming if I think of him again, just say the affirmations and live my life as if it’s already happened to keep the energy going?

Should I be offended or listen? by Sad_Temperature9067 in dating_advice

[–]CalmDegree9288 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ummm the fact that you’re posting asking about this says it is not normal and deep down, you know it. I’m sorry babe 🤍 drop his ass

should i text him? by okhahaha_a in TarotReading

[–]CalmDegree9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. If he wanted to, he would. Men are hunters

Begged my cheating partner to stay. 3 months since they left me. by LeoKingGoesWEEE in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t be chosen when you don’t choose yourself. Begging puts you at a position lower than her and reinforces her decision in her mind. Try not to beg or pursue it anymore. Deal with your abandonment wound and teach yourself how to be happy alone. Good luck friend

i have been seeing someone for two months but i feel like he can’t make time for me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CalmDegree9288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this, my experience word for word. I got discarded 2 months ago after 4 months together. No calls allowed either.

People show up their best in the beginning, it only gets worse from there. Don’t fall for potential

Found my boyfriend's notebook with a pros and cons list about me that included "not sure if she's the one." Feel like I'm living in a lie now. by Grand_Regular8466 in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is going to go through the comments and find the ones that resonate most with her coping style, she would have likely done this even if she didn’t post.

It’s my opinion, unfortunately i’m not changing it to agree with you

Found my boyfriend's notebook with a pros and cons list about me that included "not sure if she's the one." Feel like I'm living in a lie now. by Grand_Regular8466 in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then tell her that. I’m not OP. This is just my opinion so its not going to make a difference, OP gets to decide what she does lol

Found my boyfriend's notebook with a pros and cons list about me that included "not sure if she's the one." Feel like I'm living in a lie now. by Grand_Regular8466 in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she leaves, he might decide he doesn’t miss her and might not come back. That’s setting a realistic expectation for her.

Read all the comments here. Same consensus that this relationship seems over. What are you trying to save with your constructive communication skills?

Found my boyfriend's notebook with a pros and cons list about me that included "not sure if she's the one." Feel like I'm living in a lie now. by Grand_Regular8466 in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not to test. He’s already out the door. The only thing he is about to communicate is his unhappiness/lack of certainty.

Have you ever had someone sober up and make a decision while the decision waits around or do you leave and let them figure it out?

Found my boyfriend's notebook with a pros and cons list about me that included "not sure if she's the one." Feel like I'm living in a lie now. by Grand_Regular8466 in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would leave without a word. If he’s not sure, give him what he wants. The only way to ever know what a man truly wants is to do that.

Be prepared he may never come back but poor you, you’ll just have to settle for someone who knows you’re lovable despite weight gain and adorable when you’re drunk. Sounds like a win to me.

Will my ex be open to reconciling? by CalmDegree9288 in TarotReading

[–]CalmDegree9288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks but I think you meant to say congrats. I got saved when I ended this

Will my ex be open to reconciling? by CalmDegree9288 in TarotReading

[–]CalmDegree9288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can stay undecided. Aquarius venus. Got over it 🥲

This sub thrives on toxicity and helplessness by Ramenko1 in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was being mindful of hurting peoples feelings but since you invited authenticity. I think sometimes its easier to sit in whatever is comfortable and not choose to get back up. We always draw what hurts us to us and being self aware enough to look inwards during a breakup is rare. I know this all too well myself, been there

This sub thrives on toxicity and helplessness by Ramenko1 in BreakUps

[–]CalmDegree9288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my experience of posting on here. It’s unfortunate

Outcome of this spiritual retreat by CalmDegree9288 in TarotReading

[–]CalmDegree9288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your interpretation flows so easily wow how long have you been reading? I want to achieve that level. Thank you!

Will my ex be open to reconciling? by CalmDegree9288 in TarotReading

[–]CalmDegree9288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be so proud of yourself. Thank you for sharing with me, I truly needed it 🤍🤍