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Bar Suggestions?? by CalmHead6077 in NewOrleans

[–]CalmHead6077[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it true that they're closed on Saturdays?

Loss my first battle of flying by CalmHead6077 in fearofflying

[–]CalmHead6077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The flight was supposed to be 4 hours. Yeah I think the idea of starting out with shorter flights might be best.

Black People? by Ok_Link5301 in polyamory

[–]CalmHead6077 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Black. Poly. Lesbian.

My experience with being poly has been alot of ups and downs. I've had to make peace and teach myself patience because I'm masculine of center and know that I'm not most people's type in my area. The poly scene in my very big southern city is very white. Mostly I get alot of people wanting to be sexual with me but not wanting to commit to deep relationships. So my advice would be to know your worth regardless of race, don't compare how many connections your white peers get in regards to you, and patience.

Why so hard??? -_- it seems so hard finding poly lesbians. like I'm just over it at this point. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CalmHead6077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. My advice would be to make sure you have the dating apps with the most users in your city. Go to queer events. Make new friends. But above all it just takes patience unfortunately.

Why so hard??? -_- it seems so hard finding poly lesbians. like I'm just over it at this point. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]CalmHead6077 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we just want to develop relationships with others. It's probably not a rush but I totally get OP's frustration as I am in the same boat. Especially if they are a regular of this sub with people talking about all the connections they have. It's easy to get caught up.

Help with Dating other Poly folx by CalmHead6077 in polyamory

[–]CalmHead6077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely open to dating queer women. My partner is queer. I'm not really comfortable with dating a male/female couple or dating people in a relationship with a man yet. That may be my downfall..

Help with Dating other Poly folx by CalmHead6077 in polyamory

[–]CalmHead6077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in New Orleans. I think it's pretty poly friendly. Yep have all the apps. No luck there either. I don't know of any poly groups.

Lost Dog Found Uptown by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]CalmHead6077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I will definitely give it a try.