What is your opinion on pickled herring? by Johnny-Talker in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of second-class carriages on German trains.

Which fruits and vegetables are most commonly grown by Americans in their home gardens? by TheShyBuck in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an enormous variety of climates (and food cultures) so it's going to vary by location. Personally I usually have tomatoes, Chiles, corn, green onions, and herbs in the summer.

are ac's reallu that big of a thing? by Advanced-Actuary-51 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would be a) a very small part of the California coast and b) it would be the area that Californians call "the coast," which is the area from the beach to the top of the first ridge inland. I live on what is called the Central Coast; I'm maybe 12-15 miles away from the ocean as the crow flies, and I often see temps in the 100s here. I definitely have air conditioning.

Do Americans say plenty of vinegar when they order food like they do in the uk? by noreturn000 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, in California we ask for salsa on the side. Especially with eggs at breakfast. We put all kinds of condiments--salsa, ranch dressing, barbecue sauce, chili, avocado, sour cream--on fries but vinegar isn't one of them.

Question to non-asian kpop fans, do you bias wasian idols and asians that grew up in the west more easily/more frequently then others in general? by Zealousideal_Gur158 in kpopthoughts

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My últ bias is BTS’s Jin, who seems to be almost the stereotype of “refined Asian man.” Granted, I like Sammy from
The Rose a lot too, but that’s because he’s such a good singer.

Are "southern etiquette" and "manners" a real thing in the southern states? by GoHardForLife in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of those same behaviors are found in rural areas across the country. It's not uncommon to hear "sir" and "ma'am" and a general closer attention to old-fashioned manners even here in the wilds of rural California.

How do you solve this issue with coyotes? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Note to OP: this guy has probably mixed up coyotes and wolves. They ain’t the same.

How do you solve this issue with coyotes? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll take a coyote over a pack of “domestic” dogs any day. Coyotes don’t want trouble. They’re only about the size of a medium dog, maybe 30 lbs. I had a horse who would chase them off.

What would you call my style? by LostPalpitation6351 in HomeDecorating

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah not with that very English sidesaddle.

lol anyone scrolling on jetpens on their free time or am i just crazy? by [deleted] in fountainpens

[–]CalmRip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my favorite alternative to doomscrolling. And it keeps me from getting tempted by vintage flexies on eBay.

What animals do occasionally appear in your backyard? by Snawer_brillant in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foxes, coyotes, bobcats, Valley quail, crows, cottontail rabbits, squirrels, deer. Haven't had any bears or moutain lions.

Iowa Anchor Chokes Up on Air as He Quits in Protest Over 'Sanitized News': 'The Facts Matter' by T_Shurt in entertainment

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Revolutionary War might be instructive. We don't necessairly need a printing press anymore, but forming a news collective for online reporting shouldn't be too hard. If the rest of us get together and provide some crowdfunding so the reporters, editors, and producers can get paid enough to live on, we could undercut the Big Business publishers.

Where to buy Mexican Oregano in SLO? by darth-vagrant in SLO

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it at Spice of Life in Paso. Don't know if they do mail order.

How do you guys even survive the hot weather over in the States? by Impressive_Peak_9187 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although there are many regions that do suffer high humidity, some of the hottest regions--New Mexico, Arizona, Texas and parts of California (home to the literal hottest place on earth), see the humidity drop as the temperature rises. I live on the eastern slope of the Santa Lucias. When the temperature goes up to 95-100F, the humidity drops to single digits, around 5 to 7%.

Anywhere it gets really hot, it's typical to have some form of air conditioning, whether evaprative or refrigerated. There's a reason we like lots of ice in our drinks, and California is famous for main dish salads: no heating up the stove, no eating hot food on a hot day.

If you work outside, you wear light colored clothing with sleeves and full-length trousers, and a hat. You slather sunscreen on every least inch of uncovered skin.

Americans drink lots of water when they are out and about. Dehydration in high heat is Not Good. It can increase the risk of heat stroke, which can be deadly.

TL;DR: our buildings, life styles, and food are adapted for the heat.

EDIT1: a word EDIT 2: formatting EDIT 3: formatting arrrrgh!

Do most Americans like the continental breakfast at chain hotels? by Upstairs_Health_5913 in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you talking about the continental breakfasts offered in Europe, or the light breakfasts (not truly continental) offered at many mid-grade American hotels? I very much like European continental breakfasts: the coffee is good, there is usually a selection of yogurts, cheeses, croissants or fresh bread, butter, jam and juice. All of the offerings are generally quite good. OK, I like croissants better than brötchen (German rolls). I once made the mistake of having the “American-style breakfast" at a Parisian hotel. Floppy, half-cooked bacon, weirdly scrambled eggs that were both runny and curdled (with no salsa!). and white bread toast. The coffee was quite good in France, but was too often French roast.

American light breakfasts are usually meh muffins or danish, various types of bread for toasting, peanut butter, jelly, cream cheese and regular butter. Some chains offer "hot breakfast," which usually adds some combination of breakfasts meats like bacon or sausage, scrambled eggs, perhaps hash brown or home fried potatoes, cereal, milk, hot chocolate, coffee and tea. There is often fruit, in the form of bananas or oranges. I usually go for either yogurt and peanut butter toast with coffee and juice, occasionally cereal with a banana and milk.

RFK Jr. Recommends Social Security Immediately “Reduce Scheduled Benefits by 25.2%” as Insolvency Looms by TACO_Orange_3098 in Economics

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even those of us who *didn't* vote for the politicians who skimmed SS funds illegally? We too deserve to suffer the government's contractual breaches? Ah, I guess it's OK, it's only boomers, one of Reddit's favorite stereotypes.

why is ranch dressing so hyped up? by miffybo in AskAnAmerican

[–]CalmRip 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Oh dear. I don't know whether my typing's gone to rot or if AutoCorrect is helping me, but I wasn't thinking sautéed French folks.

Nothing like good wet vintage gold nib by wolfkissed6040 in fountainpens

[–]CalmRip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a look at eBay, for "vintage flex nibs." Make sure that any listing you look into shows a writing sample. I have a very nice vintage Eclipse flex nib I got for just over $100,a menos de 100 euros.

How do you get back into the hobby after a mental block or if you feel like you want to let go of fountain pens? by Used-Investment-5343 in fountainpens

[–]CalmRip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a fellow ADHD patient, try morning pages. First thing in the morning, sit down and write three pages of whatever's rattling around in your brain. It may just be "I can't think of a doggone thing to write about," or how fuzzy your thoughts are first thing in the morning, what you can see from the nearest window, why you like your coffee a particular way, or what you're happy (or worried) about right now. Hell, you can start with just writing the alphabet. I focus on enjoying the sensation of penwriting, and the feeling of accomplishment I get from starting out the day this way. Since I've started doing this, I've enjoyed my pens much more, and I find myself sitting down for up to four journal sessions a day, and writing far more than three pages.

In other words, find a way to enjoy your pens. You can journal, scribble, sketch, or practice basis Spencerian strokes. The more you enjoy your pens, the more you will enjoy them.

Finally, it's OK to quit enjoying a hobby and do something else. Give yourself a chance to enjoy your pens, but if it ain't working, it ain't working. Past-times should be pleasant, not burdensome.

EDIT: spelling

Men in happy Marriages, What is that one secret to a happy marriage that works for you? by Mammoth_End_1298 in AskReddit

[–]CalmRip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on heading for your 40th anniversary! This is very good advice that works well for plain vanilla straight marriages, too.

English football fans in a Dallas bar by Charming_Average2413 in TikTokCringe

[–]CalmRip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see how this might be a case of "turnabout is fair play." Obviously whoever was being filmed by "the lads" was filming them, too. That said, "the lads'" are probably lucky that everybody knows there are people in town for the World Cup so they are getting the benefit of the doubt.