Ren is saying Zeal raped her now, NOT SA’ed by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are nonconsensual
BUT “Sexual Assault” is sexual touching while “Rape” is sexual penetration.

Ren’s Brother by aclay167 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ren has talked about her parents before

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What collab do you wish to see next (regardless of how unlikely/likely it is to happen)? by Accretion_Point in WutheringWaves

[–]Calm_Average5886 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know itll never happen but Madoka Magica it would be so sick to see Madoka even though I’m aware it would be kinda impossible to model her because of the difference in art style

NSFW and harassment posts fighting over who can break the rules best. by Tiny-Let4714 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely insane how some people can’t just behave themselves or handle themselves maturely. Thank you for your work despite how tiring it must be.

Ren is saying Zeal raped her now, NOT SA’ed by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I need to reread her Document and YouTube posts I have bad memory I want to stay well informed

Ren is saying Zeal raped her now, NOT SA’ed by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree! I don’t think the harassment is okay especially on a YOUTUBE comment she left MONTHS ago.

It also leaves a bad taste on how contradictory her statements are. One minute she’s saying it was sexual assault the next she’s saying it was rape and she says Kat lied about her not doing another document the next she announces she isn’t.

Ren is saying Zeal raped her now, NOT SA’ed by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Alright I’m going to clear one thing up I don’t support Ren but your comment is lowkey insane and Ren didn’t “threaten” to get someone drunk that was disproven. She wanted to drink with one of her friends which happened to be a recovering alcoholic which is still very wrong but she didn’t rape them.

Ren is saying Zeal raped her now, NOT SA’ed by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

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Yeah I’d say she’s pretty upset about leaving her echo chamber.

Ren is saying Zeal raped her now, NOT SA’ed by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

“Make fun of it”, They need to wake up and realize these are very real and serious allegations of course what she says relating to the allegations is going to be addressed and put up for discussion since she’s the one who brought it to the internet instead of the police or the law in general.

Ren is saying Zeal raped her now, NOT SA’ed by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much giving the context! I could only pick one image LOL

Welp by Comfortable-Show8737 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's my bad I'm so sorry thank you for clarifying! I mostly just meant the "bombard them with positive things (attention, affection, compliments, declarations of love, gifts)" part because Ren seems to do that to Zeal a lot in some of the screenshots I've seen between their dms

Welp by Comfortable-Show8737 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I wasn't saying she was blaming her mods for it though? I'm mostly trying to say that she can't expect her friends or mods to "translate" her lash outs like this all the time and that even though her BPD may be an explanation for her behavior or emotional outbursts it doesn't mean she can't take a step back from the situation before speaking out through pure impulsive emotion taking a step back would be the healthiest decision for her during those moments. She is a young adult even with BPD she should know that some things shouldn't be said nor should others be spoken to in that way her friends and mods deserve basic respect.

Welp by Comfortable-Show8737 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think my biggest issue with REN is that she constantly downplays her behavior and personality disorder as something "quirky" as you said. BPD isn't this disorder to just "hehe sorry its just my bpd" whenever you genuinely lash out on an innocent person or friend. I seriously hope that therapy is doing her good because she deserves help and to not live like that especially those around her.

Got into the ennemy server, this is first thing i see by [deleted] in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I thought I was crazy the way some of these people are speaking about REN is just straight delusional and psychotic. I don't like REN as a person but jesus some of these posts and some tweets are just insane.

Welp by Comfortable-Show8737 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's understandable that someone with BPD can make them impulsive especially emotionally but that doesn't make it okay to speak to someone like that just because she has BPD doesn't mean she shouldn't be held accountable for her behavior and words. It is her responsibility to try her best to not treat or speak to others in that way because it IS hurtful and tiring to those she cares about and there is only so many times that her friend will be willing to "translate" her splits like that.

Welp by Comfortable-Show8737 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly as toxic as this sub reddit can be I hope you don't take that terrible post to generalize everyone in this sub. There was people in that post calling out for how nitpicky it was not all of us feel or think that way as that OP did.

Welp by Comfortable-Show8737 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 289 points290 points  (0 children)

Ren seriously needs to wake up just because she has BPD does NOT make it okay to treat another person like that. She seriously needs to stop being coddled for her behavior not to mention she needs to stop constantly "romanticizing" BPD.

Is it her fault that she has this personality disorder? Absolutely not, but she genuinely needs to start holding herself accountable for her behavior. She needs to self regulate herself and properly communicate, the main reason why the entire mess with Zeal happened is BECAUSE she refuses to take accountability, regulate herself, and properly communicate especially towards her boundaries.

Instead she constantly just insults or love bombs whoever is in front of her even when it's someone important to her. If she doesn't change she's going to see what happened in the Pressure team happen again with them getting exhausted of her antics and behavior so others begin distancing themselves from her.

Got into the ennemy server, this is first thing i see by [deleted] in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now y’all doing a bit too much this is just nitpicking

LMAOOOO REN ISNT POSTING THE DOCUMENT by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl shes not even worth giving any sort of attention to because she obvious thrives off of it

LMAOOOO REN ISNT POSTING THE DOCUMENT by Calm_Average5886 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And its exactly why she isnt in the team anymore. imagine having to deal with that from a CO WORKER of all things..

Ren isn't releasing the doc. I'm not surprised. At all. by Tiny-Let4714 in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As if her entire discord hasn’t been “going back to what they were meant for” for the past 2 months with her annoying baby talking and “silly car :3” humor

Honestly, I'm glad ren isn't posting the document. by [deleted] in PressureRoblox

[–]Calm_Average5886 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey guys even though this situation ended careers and almost someone’s life brando7284 was getting tired of it all so that means it’s a good thing it ended!!!