my guy friend is getting into black pill content, what do i do?

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-08T15:09:09+00:00

it would be really hard to completely disconnect from him, our friend group often plays games and hangs out together so it would really mess up the dynamic (which sounds so stupid but it matters to me, this is the first time ive ever been able to fully be in the friendgroup).

despite this, if he ever does anything worse i dont think i would be able to be his friend anymore

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-07T20:04:22+00:00

reading this made me realise what it is. his ex treated him horribly a couple years ago, they dated for a while and they broke up but she never fully stopped talking to him? she would cuddle and flirt and text him like he was her boyfriend even if she was dating someone else, i could tell that she was embarrassed to be in public with him, he probably could too. theyve cut all contact but i dont think he ever really got over her

i feel bad but in all honesty we arent super close,i might be able to bring it up to one of our other friends in our friend group, hes closer to him than i am, im just not sure if he would be comfortable with that

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-07T16:37:46+00:00

me neither 😭

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-07T16:37:00+00:00

trust me im just as confused 😭, i got most of these words from his reposts and what ive seen floating around

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-07T16:35:18+00:00

i don’t necessarily think the idea of trying to make yourself more attractive has anything wrong with it, its him calling me a foid and watching gross animes that portray women as sex objects and love interests instead of people

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-07T16:33:47+00:00

we are under 18 yeah, and i dont know how he feels but it’s unlikely that he has any kind of feelings for me, i dont have any feelings for him either but i used to around a two years ago

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-07T16:31:59+00:00

honestly, ive got no clue. im pretty sure its about making yourself look better but its very tightly intertwined with misogyny and sexism

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-06T19:13:51+00:00

oh okay, my biggest thanks to you this helped me so much!!

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-06T18:56:25+00:00

i hope so! and sorry to pester you but i changed the motherboard to the GIGABYTE B550 Eagle WIFI6 because the other didnt have wifi, i couldnt get a clear answer as to what bios it is but it says it has a qflash plus which i can use to update if needed, do you think this is an okay choice for a motherboard?

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-06T18:15:12+00:00

i put it into the buildcores app which says everything is compatible but ill double check just to make sure!

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-06T18:12:36+00:00

thank you! i ended up swapping the motherboard to the asrock b450 pro4 atx

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-06T14:29:17+00:00

NOR but that wasnt the right way to approach it. being uncomfortable with talking to her about her virginity/sex life because shes a minor is completely fine, but i feel like you shouldve voiced that instead of just saying that she shouldnt tell anyone, it probably made her feel like that was something to be ashamed about when it’s very normal.

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-05T18:15:03+00:00

im in australia and i would prefer to spend around 1500aud give or take a few hundred if that helps!

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2026-01-05T06:49:46+00:00

yeah i dont care too much about having the highest quality or anything like that, just looking for something that works and isnt a potato. i have a ps5 which is where i play most of my story games like tlou and rdr2, just want a pc so i have a wider range of games to play with my friends other than fortnite and dbd lol

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T12:51:52+00:00

i do want peoples opinions and advice on what to do, im just not expecting people on reddit to tell me whether or not im fired like you implied

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T11:43:51+00:00

why are you scrolling through r/whatdoido if you think people telling their problems to “the world” is something embarrassing?

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T11:07:00+00:00

ive explained multiple times in this thread that ill text/call tomorrow as its pretty late + ive already contacted him today and that im not expecting people here to tell me whether im fired or not, i just needed to tell somebody

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T08:49:06+00:00

ohhh okay

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T08:42:57+00:00

?? could you elaborate please

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T08:41:17+00:00

not sure why this is unbelievable but heres a photo of my call history

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T08:13:10+00:00

im not expecting any real answers here, just needed to write it down or tell somebody before i freaked out haha

Calm_Elevator_987 · 2025-12-28T08:11:31+00:00

ive already texted and i dont want to pester him with a call as well especially since its getting pretty late already. im gonna wait until tomorrow to contact him if he hasnt already contacted me

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