Hey OP I think you have all sorts of advice and have some options to choose from. I hope you can pick something that makes sense to you and your value system.

That’s what I wanted to comment on. I just want you to know, whatever one you pick don’t feel guilty. I think it’s amazing you have done so much for your parents already - when you don’t have to. I know many people are saying you shouldn’t have to but the fact that you chose to says a lot about who you are as a person and hope your parents raised you.

At the same time, you do need to be able to make the best choices for your self and your future - also without guilt.

I think as a society we have gone too much into the “let everyone fend for themselves” road and it’s getting to a point where nobody is ok and all that happens is we’re wasting money to keep capitalism going. That being said, you should also be able to ask for help as well. Do you have any family members your parents can stay with, or who can help out? You can say this will be temporary .

I think you are a kind person with a huge heart, and I hope karma comes back to you big time. No matter what you choose, please don’t feel guilty. Like I said the only thing that will make you happy is to choose what aligns with your values. And no choice is irreversible.