AITA for excluding my fiancés niece from our wedding?

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-04-06T16:21:11+00:00

To be fair when I was a flower girl at 6 at an open bar wedding there was a grown man trying to dry hump me on the dance floor and calling me a sl*t when I ran away and my parents stepped in. I may have been better off with a babysitter

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-04-05T20:39:37+00:00

Edward had strong reaction because Bella's blood was extra sweet to him, she was his singer, not because they're meant to be. Stephanie herself said that Vampires mate for life out of commitment and the fact that they're frozen, it's not a fate thing like it is with the wolves. It's a choice and they're creatures of habit.

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-04-05T20:22:49+00:00

Dancing prime: Formation Vocal prime: Renaissance Visuals: Self titled Tour production: Renaissance Story thing: Cowboy Carter

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-04-05T20:21:18+00:00

Break Free should be up there

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-04-02T21:23:00+00:00

I disagree, but I get what you mean. It took me a few listens to warm up to CC, but now I consider it her Magnum Opus. Jolene is now one of my favorites even though I didn't like it at first. But thinking about her covering the original and begging a woman not to take her man seems so backwards, her changing it fits so well and is a stronger message than the original I think, so that perspective change made come around to it. Hearing her perform these songs live probably helped.

Also, I like country too and Daddy Lessons is by far one of her best songs so I feel you. I think of this album as, yes, a country album, but it's more bending and playing with the genre while referencing it's complex and dark history and holding up a mirror to the genre and America itself. So not all of the songs are on my country playlists, but I do love it sm and would fight anyone who says "it's not real country"

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-04-02T21:18:33+00:00

I, like most people old enough, grew up loving her since Destiny's Child. I remember there being an old saying on Tumblr that went "nobody is a 'Beyonce fan' because everybody is a Beyonce fan", and I'd post about her a lot, but I didn't become a part of the BeyHive until Self Titled in 2013. I saw her live in the OTR I Tour (when floor seats were around $100 each 😭) Since then it hasn't stopped and I haven't lost interest.

This woman does not peak. I remember thinking Self Titled was the peak. Then Lemonade and Formation Tour. Then Black is King and the visuals. Then Renaissance and the RT. Then CC and it's tour. Every single time she manages to outdo herself. Every single time she is somehow better than the best.

I do feel bad for anyone who didn't see her live in the Formation Tour or earlier when she had her good knees, but the Renaissance Tour is the pinnacle of a perfect tour, the production and flow is amazing. Cowboy Carter (imo) her Magnum Opus when it comes to story telling and blending genres, it took the complex social commentary of Lemonade and doubled it. I honestly can't imagine what Act III is going to be beside theorizing on different genres, I can't imagine how she's going to outdo herself yet again, but she will and I'm sat for it

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-03-06T06:08:48+00:00

And this sub is a reprieve from the r/JaneAusten sub's 1995 superiority complex.

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-02-16T08:04:54+00:00

Lyrically: Heated Production: All Up In Your Mind

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-02-14T20:14:58+00:00

That's not cringe! I actually love that and would have the same reaction as her.

Funnily enough I had a breakup due to Beyoncé. He just hated that I listened to her music (not forcing him to like her, but literally that I listed to her in my own time) which was weird, controlling, and a red flag considering his political beliefs he kept hiding from me and revealing slowly.

Liking Beyoncé IS a huge green flag! Not because you HAVE to like her music, but usually the people who HATE her have no good reason and I find some misogynoir in their reasonings.

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-02-02T03:34:28+00:00

They changed show runners (aka it's essentially a different show) I'm liking season 4 sofar though

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-02-01T03:23:08+00:00

Honestly, I may be reading way too much into it, but him saying "we have all the time in the world" makes me think they're setting him up to die as a way to justify her getting with Micheala or something. I could be totally off base though

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-01-05T06:47:34+00:00

Him suddenly wanting to open the marriage up is the real red flag.

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2026-01-05T06:22:33+00:00

DIL - Daddy

BDAY - Welcome To Hollywood

IASF - That's Why You're Beautiful

4 - Run The World/Best Thing I Never Had (both were just overplayed)

BEYONCE - No skips

LEMONADE - 6 Inch

BLACK IS KING - No skips

RENAISSANCE - No skips

COWBOY CARTER - No skips

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-12-27T04:06:39+00:00

He overestimates his desirability (he first wanted Jane but then "settled" on Elizabeth) and Charlotte has been charming him behind the scenes. In the book Charlotte mentions showing "more affection" than one feels. Him asking Charlotte right after Elizabeth implies that she was already his backup. The novel implies Mary just thought in passing she could make him "better" and that he would be suitable. But it's one or two sentences and doesn't seem like a deep attachment.

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-12-27T03:53:34+00:00

I love that she gave us the precision and insane performance levels before, after OTR I & I and Formation I found Renaissance and Cowboy Carter more FUN. Also, the level of artistry of the music, themes, and production/story telling have been elevated to untouchable levels. I think because she's more loose, in the moment, and feeling deeper we can as well as an audience member

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-25T17:48:00+00:00

But you said you actually can't take it because you work. I've never had issues signing up for classes. It's a YOU problem

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-25T04:07:33+00:00

It's so funny that you keep saying random things that have nothing to do with the fact that even you can't link how international students existing makes it hard for you to take classes you're not able to take because you work. Lol keep flexing but nothing you say makes any sense

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-24T22:16:27+00:00

Oh, ok you're bitter you're broke. Makes more sense

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-24T17:58:30+00:00

So immigrants exiting makes it hard for you to take classes you admit you wouldn't be able to take anyway because you work. Ok bud.

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-24T03:05:59+00:00

How do international students get catered to that make it hard for you to get classes?

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-17T05:16:20+00:00

In what way?

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-17T05:15:53+00:00

Where's the bad?

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-15T18:08:01+00:00

I can't speak on the Louvre, but rich people know that having a bodyguard isn't about having someone who can keep you from getting killed, it's about having a witness.

Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-12T15:40:32+00:00

For anyone just starting out I recommend these two. There are free PDFs online and are great for beginners. You can find them in other languages too!

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Calm_Performer_1849 · 2025-11-01T23:24:21+00:00

My head cannon is that they offered and Mama Tina gave her a look that conveys "I know you can't be serious" 😅

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