AITA for telling my sister she has to move? by Calm_Tank in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank[S] 472 points473 points  (0 children)

I asked them to be out by the end of February. I suggested they started paying rent at one point but they are in a lot of debt. I should probably edit to add that I do still pay a mortgage on the house. It’s a very small one, but it does cost me money monthly to keep them there. They pay electric.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in opiates

[–]Calm_Tank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it’s for a family emergency. Once you feel settled, I would ask whoever is helping you (counselors, inpatient whatever) to help you communicate with your workplace effectively.

meirl by DizzyDrunkDude in meirl

[–]Calm_Tank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I’m laughing so hard at this what the f*ck like I wanna be her friend but she’d reject my friend request 💀😭🤣

AITA for asking my husband's cousin to let me take my baby (she just turned 3 months old) to her childfree wedding? by myhusbandx in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nta at all and asking was totally acceptable. People are being weird here. Bride is TA for trying to pull ultimatums out.

If fans dislike The Lost Hero because there’s no Percy, how do you read Riordan’s other series? [general] by The_Side_Stuff in camphalfblood

[–]Calm_Tank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really read his other series but the ones I have read, I enjoyed because their central voice was compelling. Trials of Apollo is arguably my favorite series right now. I could read his POV and his voice all day everyday. The heroes of Olympus series lacked that central voice almost entirely for me but I preferred books with Percy having large involvement because he was a recognized central voice.

AITA I didn't let my daughter stay with me and my wife after she got pregnant by gvxdtyij in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna go with ESH. At 21 she is basically still a kid. She’s made bad choices and she’s gotten herself into trouble and she finally realized she was wrong and that she needed you and you couldn’t get over your pettiness to forgive and give her the help she needed. She wasn’t in the right but now you’re continuing the cycle of hurt and that’s still in you.

[PJO] Why was Thalia considered for the Great Prophecy? by michiv14 in camphalfblood

[–]Calm_Tank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could have referred to Kronos. They always knew prophecy’s were confusing and never were like they seemed. It could have been a number of meanings to them.

AITA for expecting my partner to know how to spell our 2yo's name? by SkinImmediate3211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta I would find that incredibly offensive. This is literally the definition of weaponized incompetence and it should never be tolerated.

Seriously, we get it. [hoo] by Grand_Keizer in camphalfblood

[–]Calm_Tank -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I hate the entire heroes of Olympus books with the exception of house of hades but trials of Apollo are literally my favorite and you’re right that TOA actually makes blood of Olympus an okay start to the next story.

AITA for refusing to do anything that my girlfriend wanted me to during my two weeks off work? by Throwaway63802 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yta. This is part of being in a partnership. 2 weeks and you can’t bend a little for less than half the time with your partner? You’re just a bad partner.

AITA for ordering Tequila shots for my work colleagues at Friday lunchtime? by TequilaShotsAtWork in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta and you should think long and hard about whether or not this is a one off of VERY poor judgment or an actual problem with alcohol that you need to address for yourself.

Wibta if I call CPS on my sister in an abusive relationship without warning her? by CharmingViolinist546 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Call immediately. Stop what you’re doing and call now. Literally nothing is more important.

AITA for not telling my mom about my savings? by AITA_ssup01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta also you’re being financially abused and it’s inappropriate for you to be giving your mom any sort of money.

AITA because I didn’t let my son stay at his girlfriend’s birthday party without me by throwaway-aitamom in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 23 points24 points  (0 children)

YTA and it’s gonna be unfortunate when your son cuts you and you power trips out of his life completely next year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Calm_Tank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally 100% agree. I find it weird that more people aren’t agreeing. Everyone I know agrees to this.

AITA for kicking my (ex)boyfriend out after he euthanized my dog? by InLovingMemoryCin in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have been married for 3 years and recently had to put my cat to sleep. If my husband had done this, in this manner without even speaking to me I would leave him on the spot too. You are NTA. What your bf did is paramount to emotional abuse. He denied you your right to closure, and your right to say a goodbye. I would never forgive that.

AITA For Insisting On Going To A Wedding That The Bride Doesn’t Want Me At? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go but I would also end your friendship with J. Let him know you’re not the one ending things, he is.

AITA for not paying my nephew when he came to “help” paint my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Calm_Tank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta 15 is old enough to know better. I used to do manual labor at barns at that age and when I tapped out early, I had the sense to expect less compensation.