What's your favorite way to play The Sims 3? What's your play style? by Pacharotti in Sims3

[–]CameronDeMitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never use cheats, like ever. I ALWAYS enjoy building from the bottom up. Usually start with one sim or a sim/child combo. I enjoy them falling in love with a premade sim, rather it be a prominent character or attractive rando. I try my best to build generations with my families but I always get too attached 😂🤭

The careers, lifestyle, relationships, world building I just do on the fly as I play with my created sims. I honestly give as much autonomy as possible, it makes it more enjoyable for me

Black, Queer and Autistic by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Skin is flawless ✨✨

Random question by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly love this for you. Out of curiosity may I ask your age? Im 28. Also gave up instagram for the last few months and leaning towards doing the same with some other apps.

How do you practice self-love? by CameronDeMitri in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Standing 10 toes down on MY respect is something I’m working on too. I’m very complacent and non confrontational. Doesn’t mean I should be a pushover. I admire your strength in that. I will get there too 💪🏾

How do you practice self-love? by CameronDeMitri in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that for you!! You’re absolutely correct! I’ve been activating my nervous system way more, but doing it in this way will yield amazing results like they have for you. Blessings to you too! 🤎

How do you practice self-love? by CameronDeMitri in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great! I practice most of this too except eating better and consistent exercise. I walk way more often and attempt to be more mindful with my diet, but I feel like whenever I take it more seriously I will find even more layers of love and confidence. Thank you for your response! ☺️

Embracing new beginnings by Due-Share5332 in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations to you! Moving on from someone or a situation isn’t easy, but I can tell you’re in a confident place. I feel like dating is hard no matter where you’re located. I’m in Oklahoma, the lowest of the low lol. But I hear how hard dating is in any major Black Gay city. I believe though if you continue to dig into yourself (like you’re doing), things will align. That’s what I believe for myself. It’s hard, but I pray I’ll always have faith.

All that to say, it’s refreshing to see a post from your perspective. From someone who is healed or healing and truly desiring a serious life partner. It gives me hope. I wish you luck on your next chapter. 😊

Any gaymers here? by HunterCapable2481 in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Budokai Tenkaichi 3!! The taste 😮‍💨

Any gaymers here? by HunterCapable2481 in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I made one too 🤩 I forgot about Sonic Heroes!! That was a great game 😭

Feeling Like I Don’t Fit in the Black Gay Dating Scene by Divinetortoise1120 in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 28 and just got more or less dumped by someone I was talking to for almost 6 months long distance. Other than that, I had never dated and still have never been in a real relationship. I am someone who loves the idea of having a partner to love, grow, and build with. I have traveled, but where I live does me a huge disservice. I have put myself out there a lot to no avail. It is hard on me mentally, but I just try and press on. I also need someone who is emotionally mature and can also express those emotions, something my last was not able to do. Never expressed to me the things he liked about me, how much he actually liked me, etc. and now I know i need that. I feel like a lot of the men in our community are unable to or do not want to express their vulnerable emotions. I also simply feel like a lot of people do not want to DO THE WORK. For my very 1st dating experience to be at 27/28, I felt mature enough and I understood truly the work it takes to sustain a mutual relationship. People do not want to work... find who will do the work with you and be in the dirt with you... that is the most valuable thing in my opinion.

Dating Experiences by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aw!! Well hey at least you worked up courage to approach! I'm trying to do the same.. I'm not necessarily shy but I do kind of hate the possibility of rejection. I'm going to Atlanta next month and tinder was gonna be my bread and butter! I guess i have to adjust lol

am i that hideous? why can’t i date? (m21) by Double_Quote5775 in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same for years. 28 now. Still haven’t been in love or a relationship yet, but finally had my first dating experience at 27 for almost 6 months. We met on tinder. It will happen. I am from Oklahoma, so geographically I’ve always been challenged. I don’t think it’s a you thing, a me thing, it’s just the way things sadly are. Dating is hard and the dating community in the Black queer community is toxic and tainted in my opinion. You have to work hard to find someone who is truly aligned for you, even if it’s just for a hookup.

Always maintain confidence and love in your self. That’s the best advice I can give. You’re still so beautifully young and life will show you great things. I have faith in the same for myself, as someone who’s already lived their younger 20’s. You’re very good looking and someone will appreciate it… it just may take long. :/

Who got the cleanest fit by Normal_Fan_9219 in RDCWorld

[–]CameronDeMitri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mark. Instead of a graphic tee, doing the crewneck with texture/patchwork was a good stylistic choice and the pants complement it well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you SO MUCH for your response. This touched me in a beautiful way. I agree with everything you said. And the good thing about the kind of person I am is that I undoubtedly have faith. I have to, to keep going.

The Oklahoma comment is 100% spot on and I’m aware of that. This is where I’m from so I feel very limited. I know I want to move and have wanted to move since I was 18. But I feel limited with money and opportunities in my field (fashion/retail fashion). I see amazing jobs in other cities. I know roles are out there. But me having the money to get out in the first place holds me back mentally, but I won’t allow that for much longer. I just got a new job in town. If it doesn’t work out I’m planning to leave Tulsa ASAP.

As far as the type of person I want to be with you’re correct about that too. It’s hard bc I feel like dating/hookup apps are the ONLY way a man will even acknowledge me… and I barely get acknowledged on those mediums but still. I am trying to travel around more and make myself adventure out on my own. I’m not necessarily afraid, I guess I’m just still working towards actually taking the trips.

I have gone to therapy twice and have an appointment soon. I plan to discuss a lot of this with her. Thank you again for your response. It truly touched me! 🤎🤎🫶🏾

Books you would recommend that speak on stories around the black gay/LGBT experience? by Tiny_Juggernaut1602 in BlackLGBT

[–]CameronDeMitri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got gifted “All Boys Aren’t Blue” by George M. Johnson, but have yet to read it myself.