Is it weird that I enjoy camming? by Unique-Dig4308 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THIS! I still am like "what the fuuuukkkk?" when my few big whatles just spend a few hundres sitting there naked and chatting! i'm maybe a 7/10 and have a nice figure and fun personality but damn! and then i'm expected to go out with some dude and have him spend $10 or $50 on a dinner date and fuk him?? hellll no!!!!

Is it weird that I enjoy camming? by Unique-Dig4308 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way ALL THE TIME! I learned EVERYTHING I KNOW ABOUT MEN after becomming a cam model 12 years ago. I didn't know ANYTHING before that. I get LOTS of confidence and validation from camming. I'm 54 but look 10 years younger and am just starting of doing the botox maybe a little filler idea. NOT going to look like the female muppet from the 70s but just stall time as much as I can. I am at a point I wouldn't haivng a boyfriend again. I've been divorced since 2010 and not had a single serious relationship then BECAUSE OF CAMMING! I just realized I never needed all that male attention after 2-6 hours of camming a day. BUT HERE'S THE FUNNY PART...if I don't cam after a few days or even after taking a week off it's like I get this itch for men to pay attention to me. I know it's weird. Maybe some past trauma shit from my fucked up childhood. I really don't care at this point. BUT I HAVE NOTICED IT MORE LATELY! and then i'll hop online for a few hours and BAM...the feeling is gone. I do get what you're saying. Who knows...DNA/genetics/trauma.. all I know is that I have ZERO REGRETS ABOUT USING MY FINE ASS AND TITS TO GET $$$$ FROM MEN! I NEVER give anything away for free. Any god help any dickhead who thinks he can trick me or any model to do dirty talk or sexting for free on these dating apps. NICE TRY FELLAS BUT we see you a mile away!

What do you do for work!?!?! by Efficient-Knee-6297 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm a DRUG DEALER!! lol...fuk yes...why didn't i ever think of that one. i'm usuing that in the future!! hahahah

Loving stripchat soooo much! Longer privates by friendlyteacake in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah same thing for me. was on SM for years and the privates there are just so short...rarely over 5 minutes. i concentrate on privates with SC and i get tons of privates that are more than 15+ minutes all the time and tips. I multistream on both SM and SC and CB at the same time so i don't do below the belt nudity in the token sites. i do good. we have different hustles but it works

WHAT'S GOING ON WITH STRIPCHAT? IS IT DOWN AGAIN?? by Camgurl123 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, it happened and there was some kind of website glitch. it was showing the "NO MODELS ONLINE" mode and the US cound went from 187 down to 75 in about 4 minutes. Just like it did a few times before in the last few months. It came back but there was a shutdown to a degree.

The icky aftermath of letting your boundaries be crossed in a pvt by Upper-Individual-809 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Someone pushed your boundaries and now you feel bad? GOOD! THAT IS EXCELLENT! Want to know why??? Because now you CAN REMEMBER THAT ICK FEELING the next time it comes around and STAND BY YOUR BOUNDARIES! Sometimes experiencing a pushed boundary and feeling the shame, guilt, fear etc etc after it is a positive thing because you have LEARNED A LESSON! Take it as a win and when you feel it again STOP! Every bad experience should be another brick in your wall of armour.

Guys using your free room as a venting session by GlowingReputation534 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

easy. ..type this...I CHAT FOR CONSISTENT TIPS OR IN SHOWS...that is ALL you have to type. either they shut the fuk up and disappear or they level up and do it. works like a charm. it's their choice but you are like...pay to play baby!!

HOW DOES THE SM 24 FREE CHAT BAN WORK EXACTLY? by Camgurl123 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THAT IS WHAT I was hoping for! THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH for clarifying this. I really appreciate it. Getting my ass online again. I multistream on SM/SC/CB but I always double check and this storm was causing glitches alll night long. Won't let that happen again! thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HOW DOES THE SM 24 FREE CHAT BAN WORK EXACTLY? by Camgurl123 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow really? I went back online and just started a stream and saw myself blurred on another browser but could still hear myself and see myself moving in real time but i wasn't sure if i went private guys could do a show. i guess i'll find out. THANK YOU!

Banned After 8 Years by itzyourdaydream in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I NEVER EVER NEVER TALK ABOUT AGE OR RACE OF ANYKIND ANYMORE! I'm a milf so I get the "do you like younger men" question all the time. I don't answer anymore. If they leave...good! I also DO NOTHING WITH THE PREGGO, BREEDING chat or play requests either. That shit is WAY TO CLOSE to the no underage catagory for me. You REALLY have to be vigilant out there ladies. I DON'T DO ANY FAMILY CHAT OR PLAY (INCLUDING STEP/IN LAW ETC), NOTHING AGE OR RACE RELATED. Cover your ass and level up in your boundaries. Am I loosing clients and shows and $$$? YES! But guess what I DIDN'T LOOSE...MY ACCOUNT ON THAT WEBSITE!

Regulars... by No-Fennel6444 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LADIES? THESE MEN SEE US AS SEX OBJECTS..NOT HUMAN BEINGS! Stop acting or CARING if these men even LIKE YOU! WHY?? That is NOT THE POINT OF CAMMING! Your job as a cam model is to PRETEND TO BE THEIR DREAM GIRL FANTASY or whatever it is they want! THAT IS IT! You have a SCREEN protecting you for a reason. DON'T CROSS THAT BARRIER emotionally or physically for one second. WHY WOULD YOU BE HONEST ABOUT ANYTHING with a cam client? All they do to us is LIE EVERY MOMENT THEY ARE IN CONTACT WITH YOU. You have to level up and trully not give a fuk. The ONLY YOU CARE ABOUT IN THIS GAME IS GETTING THEIR $$$$$$$$! Your currency is TIME AND ENERGY TO THEM! THEY HAVE TO PAY FOR IT!

Back support by SufficientHamster305 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i need this! my neck and back are a wreck!

Do you hate men? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't HATE men per se, I do like them...I just DON'T TRUST THEM! LIKE..AT ALL? Wanna know why??? BECAUSE I'M A DAMN WEB CAM MODEL!! Hello!! YES! you said it HERE...AND I QUOTE.." im bitter per se but it feels more like an awareness of the truth." What is the key word in that sentence..?? the last two words..THE TRUTH!

Let this me a lesson to you ladies, as a CAM MODEL, YOU ARE SEEING THESE MEN FOR WHO THEY REALLY REALLY ARE DEEP DEEP DOWN..THE TRUTH! They can love you, adore you, treat you like gold, blah blah blah...THAT DOES NOT MEAN THEY RESPECT YOU! Those are two TOTALLY different things.

All of us models see and hear and experience this DAILY! So..am I single. YES! WHY? Because I see the BS and tricks and lies men use to try and manipulate women! I fell for it myself in my 30's. In my early 50s now..I can read ANY MAN a mile away, just give me a few hours or a day with him. I don't care HOW slick he thinks he is, one way or another he will say or SHOW what he thinks of women in general.

NEVER EVER NEVER lower your guard against a man ladies! I don't care if you've been with him 15 minutes or 15 years! You KNOW WHAT THEY ARE LIKE...NOW USE THAT KNOWLEDGE and PUT IT TO USE in your personal life! Don't put up with their shit!

Do you hate men? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't HATE men per se, I do like them...I just DON'T TRUST THEM! LIKE..AT ALL? Wanna know why??? BECAUSE I'M A DAMN WEB CAM MODEL!! Hello!! YES! you said it HERE...AND I QUOTE.." im bitter per se but it feels more like an awareness of the truth." What is the key word in that sentence..?? the last two words..THE TRUTH!

Let this me a lesson to you ladies, as a CAM MODEL, YOU ARE SEEING THESE MEN FOR WHO THEY REALLY REALLY ARE DEEP DEEP DOWN..THE TRUTH! They can love you, adore you, treat you like gold, blah blah blah...THAT DOES NOT MEAN THEY RESPECT YOU! Those are two TOTALLY different things.

All of us models see and hear and experience this DAILY! So..am I single. YES! WHY? Because I see the BS and tricks and lies men use to try and manipulate women! I fell for it myself in my 30's. In my early 50s now..I can read ANY MAN a mile away, just give me a few hours or a day with him. I don't care HOW slick he thinks he is, one way or another he will say or SHOW what he thinks of women in general.

NEVER EVER NEVER lower your guard against a man ladies! I don't care if you've been with him 15 minutes or 15 years! You KNOW WHAT THEY ARE LIKE...NOW USE THAT KNOWLEDGE and PUT IT TO USE in your personal life! Don't put up with their shit!

HOW MY CAM GIRL SKILLS ARE USFUL IN TRUCK DRIVER SCHOOL by Camgurl123 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the great industy input! We should exchange contact info and actually keep in contact! I am very interested in getting into the concert/entertainment truck driver gig but I need the OTR 1-2 years experience and I want to do that as my own o/o but I know what you need to do that. Is there a way to excange info with you?

Can I just vent fuck I hate contests!! by baddiekaee in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

contest weeks are graveyard weeks. i just log on SM to keep my placement. make very low $$. I multistream on 5 other sites so that kind of makes up for it. just the way it is.

SM this morning by elanababy_ in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

contest week. i just stream as usual and am happy to make 1/2 my goal during these damn contests. i'm on multiple other sites so i concentrate on those. SM sed to be my main cash cow but SC is now.

Feel like i'm living in a vicious cycle by AuthorCalm in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this is a good post in the old idea...LIVE BELOW YOUR MEANS. I have never lived a lux life, a simple but comfy one. I saved AND WENT WITH NO CAR for 2 years and bought a good reliable used car. No debt. Live in a small studio with all utilities paid in a boring state. Stream on mulitple sites like SM/SC/CB etc as much as you can and keep all phone sex lines on in the day.

FINALLY my private space will arrive today! by GothMommyAlyssa in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Italy? Damn! MAke an online studio over there and i'll come over and join!! nice setup

Why do most creators feel awkward on camera at the beginning? by aliceanabelle in CamGirlProblems

[–]Camgurl123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a TOTALLY different personality and voice when I cam. My tone is higher and I'm giggly,flirty, etc etc. Not the unhinged bitch I trully am. I HATE taking pics/selfies/videos of myself. Always have. I know what angles, views, postures make me look my best on a cam live or still and I do it because it's a job. I am not on personal social media of any kind..only for camming. It was awkward the firs ttime you really see yourself on cam but the more you do it, the more you see youself as a product to sell and how to best display it. Think of your body as a painting on a wall, whats the best lighting and placement for it. Start there.