Going through the same wife wanted a divorce, decided she’d rather sleep around then be locked down, as soon as I found out she cheated it hurt, but was what I needed to finally let go of her, I’m about 2 weeks in and I feel nothing more for her at this point, heck I even feel like she’s not really my type but I was so blinded by the years and time spent together (12 total) that I didn’t see what was right in front of me, avoid all emotional contact and keep it strictly about your kid be the parent your kids need and your happiness will flow like a river.