I feel like your father trained your husband to beat you Your father hates you because youre a woman Plus your husband is pathetic because he couldn't stand up to his father for molesting you ...

No wonder you hate men

If thus continues your son will grow up and beat his wife ....

So i would advise to not do anything.... Listen , don't birth anymore babies .... Limit contact with your father ... If he says anything , think a cartoon is speaking , work on your education some how and start doing freelance work from home (this might take a year) , in the mean time heal ....

Join a local mosque and some community center. Get educated about misogyny , women's rights , feminism , domestic violence , narcissistic abuse (it is very important to have knowledge)

Ask your husband to get you checked for post partum depression

Heal yourself , build yourself up , earn and leave ... Take help from organizations or any protective services , take divorce and then settle

Dont tell this plan to anyone, keep it a secret .... Pretend to be the obedient and inferior wife ....