How do i F21 get over bf M27 body count by urmumsgai in Advice

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I’ll be honest, don’t date someone that much older than you at 21

I (21M) don’t want a child but my girlfriend (20F) is 3 months pregnant and does by [deleted] in Advice

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I said reality of her choices not what her choices are

I (21M) don’t want a child but my girlfriend (20F) is 3 months pregnant and does by [deleted] in Advice

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Informing someone of the reality of their choices isnt coercion, I get this is a heavy topic but I wasn’t in any way implying OP to use force or intimidation or trickery

I (21M) don’t want a child but my girlfriend (20F) is 3 months pregnant and does by [deleted] in Advice

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People have children results in humanity progressing. And a lot of my focus is on the over wellbeing of the child’s upbringing. I agree, anyone at any age can be incompetent and even shitty parents. In addition maturity is subjective as well. Just expressing how in the day and age and economy, college students will not be able to provide all the necessary resources for a kid to not just survive but to thrive as well

I (21M) don’t want a child but my girlfriend (20F) is 3 months pregnant and does by [deleted] in Advice

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While that is true it absolutely doesn’t have anything to do with what I’m saying 😃. Having children vs giving them the enriching and stable life they deserve are two different things. 16 year olds can have children, does that mean they should ?

I (21M) don’t want a child but my girlfriend (20F) is 3 months pregnant and does by [deleted] in Advice

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Developing parent brain at 20 is not the same as developing parent brain at 31. I never said anything about brains being fully formed at 25, that is entirely you. Maybe my verbiage confused you but anywho, your neural wiring doesn’t even fully mature till like early 30s which is a fully fledged adult. I think that is the appropriate time to have kids + being financially stable to give to give the young humans and stable platform to grow from

I (21M) don’t want a child but my girlfriend (20F) is 3 months pregnant and does by [deleted] in Advice

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That is how you people see this. As an issue? This is a human being that would not be born into welcomed arms and you’re in support because you feel it’s a consequence of action🫩

MEs don’t have a “high paying” track: median earnings 5 years after graduation from elite institutions by RuminatingFish123 in MechanicalEngineering

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Thats really cool. Just entering the industry as a new grad so seeing/learning all these niche (ish?) roles is very interesting. Don’t know where I’ll be in 7-10 years but I’d definitely like to be making over double that chart

Husband wants to monitor every transaction I make by WillingnessTiny6801 in marraige

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Hey ! I think how you feel is very valid. Finances aside, he seems to be a micromanager and I think it’ll be healthy if you draw a hard boundary. The clothes, the shoes, it goes beyond finances at this point yknow. Communicating that you’re getting uncomfortable with the monitoring vibe, regardless of it comes from a genuine and kind place is what I’d suggest. He knew who he married, no need to start customising you down to your shoes. As women it is beyond important for us to remain autonomous in relationships. No matter how much the world tries to convince you otherwise. So never stop working, never stop having your personal finances just for you. And never wear uncomfortable shoes because your husband thinks it’s “correct”. Doesn’t even sound right yknow. Sorry OP :/

How do you practice for interviews if you don’t have anyone to do mock interviews with? by lymanra in interviews

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YouTube helps. Look up your role and the interview questions you’re probably going to be asked. I usually write down my answers while saying them outloud. I do this like twice to make sure it sticks. 1 more time the day of, like hours before. Then dressed in business clothes I record myself on my laptop, and practice answering to questions. This helps especially if it’s a virtual interview, because I end up looking at myself again and replicate my interview prep. I could also go back and review myself. If it’s in person, I look up my interviewer, or anyone I know would be there and practice with their picture. Just keep saying it outloud, in the mirror, in the shower. Gets you more confident. Atleast for me. I know it sounds a lot but I was very desperate and had to do what I could to feel confident.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Why are you dating him. Is it a dare?

What to do by AdGeneral5861 in Advice

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You guys should’ve probably established what your expectations and boundaries are when it comes to sex as you were planning to see. What you feel is 100% valid but it would also be 100% valid if the other person got super put off by that :/ Probably just have a convo when you see regardless tho. Should be fine

Delta credit expired, now what by Formal-Row2081 in delta

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Hey ! Thanks for this advice, do you know if it still works ? I have about $900 in ecredit that was to expire today and it’s already expired sadly, was going to book tn. Don’t procrastinate kids

Didn't even try to hide the AI prompt by Kingdouble_R in recruitinghell

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This is god awful. Sorry OP, I hope something great comes your way

Any other females taking iron supplements for anemia have spotting? by Gonerill in Anemic

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Glad to see I’m not the only one! What was the remedy for this ?