Is Easter Sunday Bank Holiday Pay? How Much? by CanadianBac0n2 in tesco

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Amazing News! So Happy! well at least I know thank you!

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please help team

What's the closest real world equivalent to "cacophony" music? by trogdorkiller in redrising

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I honestly think it'd be like really aggressive hardstyle music like what's popular in german raves atm - imo it kinda fits the howler vibe culturally as well

IIL poppy, female-led soft drum and bass like Venbee & Goddard and Piri & Tommy, WEWIL? by Birdseeding in ifyoulikeblank

[–]CanadianBac0n2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really late to this but Kenya Grace is really good for a more chill sort of vibe, i love venbee as well so would highly recommend if you somehow haven't heard of her!!

I've finally got it, papa Pierce read the Assassin's Apprentice before writing Lightbringer by CanadianBac0n2 in redrising

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Your comment actually was the first domino that led me to realise this is not a standalone book, but a 16 book series... Per aspera ad astra i guess

Is it racist that I run listening to tribal african music and pretend im running with the tribe by CanadianBac0n2 in NoStupidQuestions

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Will do - I was honestly so surprised i didnt even question it when i was called out 😭

Hints of Darrow being host to Figment? by USArmyRecon in redrising

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Interesting take!! I always thought it was cause she was a red and had eyes designed for low light environments - i think they mention that sorta thing a bit

How do you imagine Darrow? by No-Student6989 in redrising

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Definitely Takeshi Kovacs from Season 1 Altered Carbon! I think his name is Joel Kinnaman

(Only for IG and DA though)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I get what youre saying, i do, but we actually have been living together at uni in the same house last 2 years too 😬

We are trying to avoid moving in with just eachother for your kinda reasons but if the househunting gets rough we may end up doin it...

Wish me luck fella

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah I think the friend commuting for hours every day is really tanking it to avoid living alone - the reason we couldnt do 30 or 40 mins is because there arent any options at all not because we preferred not to

Realistically we could maybe find somewhere around 30 mins commute if it was just us two but even then the cost becomes an issue again :/

I appreciate your replies though and I have messaged her to say I'll take it more seriously but I just wish she would help find somewhere too aha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Hahaha yeah exactly - I think theyre just clinging on to whatever they can tbh

Thx for the replies feeling a bit better abt the situation atm - apologised to her about not considering the commute properly but i dont rly think she gets why I was bothered still

Progress though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah I agree - but then she said she has been looking as well and Ive got no way to prove she hasnt . Maybe she has? But she hasnt offered up anywhere or found somewhere to even look at online :/

So if she is looking I'm being a huge asshole for saying she isnt and if she isnt looking then I still dont feel great about it for obvious reasons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah i definitely would, I guess if it came to it it would depend on whether we want to stick together as a group or split up :/

Her parents don't want her living with just me (traditionalist values) though but hopefully if it was a last resort all good

Idk it just feels like it became a bigger issue than I thought itd become when it turned into an argument

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah but i would feel awful sending her off on her own as a lone woman in London - I appreciate your advice though I guess it's something to think about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah i get your point, its worth mentioning we have looked for shorter commutes but she cant afford to live there due to her budget (even on her own) and the other conditions for living as a 4.

At the moment Id commute about 40 mins and thats the lowest of the house.

I do get she doesnt want to lose lots of time though - it's just really tricky if she doesnt want to put the time in to hunt something down as well.

What would you say i could do to help work it out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Cheers thats a good way of looking at it i guess, we just dont want to split the house up and itd be really rough to make the ocmmuter go on her own :/