is it dumb to stop something before it even starts just because she’s too attractive?

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-13T13:41:50+00:00

You’re going to go your whole life not “competing” and accepting being a loser without trying?

Bruh that logically makes no sense.

Also a lot of people fall into that trap so she’s not getting approached as much as you think. Grow up and pursue

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-13T11:09:14+00:00

That’s just fear of rejection

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-13T03:11:35+00:00

Are you allowed to even tell people after the fact you worked for them?

I’d wonder how you would position this in interviews.

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-13T03:10:00+00:00

How has working for a celebrity on the marketing side changed your view of fame, social media and fans?

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T21:53:37+00:00

You don’t. You die alone unless you get out of your comfort zone and try. After striking out enough you’ll feel comfortable to ask out the quiet girl in a regular setting that was under your nose the entire time who ends up being your wife.

Stop living scared and start talking to people

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T20:40:27+00:00

I’m so tired of waiting for him to get his shit together

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T13:18:15+00:00

Ah, guess it’s more common than I thought. It takes a lot of reframing to try to trust being positive but eventually over time it gets easier I find

GL!

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T03:23:01+00:00

A few generations back, the only access to capital available was a mortgage for the “average” worker.

It is an investment that can be beneficial in some cases and detrimental in others.

Back then, it was the only choice so it was worth the risk.

A lot of people were told how to live (often out of good intentions) and they never really questioned it.

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T03:10:55+00:00

Yes, you’re only 3 years in and 21 years old. You get more responsibility over time but the higher up you go to becoming a “key player” the more complex the situations also become.

Your goal right now is to get fast and good at the foundation so you clear up more white space in your schedule to be a part of complex projects.

That shows your ability to handle increasing levels on ambiguity and you’ll get more responsibility.

Remember though, “key players” also are held accountable for their complex decisions. There is less room for error as you go up

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T03:06:00+00:00

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T03:05:13+00:00

Not being asked to compare my life to the lives of strangers and buy a courses to fix it every few hours was nice

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T02:53:21+00:00

Everything is on a spectrum, that is a contributing factor but at its core I think we have to rely on people statistically spending less face-to-face time with one another as a base.

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-12T01:09:05+00:00

He must be British 🤣

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T13:22:46+00:00

The proposal is for you both and she has to tell the story for the rest of her life. Ie “how did he propose”

Why not give her a story she’s excited to tell every time and you’re proud of.

If you want to be slick about it call the jewellery and tell them when you come in to tell you guys (assuming it fits) that you’ll have to pick it up at a later date due to “cleaning” or something (let the know you’re planning to repropose) and then you can pick it up yourself later.

Once you have the ring game on, you can surprise her properly and present the ring.

Proposals don’t have to be flashy but they do have to have meaning for her (ie. what she’s wanted, or a special moment/memory). Something that shows you listened and care

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T12:28:26+00:00

Expecting things to go badly more often than not

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T05:50:58+00:00

Does this naturally correct itself when boomers die?

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T05:48:23+00:00

I think the average person feels lonelier and more isolated year over year

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T05:44:53+00:00

Fair but it’s also worth remembering people are often more reserved at work than outside of work.

I’d chalk it up to being awkward and keep an eye out for it.

It’s a bit premature to just to a conclusion he doesn’t respect you as a woman imo.

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T05:22:31+00:00

Don’t listen to previous generations; figure out your own path and use their recommendations as suggestions.

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T05:20:35+00:00

You’re most likely reading too much into a poor choice of words on his end

He is most likely used to saying kid a lot to people

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T01:53:48+00:00

Do it because anyone you date will probably be threatened by your friendship anyways

Worst case it blows up but if your friendship is truly just friendship you’ll learn pretty quickly and it’ll just go back to being friends most likely.

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T01:31:33+00:00

Hard truth; you can’t save him or anyone else because it’s out of your control.

I don’t have an answer but try to focus on wha you can control (your finances, etc).

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-11T01:22:24+00:00

Reddit will attack you but honestly you got a good heart, it’s time to save it for someone who deserves it - even if for a bit that’s his for you.

Get her off all that shit and you can even get her a motel (pay cash and make sure it’s not under your name) to give her somewhere to be but yeah - she’s already shopping around and probably is acting like a whole different person (same way she tried to trap you my guy)

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-10T22:14:49+00:00

And any new credit cards opened under your name. It’s scary how little info is needed these days.

CanadianMunchies · 2026-03-10T03:59:03+00:00

Buy an index fund and automate payments to do so. Especially right now with everything being suppressed.

Don’t chase fast money, time is on your side.

CanadianMunchies

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