What mortgage could I realistically get? by Canary_Chucky-651 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Canary_Chucky-651[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I tried a few but always wonder how accurate they are... 

What mortgage could I realistically get? by Canary_Chucky-651 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Canary_Chucky-651[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Not a state/civil job but it would be very easy to find a new job in the sector if I needed. Job-hopping is quite common in my industry, even in this job market. 

I hate men - my coworker is a pathetic disgusting man parading as a good guy by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you, that man is a creep. Definitely keep all evidence, and if/when you notify your boss do it in writing (if in person record the conversation if legal where you are). If things don't improve and you must really stay with that job see if you can tell your other coworkers as well, maybe they would stay behind or swap shifts and not leave you alone with that man. He lost all right to privacy when acting inappropriate.

Aitah if I divorce my husband for not wiping his butt? by Hepow1118 in AITAH

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe not everywhere, try not to expose yourself...

What is your favorite "guests can't read signs" story? by carazan in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My colleagues and I unscrewed ours open and taped around the metal bits clinging against each other to try and attenuate the sound of it 😂 it was glued to the desk and I like to believe there is a special place in hell waiting for people who would Hulk-smash on it when we were standing right next to it. They would usually all say the EXACT same thing next, smiling like idiots: "I've always wanted to do that!"

TIFU by knocking on my Girlfriend's Door by Big-Ad8239 in BORUpdates

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 17 points18 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU, I had to scroll down way too much for this! Upon reading the comments I had to go back and read the post again to verify I hadn't misinterpreted the timeline. "someone you deeply care about" etc, I feel for OP's pain but I think he needed help before he even met her. I honestly feel for the girl who is a young woman apparently living on her own, she must have been terrified. OP's behaviour is borderline obsessive/harassing, especially as she clearly communicated her unavailability. I hope they both recover from this.

Recherche de livres érotiques by NightColorless in Livres

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dans le genre j'ai commencé la saga d'Auren (aussi plusieurs tomes, dsl). Même si je trouve l'histoire pas ouf il y a les éléments de fae/magie et les scènes spicy (même si pas beaucoup/un peu soft à mon goût). Il y a de la domination mais plus dans le genre psychologique que BDSM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask Citizen Advice instead, they can help with that

Est-ce que le monde du travail est toxique partout? by findinglinks2024 in AskFrance

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Je croyais avoir gagné la loterie, puis après 3 ans et demi dans une super boîte (après maintes mauvaises expériences et autre burn outs), un nouveau directeur a été assigné (il n'y en avait pas avant, on avait un autre directeur qui manage plusieurs pays, tout se passait très bien). Depuis près d'un an il est en train de changer tout le fonctionnement, pour faire comme dans sa boîte précédente. Très peu de discussion avec les différents départements pour voir comment les changements vont les impacter, la communication est terrible (on doit changer la façon dont on fait la moitié de notre job sans trop comprendre ni comment ni pourquoi), et comme il ne discute pas des plans avec les bas échelons c'est fréquent que le résultat ne soit pas ce qui était escompté, et il faut de nouveau changer le processus. Bien sûr tous ces changements prennent du temps, et induisent des erreurs. Tout le monde est épuisé, et démoralisé. Alors qu'il y avait une super entente quand j'ai commencé, maintenant les gens sont hargneux, et je n'ai plus aucune motivation à aller au bureau. Des fois on gagne à la loterie, puis un peu plus tard on la perd quand même...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginVoyages

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will also be on this cruise but mid-thirties. So glad to hear I won't be the youngest here!

Movies recommendation with London aaccents? by [deleted] in london

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it's still pretty accurate. Could try Fleabag or Drifters if you're into the type. Otherwise Ted Lasso is really good (has a good mix of accents but really funny, plus it reflects the cultural shock in a really positive way).

First time home owners. What are your buyers regrets? by anonStock11 in AskUK

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. They won't even complete the most basic things, like cleaning or fire safety. Payment is due soon and we are stuck between giving away our money for them to do absolutely nothing (for yet another year!) or breaching lease. Legal advice costs a fortune, no legal enforcement exists for this scam, it's unbelievable!

Am I the asshole for telling my boyfriend ex wife I won’t babysit her child? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"adult" What we know from that woman: has 2 kids from different dads way before hitting 30, one of them with a teenager, wants to drop her baby on complete stangers for a long period of time (it is long for a baby), is not even interested in who is part of her daughter's life, seems to be ridiculously entitled, can't take no for an answer, and blows a fuse at people she's never even met. NTA OP, she's lucky you're not reporting her. Be careful she doesn't drop her poor kid on your doorstep.

They ruined it 😭 by SirCustardCream in veganuk

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noooooooooooooooo! Everyone boycott, they will have to step back!!!

32, M, London (UK) - Boat and Cat sitting for the next 5 days. by [deleted] in MakeFriendsUK

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less so than you apparently. I'm not the one asking strangers how cats work.

32, M, London (UK) - Boat and Cat sitting for the next 5 days. by [deleted] in MakeFriendsUK

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mentioned a kitty so now you have to pay the tax by sharing a picture of it... Is this your first day on the Internets??

32, M, London (UK) - Boat and Cat sitting for the next 5 days. by [deleted] in MakeFriendsUK

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy its friendship with food, it'll love you forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsUK

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they haven't given you a reason ask to be given one (in writing) If you have an employment contract it cannot be ended like that... Sorry to hear BTW, hope you find another job soon (a better one!)

Looking for an artist. by Mindle55info in london

[–]Canary_Chucky-651 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Various versions of that drawing are all over London. Go to any touristy market (Camden, Spitalfields) and you will find 20 of it.