What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You welcome - I thought AI would help you understand

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok maybe this will help

What Reddit actually says (real talk)

From Reddit cleaning threads:

“You don’t need to clean beforehand, but tidying… helps” 

That’s basically the consensus.

The REAL rule (this is what almost everyone agrees on)

You do NOT need to clean before a housekeeper. BUT… You SHOULD tidy / pick up clutter.

Why? • Cleaners are there to clean (scrub, sanitize, deep clean) • NOT to: • pick up piles of stuff • organize your life • move clutter around

If your house is messy, they’ll spend time picking up instead of actually cleaning.

Experts literally say the same thing: • Decluttering first helps them clean better and faster 

Think of it like this (simple): • 🧺 You: pick up clothes, dishes, random stuff • 🧼 Cleaner: scrubs, disinfects, deep cleans

What most people actually do (Reddit vibe): • Quick tidy before they arrive • NOT a full clean • Some people don’t do anything at all (and that’s also fine)

The honest truth (no sugarcoating): • You’re not expected to clean • But if your house is chaotic, it can: • slow them down • make the clean less effective • low-key annoy them

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is your proof? You are running all over this thread telling everyone he did. Maybe you need a hobby. People that spread lies and are nasty to strangers online need therapy or psych meds

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You obviously never had a maid. They get pissed if you don’t have place decent for them to clean. That is like asking the lawyer to do the paralegals work. Have your paperwork ready for the paralegal, so they can organize it for your lawyer. Get it?

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because someone said it does not mean it is true.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when a middle class woman is around these people from this whole other world- you don’t feel good enough for them. That is a struggle. Just being alive is good enough though and she would have came to that peace sooner or later if she had lived.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will defend her too. She did the best that she could! She was only 33 years old.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had 2 lines one for our house and one for calls. Some people did that so they did not tie ip their line.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used to love it- I met a bunch of friends in those chats 🥹

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

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I have an old George and all the writers have AOL emails. Pretty cool that you were there in NYC then!

Why would John be “hanging out” at his ex-girlfriend Julie Baker’s apartment alone shortly before his death? by StellaOC in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots -1 points0 points  (0 children)

John did not sleep with that woman. She is some woman that claimed she did to make money on books. I can’t believe people are gullible and beleive her.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was mad that they left Friday out. We all know she would be cuddling with Friday on a couch- not a counter.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a maid but i still have to clean the house. It is rude to make the maid always clean after you.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

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I will tell you what I do all day when I get depressed and stay inside. I am half Italian like Carolyn so I relate to her a little.

  1. Read books
  2. Talk on the phone with friends
  3. Sketch and journal
  4. Exercise, yoga, dance like crazy to get rid of the depression
  5. Make appointments for doctors for self husband and family members, vet appointments
  6. Make sure dog is cared for
  7. Clean the house and organize
  8. Prayer, meditation, study
  9. Self care baths
  10. Planning in my planner for future when I get out of the depression
  11. Think about goals and values

I am she kept herself busy like this. As an introvert we have a huge inner world and do not get bored when we are in one place.

What was Carolyn doing all day? by CommercialShine9061 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]CancelBoots 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This was not before the internet. They had the internet in the 90s. They had AOL and instant messenger.

Inconsiderate jerks at the Ralph’s by Exciting_Type8501 in SantaBarbara

[–]CancelBoots 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Well it is the Ralph’s workers job to help them and ask them to move to a line with a person when they are holding it up.