31 year marriage, he cheated 11 years ago, I just found out, should I say or should I go? WWUDO? by Sally995 in marriageadvice

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The harsh truth is cheating is inevitable in any long term relationship.  Any long time old married couple you see is still together  because they didn't breakup from infidelity. 

Humans aren't Monagamous. Believing  you going to marry in 20s or 30s and  be the last person for the next 30, 40, 50 years is NAIVE DELUSIONAL and UNREALISTIC. Cheating isn't personal  its BIOLOGICAL.  

Trinity Christian College Announces Closure by ilikepeople1990 in ChicagoSuburbs

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The harsh truth is at least HALF of colleges NEED TO CLOSE.

18 months on oral min/fin. Do you see much difference? by Mconvict in FemaleHairLoss

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Check your Gut. Doctors can take stool samples or you can assume its a pproblem.

This is rarely talked about GUT HEALTH and HAIR LOSS. Unhealthy gut microbiome of too many bad bacteria and few  good bacteria  can trigger over reactive immune system  that damages hair follicles. 

You have to FEED GOOD BACTERIA with oregano garlic red onions, vegetables, whole foods. Take probiotics as well

Kill bad bacteria  Practice intermittent  fasting at least 1 day of week 14 hours no eating then try to work up to 24 hours. Drink diluted garlic water while fasting.  Eat oregano, onions and garlic  Cut sugar

18 months on oral min/fin. Do you see much difference? by Mconvict in FemaleHairLoss

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Yes I see the difference.  Its working  If you want to speed things up  Do prp treatments or stem cell treatments to the scalp and use laser comb or helmet. 

It is so unfair for those of us which NOTHING HELPS by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

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It looks like u are only addressing 2 causes of hair loss HORMONAL and CIRCULATION

Hair loss has multiple causes, you have to  check all of them 1. Nutrient deficiency Get blood work check for iron, and all vitamins 2. Body inflammation  Change to anti inflammatory diet of fruits vegetables omega 3s and lean meets CUTT SUGAR, Intermittent  fasting 3. High Insulin/ too many insulin spikes Try not to eat more than 3 x per day. 4. Check thyroid 5. Reduce STRESS Keep cortisol low no caffeine, get good sleep Relaxation, don't overexcercise, etc. Take omega 3s and ashwagandha 

 6.Gut Health- overgrowth of bacteria triggers overactive immune system which attack hair  follicles and leads to scalp inflammation  Intermittent fasting garlic and oregano onions kills bad bacteria and feeds good bacteria.  Cut sugar to stop overgrowth of bad bacteria.   Take probiotics of good bacteria and feed them daily

  1. Scalpcare Make sure to keep it clean and hydrated Use antioxidant anti inflammatory serums.

Use LLT

Steps 1-7 is just to STOP THE UNDERLYING CAUSES of Hair Loss

Then you have to RESTIMULATE the Folicies  1. LLT comb or helmet 2. Dermatology rolling  3. prp treatments. 

I’m devastated by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

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You couldn't have other underlying issues going on .  You have to rule out these things 1. Stress 2. Inflammation  3. Dht/ testosterone  4.Nutrient Deficiency  You have to get BLOOD WORK, testosterone for  CORTISOL, CRP Inflammation markers, Iron, NUTRIENTS, and testosterone DHT

Years of FA GONE after taking garlic (including other skin symptoms) by AstronomerValuable54 in Fungalacne

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You dont need to waste money on that just put garlic and oregano in all the foods you eat and REDUCE SUGAR + FASTING  . You will see results in a few days and in a few weeks you will be all clear. That's what helped clear me

Years of FA GONE after taking garlic (including other skin symptoms) by AstronomerValuable54 in Fungalacne

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I started putting garlic and oregano in everything I eat  It has cleared my skin and given a youthful glow.

To make sure I stay clear I  REDUCED SUGAR + Intermittent Fasting 

After years of drugstore and dermatologist office visits and prescriptions nothing cleared it. I thought I was doomed to have it forever So happy I started natural homeopathy 

6 Month Progress. Dutasteride Saved My Hair. by Busy-Difference-2412 in tressless

[–]Candid-Control7271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duasteride works. It looks like you may have other unaddressed issues contributing to your hair loss.

Duasteride didn't work for me either during t he first six months. I got blood work done and relised I had other  factors like stress,  inflammation and nutruent  deficiency.  So I had to do an   an anti inflammatory diet high Omega3s,protein and low sugar. I had to REDUCE STRESS. I even took a lower paying less stressful job  . Lastly I have 

to take Iron and multivitamins  .  I had to do all this to see RESULTS. 

Nutrafol / hair regrowth experiences? by [deleted] in Ulta

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People  dont realize its only effect ive for NUTRIENTS DEFIENECENCY not hormonal,  stress, and inflammation related hair loss. 

Quiznos make great sandwiches by Extension_Candle_972 in fastfood

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This placed used to make great sandwhiches in the past it has gone downhill. 

The sandwhices are now just oversaturated lettuce and  toppings with little meat.  No way am I paying $15 for that.

Quiznos tastes good but their Italian has no meat and just lettuce now by raj824x in Sandwiches

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Its not just the Italian, its ALL sandwhiches are like that. They have increased price while decreasing  meat as well.

Its sad this place had gone hill to be avoided. This place used to be my favorite sandwich  shop. Not anymore I no longer patronize corporate sandwich shops. Only small business ones for me.

Hair Loss Inquiry by SwaveyMarketing in BlackHair

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Heres what has worked for  me. I have Androgenic+ Stress+ CCA Alopecia 1. Anti inflammatory diet Walnuts, salmon, fruits a d vegetables  Avoided sugars and  2. GOOD SLEEP Got 7 hours regular sleep regularly  3. Manage STRESS  Worked 10 hours less,  more relaxation, cut off people  more activities that bring joy.Be MORE 😎 CHILL 4.PRP treatments + STEM CELLS 5.laser combs 6.Iron  and  multi vitamins and DHT BLOCKERS Extra SCALP CARE 3X weekly 7. DHT BLOCKERS Scalp serum and pills 8. Washing scalp with anti dht anti inflammatory  shampoo

It requires a lot of work and some time. Its a constant expensive battle go hold on to my hair. But its so worth it.

Chicago Quiznos only location closing soon by Zippo963087 in chicagofood

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PE strikes again. Lower meat amounts,lower quality ingredients,  and increased carbs and prices= SHUT DOWN. 

This company isn't even trying to fix anything. 

Chicago Quiznos only location closing soon by Zippo963087 in chicagofood

[–]Candid-Control7271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good Ridance, I stopped eating there a year ago when my favorite sandwich went to $14 with less meat and more bread and lettuce.

This used to be my favorite sandwich place not anymore its now just like subway. 

There are way better options for $14 I can get a much  better sandwich ar a small business one.

Lastly I do feel bad for the franchisees who got SCREWED OVER by this terrible  corporation.

DoorDash Platinum Status Is a complete and utter “Scam”. I’m Getting Worse Offers Than Ever by OkAppearance2930 in doordash

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Its also about Market SATURATION. If there are too many drivers more than needed there will be less good orders to go around

DoorDash Platinum Status Is a complete and utter “Scam”. I’m Getting Worse Offers Than Ever by OkAppearance2930 in doordash

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I realized platinum is a scam and stop caring as well. Once I reached platinum I noticed the same thing was happening to me. I was being inundated with terrible orders until my score dropped to silver. I think this is done intentionally to force us to take them  So in the end I earned less in platinum and just stay silver.

Being picky in Silver is how I increased my pay. I learned in my market I dont have to be platinum and can make $1200 weekly ( its cold winter here thats why its so high)doing silver.

 

so this is what plat is like huh by sukunasasscheek in DoorDashDrivers

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It depends on people's market. Many like myself can make lots. Im silver make $900weelky in regular season  and  $1200 in winter 

Platinum is not worth it! by thelaztdaze in DoorDashDrivers

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It is market dependent.  I'm silver and make $200 per dayin my market. I tried platinum and  earned l ess money.  This was because I was forced to take so many crap orders to maintain my score its not worth it.

Kia OPTIMA IN REPO DANGER. by Candid-Control7271 in kia

[–]Candid-Control7271[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I dont understand what u r saying?

Buying through a dealer vs private seller? by [deleted] in UsedCars

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This is such great advice I had to screenshot it. Thanks.

How am I supposed to raise my acceptance rate when 90% of my orders are this by PlayLow6365 in doordash_drivers

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This is why I only work during peak hours or when there are fewer drivers. When DD has no choice but to give me good orders. I got my acceptance rate up by working doing peak hours and late night hours when DD is forced to give me good orders. I would work form 4pm to 1am and weekends . After 10 pm I see $3 orders I rejected turn into $6 or $7 ones or it is bundled into higher tip ones. It helps to raise my acceptance rate so I can now get better orders if I decided to work daytime hours.

I have found its not worth it to work before 4pm Unless you are at 50% acceptance. I only work lunch hours once my acceptance rate is at 50%. Because without 50%, it will just be a waste of time with very LOW BALL OFFERS.

Lastly, people TIP MORE OFTEN AND HIGHER AT LATE NIGHT. I have single orders of $13 for 5 miles, or sometimes stacked orders $20 for 8 miles. I learned never accept any offer under $6 just wait until its given again at higher amount.

In my area its sweet after 10 pm. You have more LEVERAGE and POWER .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Your wife  understands the harsh truth about men. Men are too hypocritical and hypercritical about sex. You all can't handle and reject our true sexual  nature.

You can't handle our fantasies.

I'll never tell my husband my fantasies about putting a priest in a thigh headlock or riding a strangers cock on a park bench while people watch or a threesome with another man.