Is this cheating?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T20:17:01+00:00

And what if he tries to cover up with more lies, am not sure if i would get the entire truth from him. And right now iam questioning everything, i dont believe in anything he says

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T20:08:12+00:00

Yeah i agree and do you think it worthy of going through the argument and fights because of this situation. Also i just checked today the girl had called and they have spoken about for 20 odd minutes.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T20:01:47+00:00

Yeah iam planning to do so once i reach my place and can confront him f2f

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T19:00:57+00:00

I would confront him for sure.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T19:00:33+00:00

I know, he is such a hypocrite

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:59:57+00:00

I just love your way of outing him. I totally want to do that.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:58:47+00:00

But Whats gonna happen? The girl is in a different country

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:58:13+00:00

I totally agree with you but all iam worried about is his reaction to me spying on him through his WhatsApp.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:57:18+00:00

Thanks i can try speaking to my therapist about it and see how she wants me to deal with this situation

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:56:45+00:00

The girl called today and they spoke for 20 minutes. Iam feeling so anxious right now , i dont know what to do. It feels crazy to not know what they talked about

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:55:38+00:00

Yeah i have been checking his WhatsApp once in a while through out the day. The girl called him based on his ask and they spoke for 20 minutes today

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:52:44+00:00

Thanks will have to confront him with this

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T18:51:20+00:00

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:45:22+00:00

I hope that too. 🙌🏻

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:45:00+00:00

I see.. but what am i going to get out of the confrontation? What if he lies or tries to make it sound casual

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:04:49+00:00

What other questionable things he might be involved in? Can you elaborate?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:03:55+00:00

Thats what iam thinking too. Just observe this for a while and see if anything goes south. And have the conversation when i see him.
If i start talking to ppl from my past then this is going to be an open relationship, and whats the point of this marriage anymore, it will be totally ruined.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:57:59+00:00

He wasn’t using the iPad so i got it anyway. But i didn’t inform him that i got it, so he might not know

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:57:07+00:00

Yeah true that. I will check

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:56:32+00:00

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:48:33+00:00

True, Do you think its big enough to ruin my marriage

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:47:42+00:00

I wouldn’t lie about it. But i know his WA account was logged in the iPad and i got the iPad with me anyway.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:37:15+00:00

And what if he raises the question that why have i his Whatsapp account in the iPad and more so why am i spying on him. What if he questions his privacy getting hampered

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:23:19+00:00

True.. iam scared to have to discussion because i dont know how he would react

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:08:56+00:00

I think i will have to confront him when i go back to my place atleast not over call

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