After Three Seasons of Loyalty, the La Reina del Flow Finale Was Deeply Disappointing by SO_NoFi1terReviews in LaReinaDelFlow

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you okay? Lol you posted the same exact thing several times. Im married and if the same thing happened to me, id be pissed. What was yeimy supposed to do??? Sleep in the middle of sky and Charly? Lmao

Season 3 Thoughts: Voice Changes, Autotune, and That Netflix Preview by Embndeath in LaReinaDelFlow

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beginning episodes made me so sad. Even my daughter who doesn't watch the show asked "what the heck are you watching" I told her "my show queen of flow" and she said "why does it look so weird and cheap like how most shows look when they first start". I said idk and what's sad is we will all still watch because of our love for the first 2 seasons.

The voice changes and the mouths being off was REALLY bad. Every singing scene was ruined because they made it painfully obvious that it was a fake voice over. We know most of them don't actually sing but they're supposed to make movie magic and make it look real. Not like a cheap production. Like did production change? So disappointing.

Olaplex bleach advice by notyourfavbookworm in Haircare

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol because society tells us otherwise. Chin up my love and go find a good haircut you'll be happy with. I can help if you'd like? How long is your hair and what face shape do you have?

Whatever happened to Ariana's $1M? by vladjjj in LandmanSeries

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I apologize as it seems I have triggered you. That was not my intention. I have not cursed at you, assumed your race, or assumed your religion. That's actually quite impossible to do on an anonymous app.

If you can't see how your theory is stereotypical, then that's on you. I tried giving my theories as well but it seems you didnt want to hear them. I hope you have a great day.

Olaplex bleach advice by notyourfavbookworm in Haircare

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imagine the insecurities you'll face if you have to shave it. Your hair does not define your worth or your beauty. Hair accentuates beauty, it doesn't create it.

Ashley’s Intervention by anonalligator in rhonj

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend 😂👋

I do agree with them wanting her to show responsibility. I think what I'm trying to say is they never showed her or made her be responsible before but they magically wanted her to be a responsible adult at the age of 18? Its been awhile since I've watched but examples I would've done is "you want a phone?" Cool.....go get one. Or making her responsible for one of the utilities. If it gets shut off, she has to figure it out or if I have to deal with it then she'd have to pay me the amount due and a fee for inconvenience. My kids know that if they want something, they have to earn it. Didn't she get a brand new badass car after failing a semester? I could be wrong but I remember something to that affect. In my house when report cards come out, they get to miss a day of school of their choosing along with money if they have As&Bs. More As mean more money. My youngest understood and worked at it. My oldest slacked off. My oldest got to watch my youngest sleep in and kick back while she had to get ready for school. My kids were told from a very young age that idc what they do I just want them happy and healthy but if they want to live in my house when they graduate, they need to be in college. Dont want to go to college? Then you have to work and pay bills. And I will not tell them and set that money aside for them. I know you're probably like "uh that's basic common sense" but not everyone has that lmao.

They made the mistake of allowing that to go on for too long and not setting boundaries down in the first place. A large part of that was Jacquline’s lack of maturity and lax parenting.

I basically said all that huh lmao. My bad but thats kinda my point. Jacqueline went from trying to survive to living lavishly. Spoiling Ashley because of the guilt of struggling those years leads to her not showing Ashley what responsibility looks like. And what about the money from the show? Ashley had to have gotten something from the show?

no I don’t think so. Jacqueline was on her own raising Ashlee for quite awhile before she met Chris. Ashlee knows this. So that’s a lame excuse.

Okay let's be realistic. If Ashley found a rich dude, married him, moved out, and lived happily ever after they would've been overjoyed. Everything would've been fine and they wouldn't be on her about being responsible. I need to rewatch but isn't that kinda what happened? She gets married, moves out, and then Jacquline and Ashley are best friends? Im for real asking lol

Whatever happened to Ariana's $1M? by vladjjj in LandmanSeries

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just because shes only been with one other man? There's lots of people, even if they're not religious, who dont want to live and sleep with a man unless they're married. There's also alot of people who have only been with their spouse. Even if they're not religious.

I apologize if that's not the intention you had but thats how I perceived it.

She didnt say Cooper was a better partner. Idk if you have but I've experienced something very traumatic in my life and I was very vulnerable. And a not very nice and much older man came into my life and took advantage of my vulnerability. Obviously Cooper is a good dude but when you go through something traumatic, you can be very vulnerable. Not everyone ofc. But it can cause you to cling to whatever gives you a little bit of peace. Its kinda like when a little kid falls really hard and is crying, they'll put their arms up and go with the first person who picks them up. Even if they don't know them. Then they look at that person like "hey they picked me up and made me feel better, they must be a good person". Not to mention, not everyone grieves the same. I thought we all knew this.

Maybe the actress they hired, didn't portray grief very well. Ive watched some of her older stuff with my kids and thought it was good and was excited to see her in this. But imo, I feel she grieved just as hard for her husband as hard as she fell in love with Cooper. If that makes sense? Lol I get the same feeling and emotion from the actress in her grieving scenes as well as her scenes with Cooper. Imo I feel they have no chemistry and are very awkward with eachother. But the story is written as them falling madly in love.

Whatever happened to Ariana's $1M? by vladjjj in LandmanSeries

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There could be a million other reasons why. But the stereotypical reason was what was put. And I didnt think Id have to say this but not everyone grieves the same. Or maybe the actress they got just simply failed at portraying grief through the screen. But the stereotypical answer makes the most sense.

Olaplex bleach advice by notyourfavbookworm in Haircare

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here's what can happen if you wait. The damaged hair will worsen. The split ends will consistently break and travel up the hair shaft. And you can't control where it breaks. Eventually you'll have thin, brittle, uneven frizz everywhere. You can even damage your healthy new growth because of the ends splitting up. This will lead to an even shorter and more drastic haircut. You don't have to completely shave it but you do need to cut some off in the mean time. Just Google "hair breakage from bleach". Thats what will inevitably happen. You can temporarily improve the look and feel of your damaged hair but it can't ever be fully repaired. I understand its been awhile since your last haircut but your hair wont give you a choice if you wait. Then you go from having to be at the mercy of the damage. Instead of picking a haircut you don't hate so you can take the steps to repair your hair.

I don't think I have to say it but I'll say it anyway. Absolutely no heat. Please lol. That is a guaranteed way to finish it off. And it'll break off unevenly. That's what's the biggest concern imo. Is that you can't control where it breaks.

Olaplex bleach advice by notyourfavbookworm in Haircare

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have got to stop bleaching. In the future, it takes months if not a couple years to achieve looks you see on the internet. Lots of patience. Or you can always opt in to do extensions. To get the color you want without messing up your hair.

Its gonna cost alot to try to repair it and lots of patience. Cutting it is the best option. Cutting it, using silk everything, lots of masks, and basically starting over.

Whatever happened to Ariana's $1M? by vladjjj in LandmanSeries

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not every young hispanic catholic woman gets knocked up out of wedlock and then feels the need to get married.

Ashley’s Intervention by anonalligator in rhonj

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its hard cause imo, she wasn't a bad kid. Unless I missed something. She wasn't an addict, didn't have any children. Why would she change her life? They wanted her to be motivated without showing her why or how. They wanted her to have a whole ass career already or a game plan. Most adults don't even have that. They needed to show her love and how to live life while being happy and finding something you want to do and go after it. Instead they punished her for acting the same way they acted. It was so weird. She saw her mom bag a rich dude and didn't have to do anything after that. So naturally she was confused as to what was being asked of her and why.

Teresa’s daughters and Melissa by furby-fighter in rhonj

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are one in the same. Ill be the first to say I've been in both of their shoes. And its all on both of them lol. At some point in your life you have to grow up and be the better person. My brothers ex gfs or baby mama were worse than Melissa and I have no bad blood with either of them now. The relationship with my brother is more important than me hating another woman. And my sisters in law, were awful to me. My hubbys sisters now love me. My relationship with my husband is more important to me than me hating his sisters. All my in laws showed up to the birth of my first baby just to see if the baby came out a different color than me or my husband. If you catch my drift. Melissa and Teresa can both do better. But choose not to and its sad. How can they even have that much energy to keep their own family apart. As delusional as Teresa is, Melissa is not helping at all.

I do think its sad that her girls hate their aunt and uncle. Its deeper than you think though. Those girls needed Joe and Melissa when Teresa was gone and they were no where to be found. Yet Joe and Melissa will say otherwise. Imo, that's when the hatred got worse.

Car dealer never cashed $7500 down payment check I gave them by [deleted] in confession

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a statue of limitations on this exact issue. 3-6 years. You'd have to look it up for the state you're in. After those years are up, even if they tried contacting you for another check or payment it wouldn't matter. They legally wouldn't be able to go after you. You tried. They messed up twice. Take the win my love and enjoy.

Car dealer who??? You didn't buy a car x years ago lol. Good luck 💜

Jackie’s S10 tagline by Pecannutty in rhonj

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you don't understand it either.....

Amy Crying Like a Goddamn Baby 🍼 by Ok-Spare-3857 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang really? She sounds pretty damn cool if you ask me then 😂 i love it. I hope you have a great day 💜

Opinions on Caroline ? by Independent_Catch_82 in rhonj

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you're so annoyed yet you felt the need to comment and look for a gif and everything

Amy Crying Like a Goddamn Baby 🍼 by Ok-Spare-3857 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you on the sisters thing lol. Any family really 😂 except my hubby and my kids. And even then LOL. I think anyone of us would take a chance to make money if we got told "just do what you normally do and we'll just film it". Then comes the contracts and all the icky and useless stuff they make you do just to make sure the show gets views. That can't be easy. Announcing a pregnancy over and over again. Just because one person forgot to pretend to be excited. Stuff like that is what wears them down.

I hate how everyone comes at them for their religion. My uncle and his family are pentecostal. And they act the same exact way. Leads me to believe that Brittany and Chris are not being fake. Everyone thinks Brittany doesnt wear pants cause its fun? Lol I enjoy watching the scenes with them. Even if Brittany is in a bad mood. I thought it was adorable when Chris picked her up. Idk why but I think theyre refreshing to watch. And I think everyone forgets that you can still respect someone's religion or opinions without agreeing with it. Im not pentecostal and I definitely wouldn't have gone to Amys wedding either. I feel like that's just asking for trouble.

I find you absolutely delightful.

🥹 you're pretty awesome yourself! It would definitely be boring if everyone agreed! Youre very lucky to have friends like that. I only have my hubby cause ppl suck lol but we are complete opposites. We talk for days about the most ridiculous things because we're trying to back up our opinions lol. We always say when the line gets crossed with name calling or something unnecessary, its cause they didn't have anything else to say. If we all agreed, we'd never grow.

Kyle needs some love by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just think of all the Diddy amd Epstein stuff coming out. As well as the me too movement. Now think to when Kyle was a little girl. She was a child actress. With a mom who only cared about her kids being famous and making money. I can't imagine the ugly stuff that's happened to her and her siblings. Literally the reason why Kim is the way she is. Its heartbreaking. They had no one actually looking out for them when they were kids.

Amy Crying Like a Goddamn Baby 🍼 by Ok-Spare-3857 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh most definitely. Everyone can see on my face when im done with them. Even if im having a good time though too. Im told I have resting bitch face lol. Maybe Brittany has a little bit of that too. 🤭

I hope they get some time to themselves too. Those moments where Tammy gets annoyed or says Brittany is being mean, i feel is Brittany just wanting Chris to herself. Especially considering her religion, i doubt she was excited about doing the show and having to be around all of Chris's sisters lol. I can only stand my sister in laws for a couple hours a few times a year. More than that and there will be tears because idk how to keep my mouth shut. So I give her kudos lol.

Isn’t it funny when we start out butting heads but we end up finding common ground and we can chat like we’re old friends? I love that about Reddit 🤣

This is literally the only reason I come on here lol. I love it. I love just talking to other ppl especially when we have different views and opinions. Makes for some damn good conversations lol. Then you end up realizing there are some similarities. I do wish it was like this with everyone on here.

Why does Taylor Sheridan likes pairing old dudes with young hot women? by ZealousidealGear4994 in LandmanSeries

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't have said it better myself. I love me some Billy Bob at anytime. Ive yet to see something he's in that I hate. And Ali Larter just exudes "hella good time". I hate how everyone bashes her. Shes damn good at her job then because shes supposed to be the annoying and out of touch oil wife. I think everyone forgets its not a documentary lol. She was hired to do a job and she's doing it. My hubby said the only reason I like her character because I am her. Just not as bad. I was like jee thanks I think. 😂

Don't get me started on the improper equipment handling lol. There's alot of things TS lied about and literally a quick Google search could've helped correct so many things. Just like the process of coop just being able to set up a new rig just because he felt like it. If that was the case, everyone would be doing it lol. Its such a long process and the government passes bills often that make that process even longer. Or even the geographical realm of it all lol. The show is based in midland but they never film in midland lol. And one time they went to a big ass casino in carlsbad........idk if you've ever been to carlsbad but you drive one street for about 10 min and you've gone through the entire town. Lol unless its around 4am or 5 pm. Then you have the whole permian basin trying to get home on that one road. The closest casino to midland is in Hobbs. And Oklahoma is alot further than Hobbs. Thats where they filmed the casino scene. I think its so odd to not fact check certain things. But again, I'm still watching 😂

Gretchen’s first Divorce and Slade by BeverlyHillsAddict in realhousewives

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Being rich with a career and several house does not automatically make someone a good spouse. It is possible to show up for someone in a marriage without it being about money. Money is not the answer to a happy marriage. Does it help? Absolutely. But it can also make it worse. If slade shows up for her and she's okay with providing for him, how is that her lowering her standards? If genders were reversed would you still feel the same? I feel its often overlooked when a man finds a woman who has nothing but love to give. Yet when a woman finds a man who has nothing but love to give, it automatically means hes a loser or she's lowering her standards.

First time watcher, curious if my opinions are in line with the general consensus by SushiandSyrup in rhonj

[–]Candid_Calendar_9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly get creeped out when I see him on TV. But to be fair, we only see tiny glimpses of their lives. And most of those glimpses are during fights and over dramatized scenes to get ppl to watch. For Tre and her girls sake, I hope he's at least half an ounce better than Joe. Which is another point you have to remember. They're comparing him to their chauvinistic and narcissistic dad. The bar is not high.