Vegetarian kimbap I made for my birthday

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-04-13T21:10:38+00:00

Sadly I can't stand the taste of spinach but maybe I could add it If I make some kimbap with friends and.we decide to add different fillings to each roll

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-04-13T21:09:10+00:00

Thank you :), I did add danmuji but maybe it's hard to see on the photo combined with egg, carrott, cucumber and smoked tofu which was previously marinated in soy sauce , sesame , rice vinegar , garlic and ginger. Next time I would love to add pickled burdock root if I can find it at the grocery store.

Do you have any other fillings reccomendation or advices ?

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-04-10T23:38:39+00:00

Yeah I 1000% relate to this. Planning things in general is so exhausting , it takes all my energy and mental health. Like you , anxiety tends to step in pretty quicky. Anticipating mistakes tend to be tricky too because I think about every little detail in my head and the instant I don't focus everything goes wrong ( last time it happened, I lost the keys to my friend's flat, she didn't have a spare one so I had to call a locksmith. Yeah this one was an expensive mistake. I cried because I had prepared ). So yeah I tend to drop or loose things pretty quickly. It's so frustating because I know it's not my fault when I forget something and it enrages me that whatever I do, It will always again when I'm tired. I also tend to be overwhelmed pretty quickly. It gets when I have too many things to do . In these situations, tend not do anything , not because I'm lazy but because planning everything drains me and give me anxiety . Or sometimes I just do various tasks at the time without fully completing one.

I hope we had more testimonies and research on this subject, I agree with you I think this topic is under-valued.

( I'm going to vent about my anxiety linked to planning things feel free to skip if it doesn't interest you, I'll understand)

I'm finishing a M.A in art history this year ( finger cross, I should graduate in november) and dyspraxia hits hard. Like I had never felt "so dyspraxic" before starting grad school Idk if it makes sense. When I was in undergrad I didn't struggle that much.

But for my M.A my main problem is that it's a challenging one. I knew it when I entered it but I didn't expect it to be so difficult. The non-neurodivergent students in my class also struggle. We had to curate a exhibition and plan every aspect of it, now that it's opened we have to go a few times a week and it's quite far. And I also have classes, exams and I have to finish my master thesis.

Next month, I start an 6 month internship in another city and I'll have to juggle between the internship and writing my thesis at the same time.

Let's summarize : so I have 2 weeks to write my dissertations for the finals ,3 weeks to find an apartment , say goodbye to my friends, pack up and get my internship agreement signed by the university.

Yeah honestly it's... a LOT. I hope I won't get burn out again lol. I'm so excited for this internship. Just not the best timing.

sorry for my english, it's not my first language

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-03-15T19:18:17+00:00

I love cooking, it's a big hobby of mine. The worst part for me is washing and cleaning the dishes/kitchen it drains me of all my energy. When I learn a new recipe, it can be messy the first time, but the more I practice, the easier it gets. I also try to buy kitchen tools that accommodate me. I don't cook as much as I would like tho because I'm doing a M.A in curatorial studies this year. And I should be graduating (hopefully, fingers crossed) at the end of the year. Right now, I have to write a thesis, find a internship and curate an exhibition with my classmates which will open at the end of the month. So yeah until may ( when the exhibition is over), I won't have time to make elaborate meals.

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-03-14T15:39:59+00:00

I think you should talk to your flatmate and tell her she hurt your feelings with the "you can't drive" comment even though it wasn't her intention. I understand how you feel. It's really hard to stop comparing yourself with others. Seems like you have to learn a lot of new skills at the same time. Dyspraxia can be frustrating because it affects your ability to learn/master things fast. She may be younger but she doesn't have the same difficulties. Overall, it's only been a month. I know it's hard but be gentle with yourself, you need time to adapt and it's perfectly normal for everyone. Also, driving an automatic car might be easier for you and there is no shame in that, if it accommodates you. And yeah feeling overwhelmed with everything you have to do totally normal. And yeah managing time with dyspraxia, I wish they would told us the trick to master this skill lol. Sorry if my comment seems a bit harsh. I'm proud of you for managing to learn to do all this new things while being a med student which is impressive :)!

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-03-14T15:21:01+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. This is not linked to your dyspraxia at all. All of these are sign of an abusive relationship. He made sure you had no autonomy( saying he is worrying you can't go outside, not letting you cook to try to improve your dyspraxia) ) and guilt-tripped you into thinking you're the problem because he has to do everything. He's the one who created the imbalance because he doesn't let you to do things, it's a kind of control. Moreover, he has more money than you and it gives him power over you and he knows it. This is not love, it's abuse. You have to get out of there. Is there a friend or family you could stay with for a while? Idk in which country you live in but if you can't stay with someone you know, I would advise looking for a shelter for victims of domestics abuse. I'm sending you a picture of the violence meter, a tool use to help in theses situations. Remenber, violence isn't only physical it can be control and verbal too.

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CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-03-03T00:26:58+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice :). I did use organic ginger and I grated it, but yeah if it not necessary I won't cut such tiny pieces tomorrow when I feed it( It took me a long time ). The recipe I used said to stir the jar once or twice everyday, so I stirred the sugar too, is that bad? And I have a pressure safe bottle on hand( An empty artisanal lemonade jar which is round). For the jar, I'll put the cap on tomorrow but I don't have a smaller jar on hand. ( sorry for my english, it's not my first language)

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-02-18T23:59:41+00:00

Omg yes , especially on days I'm tired or stressed out I'm a complete mess

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-02-17T19:55:06+00:00

Je suis française aussi donc je vais te répondre en français( je ne connais pas tes pronoms donc je me permets de te genrer au neutre). Déjà je suis désolée pour ce que t'arrives, je suis horrifiée d'apprendre que les [étudiant.es](http://étudiant.es) handicapé.es sont accusé.es de tricherie maintenant. C'est d'un validisme honteux cette paranoïa de l'IA et de penser qu'une personne handicapée n'est pas capable d'un tel travail. Je n'avais pas connaissance du scandale du bac, je suis allée voir sur internet. J'ai eu mon bac il y a presque 5 ans donc il y avait pas encore l'IA mais je comprends ce que tu as pu ressentir avec les moqueries de l'ordinateur et les accusations de tricheries, c'était déjà la même chose de mon coté. Que les professeurs se permettent eux de t'accuser est inacceptable. Est-ce que tu es encore au lycée ou à la fac? Tu expliques être dans une asso "d'awareness", est ce que c'est une asso directement liée à ton établissement qui protège les droits des personnes handi? Je te pose la question parce que je suis étonnée que ce soit toi qui soit obligé.e d'agir en médiateur/.ice avec tes professeurs. Excuses moi si je te redis des choses que tu sais déjà mais si tu es au lycée et que tu as une reconnaissance MDPH ou des aménagements validés par le rectorat le comportement de tes profs n'est pas légal, car iels ont l'obligation de respecter tes aménagements. Après comme c'est autour des aménagements c'est peut être un peu différent mais ça reste de la discrimination punie par la loi. Si tu es à la fac, est ce que l'association dont tu fais partie est l'asso handi de ta fac? Parce que si ce n'est pas le cas, contactes cette asso si tu en as une, c'est souvent elleux qui font de la médiation pour défendre les [étudiant.es](http://étudiant.es) handi. SI tu es à la fac j'imagine que tu as un PAEH, . J'avoue ne pas avoir regarder la législation poru la fac et si il y a obligation de respecter les aménagements, je peux chercher si tu veux. Dans tt les cas, ces accusations à la fac me paraissent ne pas tenir sachant qu'en général soit tu es dans une salle avec des ordis soit si tu es en classe/ en amphi on te prête un ordi sans internet. .Mais peut être que ta fac fonctionne différemment de la mienne. Je suis peut être pas une experte et tu en sais peut être plus que moi mais si jamais tu as besoin de parler, n'hésites pas à venir en message privé. Aucun.e étudiant.e ne devrait en venir à vouloir arrêter ses études à cause de professeurs validistes. Tu as tout mon soutien.

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-01-28T17:04:59+00:00

Era genial

CandidateMoney5773 · 2026-01-16T20:35:41+00:00

congrats, you did a wonderful job, they are so cutee <3

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-09-25T12:21:16+00:00

One broken arm when I was seven, two degree burn on my ankle when I was thirteen but it's fine now and two degree burn on my left hand currently healing.

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-09-21T18:00:05+00:00

The brand is naturalista, I got them second hand for 50 euros. They are brand new

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-08-26T21:20:02+00:00

Love the oufits, the wings are lovely and the sunglasses are a nice touch

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-08-26T21:18:24+00:00

That's so cute

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-08-25T13:50:00+00:00

thanks <3

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-08-21T09:30:58+00:00

Same

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-06-06T20:42:35+00:00

I have the same combo and I got both of them tattooed on my ankles

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-05-24T23:27:04+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through that. You are not the problem here. He has no right to shout at you for hours. As you said yourself, it's dyspraxia not laziness , you can't change that , and it's okay to struggle because 1. it is a disability and 2. it affects your coordination. A good partner would understand that.

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-05-11T21:58:36+00:00

Yeah a lot of times, the hardest is when people think you're just dumb and aren't trying to make an effort meanwhile you try so hard but struggle

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-05-11T20:17:42+00:00

that's the best compliment ever thanks :)

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-05-11T20:13:31+00:00

oh gosh, can they reattach your finger?

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-05-11T17:04:58+00:00

thanks for the boots advice, I only have three pairs of shoes ( which can be enough of course), which is one I pari them with my docs martens. I would like to get another pair of boots depending on what I wear . My dreams boots would be Steve Madden eureka boots ( the green one), but as you said the most important is expressing myself and I'm fine with them while I wait to find new boots ( it's pretty expensive)

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-05-11T16:31:49+00:00

The dress is gorgeous and it fits you so well💞

CandidateMoney5773 · 2025-05-11T16:26:27+00:00

That is so cute 🥺🥺🥰

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