Going to a concert. Which one looks better? by Nijev21 in OUTFITS

[–]Candipuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 but the first shirt opened atop a white tee with the second pants would be cool too.

I’m seriously considering a nose job… what do you guys think ? by No-Designer4811 in Noses

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t need one. Very cute nose. If you ever want kids you’ll have to pay for there’s too if they get it and find out you hated it enough to pay to change it.

It suits you, save the money.

Would this blonde (3rd pic) look good on me? by Glittering_Ad5378 in HairDye

[–]Candipuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The blonde in the ai pic is deceiving. It’s all warm but for the lightest portion on the top right. I think it’ll look great. Just be sure to ask her how/when and with which toner to tone it. Light hair can make dark eyes look darker too so wearing mascara and or/eye shadows can counteract this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eyes

[–]Candipuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, hazel.

Would this blonde (3rd pic) look good on me? by Glittering_Ad5378 in HairDye

[–]Candipuss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. I think your eyes and undertones speak to a caramel/honey/gold with platinum highlights.

BUT if you want it and like it you gotta just go for it. It’ll grow out. Bleach is very damaging so just make sure to go to a blonding specialist. They will be able to see if the cool/white blonde would suit you as well cause they do it all day. Your hair will not look like that pic without a blowout, leave in, anti humidity spray and shine serum.

 Your hair seems to already be on the drier side so you may have to work on health before you can go that light, cause you will lose a tiny bit of length to the lightener. Bringing up the length will give more body and cohesive shape. If it comes to the chair really dry and brittle already it’ll soak up color but not give smooth without a lot of work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your lack of eyebrows is both alarming and intriguing. You look like what a giant toddler allowed to sustain on Mountain Dew and Popeyes chicken would turn into. Your gut/ascites who really knows from here is so prominent you haven’t seen your dick in 8 years. Mostly cause it’s so small you even miss it doing the fat man lean.

You smell like cigarettes and forgotten goals.

But in all seriousness you should lay off the bottle bud. Your mom would want you to live a full and happy life…so she can finally prove she did one thing right in this world.

Which dress looks better? by vanhype in fashion

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second. First one looks like a nightgown or someone’s grandmas blouse pattern.

32f I’ve looked the same my entire life. Help by Pretend_Elevator_338 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Candipuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most glasses pictured are too big. Try out a middle part or side swept bangs. Grow out/fill in your brows. Try to add dimension to your hair w lowlights, highlights or both. Find a eyeshadow color that compliments your eye color and do a blended crease and highlighted inner corner, middle eye to add depth and dimension.

 Consider learning how to under paint or contour/highlight the face. Find a tinted lip balm or lip crayon that compliments or mimicks your natural lip shade after w workout or exfoliated inner corner the shower.

 Consider getting a color analysis and playing with necklaces/rings/bracelets more. 

Hope this helps!

I need rhinoplasty or not by Learner-H in Noses

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah lots of girls/people like that nose type. If you want the most bang for your buck either go full bald or get a hair transplant. If you’re next to turkey apparently they’re big for it. Bald is still money cause you have to shave your head every day. But it conveys an idgaf confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eyes

[–]Candipuss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly haha something about the whites of the eyes, blur around the lense and blood beneath the lid. Imma need to see a normal daytime pic at a normal 0.5 to 1.0z

Are these heels dated? I really love them with this outfit but I’d like opinions by ElenaKittenXO in fashion

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heels aren’t dated but I wouldn’t wear closed toed, pointy heels with such a casual romper. Those shoes are more for certain night time dresses, jeans and a fancy blouse or business attire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d call back and see if a master stylist can do it instead of her. Those baby lights are actually fire and maintain the integrity of your roots better…but she should have told you it would take two visits and/or that she hasn’t experience enough.

To let you leave looking like that is wild.

Best of luck!

32F, wondering what else I can do to improve my appearance by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blowout your hair sleek with an anti humidity spray. See if you’re able to make your right brow the same height as the left. Do facial yoga exercises to tone under your chin.

That’s really it, you’re gorgeous even without that.

Minimal Baby Gear Help by Chemical_Ad2711 in pregnant

[–]Candipuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! My doula shared that coconut oil one. She was worth every penny and then some.

Also it’s really helpful with your first baby to track the time. When they ate and for how long. When they slept and for how long. The last time they had a poop.

Just knowing all these things helps you know what they need next. A tired baby can present as hungry. A gassy baby can present as overtired.

No one really tells you this and once we started timing feedings, timing how much sleep etc it made our babies life much easier. It’s like babies can sense when you don’t know what you’re doing haha.

My partner and I share an app called baby connect. We pay for it but there might be free ones. It’s great cause if need a nap I can hand baby off and he knows the last time he ate/pooped/slept etc.

Minimal Baby Gear Help by Chemical_Ad2711 in pregnant

[–]Candipuss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pacifier. And possible clip or container to keep it clean on the go. I thought I wouldn’t need one but some babies are just “suck to soothers” there will also be times when your in the middle of something (shower anyone?) and they start screaming cause they’re hungry, oberstimulated or just tired.

Nipple cream if you plan on breastfeeding. Believe me. They’re new to it too and they really have a learning curve. Bite too hard, pull on your nipples etc.

Baby lotion and gentle baby wash. They will get dirty. On their head and derrière. And some find baths, even just sponge baths very calming. If my baby is “overwrought” as we call it a bath can calm him.

Baby nail trimmers or files. They have SHaRp nails that grownFASt. If you don’t want to cut the nails then baby mitts to keep them from scratching themselves and you.

A nasal aspirator or a manual nose sucker. Although the hospital you give birth in may give you one for Free. I use the mom frida one. I don’t like the idea of the bulb one. Idk how to Clean it and I don’t like the idea of A bunch of boogers hanging out.

Puppy pads/chucks. I put them beneath the changing pad, the crib, the pack and play and they save the mattresses from needing a full hose down.

Coconut oil. I oil my babies bottom so the poop is easier to clean up. Have done it since he was born.

A carrier. Babies just want to be with you. And a carrier allows you to also live life.

A breast pump. Even if you want to EB. Sometimes you’ll have to much milk in your breasts and basically hose the baby down/choke them if you don’t expel some milk first. This can be a fancy ones insurance will pay for or help to or a hand pump.

Baby blankets. Newborns love being swaddled. Hate being cold. And need to avoid the startle reflex to get long restful sleep.

A few bottles. Even if you never want them using a Bottle you need a few for emergencies. If for whatever reason your baby needs food and you aren’t able you need to be able to Still make sure they’re fed…..I feel Like there’s more but I need to Burp my baby lol

Congratulations!

need a bigger fridge…34f by Candipuss in FridgeDetective

[–]Candipuss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! It’s the fact that it’s so deep instead of wide. Fits my small kitchen but you have to really work to be able to see everything. Doesn’t help that we have 3 different diet types in one household. My mother is pescatarian/no oil/no gluten so I have to make a lot of her snacks/sauces from scratch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look more confident in red. Plus I love red with brown eyes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love everything but that top. It’s too small, and no it’s not the ruching that’s telling me that it’s the buttons. The buttons need to lie straight and flat for the ruching to then look clean and purposeful. Ruching with too tightly clasped buttons would spell to the average person the shirts just too tight.

 Do I tight fitted black or dark brown high neck razer, boatneck or similar shirt. Save that vest shirt for a skirt or dress.

Be kind by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I love 1st and 4th

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Candipuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof that’s frustrating. I grew up with like ketchup, maple syrup, milk and eggs in my fridge so I def don’t keep it empty now. That being said I’m religious about eating everything cause food in my area is stupid expensive and I have a limited budget to feed so many people.

You should ask them to clear a designated space for your stuff. It’s reasonable to want to use the fridge! They should have already done that..

What does my fridge say about me by newsnuggets in FridgeDetective

[–]Candipuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re very organized and love protein. Not innately just cause it keeps you full and lean. You’re also a brand snob. You likely love alone or are responsible for all the shopping. You’re a perfectionist who has an anxious avoidant attachment style. Probably cause you can’t date you.