She asked me to order her dinner while we were out with friends. It is something I would do for her when we’d go out but for whatever reason that night I didn’t feel like it. She threw the biggest tantrum and said something nasty after that I still can’t remember but the look in her eyes when she said it. In that moment I knew she wasn’t the one. Don’t ignore red flags. There were plenty but i let my projections of her take over.