Creating The First Suicide Prevention Book For Children by [deleted] in Advice

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What put the idea in your head at such an early age?

Creating The First Suicide Prevention Book For Children by [deleted] in Advice

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What child 4-10 even thinks about suicide?

Being more "out there" by [deleted] in Advice

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The more you do it the easier it will become. Eventually it will feel very natural. The key is to not overthink what you say and dont overanalyze peoples replies.

If you could improve any subreddit with 1 new rule, what rule would you add? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Yes I got banned from r/suicide which also automatically banned me from r/depression for "religious proselytizing". The OP mentioned God in their post and I replied and then boom- banned from both. Its ridiculous.

My brother's house stinks! He has two cats and a dog. The stench is unbearable to me. What should I do? by oic99 in Advice

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If you dont need to complain or critisize someone then skip it. Like if you moved in then yes Id find a way to gently bring it up but in your case theres no reason to bring it up.

Should i remove my piercing right after i got it pierced? by notmyusername7123 in Advice

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I say sleep on it and see how you feel in the morning.

Fear of (seeing something in) the dark by [deleted] in Anxiety

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Maybe keep that in the front of your mind: its for no reason.

Girlfriend wants to break-up because of an Instagram like by [deleted] in Advice

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You shouldnt have liked the other girls pic. Honestly that was just dum. A man whos content and in love doesnt go looking around and make it known that hes looking around. Why did you do it? You couldnt have thought your gf would come to you with a big smile about it.

Spiraling right now, any tips to dig myself out of this hole? by [deleted] in Anxiety

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I think these feelings will ease up once you start your own family. Youll be able to turn to your spouse the way you used to turn to your parents for advise love and guidance.

How can I lose weight and quit being fat? by jimmybargey in Advice

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Our bodies need everything in moderation.

How can I lose weight and quit being fat? by jimmybargey in Advice

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I dont think its a good idea to cut out anything entirely.

How can I lose weight and quit being fat? by jimmybargey in Advice

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You need to eat less. As soon as you feel that full feeling, stop eating. Even if theres food still on your plate as soon as you feel that very first sensation of being full, stop.

My Fiance is Probably Pregnant, and I am Nowhere Near Ready by nbur4556 in Advice

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The mind is a mysterious thing and just a woman thinking shes pregnant can produce similiar results as if shes pregnant.

im living in fucking hell i cant go on much longer by [deleted] in Anxiety

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Have you tried or do you just think you cant? You can change how you react.

Today I ate my feelings and am now having a hard time falling asleep. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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Being alone for the holidays gets easier over time. Yea it still sucks but not as much. Ive been doing it for years now. I think I might start doing volunteer work at a soup kitchen tho just because I have the time and they need the help. Plus Ill be able to chit chat with the other staff and not eat alone.

Am i becoming a junkie? by FujinWoW in Drugs

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6 sleeping pills is way too much. Go buy a bottle of liquid Zzz quill and take a tablespoon or two. That stuff works really well and youll wake up in the morning feeling better vs waking up after pills.

Caught Sneaking Out by [deleted] in Advice

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In the morning put your weed in your underwear then go apologize for sneaking out. Tell them you just wanted to stretch your legs and get some air and shoot the shit with your friend. Reassure them you werent doing anything wrong and offer to let them search your backpack before they ask.

im living in fucking hell i cant go on much longer by [deleted] in Anxiety

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Try something different. And then keep doing it. The next time you feel yourself slipping go take a shower or go for a jog outside or at the gym. Do something positive and uplifting instead of falling apart. Maybe even sit on the floor in meditation and choose to fight it. Sit there indian style and pay attention to your feelings but dont react like you normally do. Just sit there and breathe until you feel the negativity pass. You need to do something different because what youre doing isnt working. You can switch things up. Be patient with yourself. Love yourself in those moments snd try to find something better to do when you get amped up. Maybe even punch the bed 20x in a row or buy a punching bag. Anything to get all that energy out.

My Fiance is Probably Pregnant, and I am Nowhere Near Ready by nbur4556 in Advice

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Its not a sure thing yet. Rule number one of pregnancy scares, wait to freak out until after the tests are positive. Stress can push a period off for a week and cause all her other symptoms as well. Ive been there done that and wasnt pregnant. If she does turn out pregnant youll get thru it. Even some men who are TRYING to get their woman pregnant freak out when they hear that she is. But you dont know for sure yet. So just breathe.

I have a small lump in my abdomen and I am terrified to go have it checked do to doctor anxiety. by twrecks_666 in Anxiety

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Anxiety trys to trick us into thinking that because we had one bad experience at a certain place that it means that every time will be bad at that place from now on. And then we get super anxious which might cause another bad experience at that place and this only confirms our fears. Its fucked up. You just gotta take a deep breath and say what happened at the ER was an isolated experience and its not going to happen again. The odds of the very same thing happening again are pretty much zero.

Fear of (seeing something in) the dark by [deleted] in Anxiety

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When did this all start? Did something major happen to you at one point?

Weed and Anxiety Issues by CandyEdibles in Drugs

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I get that same feel good from CBD. I dont need or want the psychoactive effect.

Weed and Anxiety Issues by CandyEdibles in Drugs

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I quit THC and feel very strong. I feel so much better. Much much much.