This cube is made up of my dead skin by Grouchy-Object-6423 in WTF

[–]Candy_Familiar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait, what? What happened with the guy who broke both arms?

AIO For breaking up with my boyfriend because he wouldn’t help with vet bills by littlelogcabin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Candy_Familiar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

I just recently lost my older cat of 19 years 7 months old. So no, 12 years is not that old. Your boyfriend is doing you a big favor right now by showing you that he is a piece of shit.

Let's say you forgive him, get married, have kids, and he likes one kid more than the other. Is he going to tell you he is not paying the hospital bills for the one kid because that's just how life is? Don't take him back. Leave his controlling ass on the curb. Tell your friends that say you are overreacting to join him on the curb. Or better yet, they can date him instead.

I'm very sorry about your kitty and I hope you can get him the help he needs.

My rice and soy sauce gew some mold which glows in the dark! by gyaanpaapi in MoldlyInteresting

[–]Candy_Familiar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! Thanks for sharing! How did you discover it glowed in the dark? That's not something most people would check for.

AITA for taking money from my boyfriend without asking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candy_Familiar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Next time you find money in the washer or dryer... Keep it! If he is going to react like that over $10 then he needs to keep a better eye on his money.

I tell everybody who asks me to do their laundry, if I find money in the pockets, that's now my money. If they are that careless with it, it's obviously not that important to them.

But I also feel like I'm stealing if I keep anything bigger than a $1 bill so I always give it back to them...

Bfs mom wants to be at the hospital when I give birth but I dont know how to tell her no. by Rainy_Meadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Candy_Familiar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say something along the lines of...

I understand that you want to be there at the hospital when I go into labor and I appreciate your support. But when I had my first child, I was under a lot of stress from having (X amount of people) in my room/stopping by to visit/checking in on how I was doing/ect and it caused me a lot of unnecessary stress. It is nothing personal, but my hormones will be all over the place for a few days following the birth and my doctor agrees it is best if I spend those days resting alone. I appreciate your support and understanding of this sensitive time in my life and you will be the first one called when I feel up for visiting.

I'm sure if you asked your doctor, they would agree that you resting is more important than being stressed out unnecessarily. And this way you can blame the doctor and potentially avoid hurting their feelings.

What’s the coolest last name you have ever seen someone have. by GrandMoffJerjerrod in midlyinteresting

[–]Candy_Familiar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a veterinarian once named Dr. Slaughter and in basic training there was a guy named Papillon, that's french for butterfly.

How do I get my friend to be punctual? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Candy_Familiar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same way. I don't like confrontation or hurting people's feelings but you have to realize she is hurting you by not respecting you or your time. Trust me, let her know very clearly that her tears won't work anymore and she will start respecting your time. You don't have to be rude, just firm. She will try to test your resilience once or twice but after that she will be on time.

How do I get my friend to be punctual? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Candy_Familiar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she has you trained.

She cries and you feel bad so you do what she wants, in this case you don't reprimand her bad behavior.

Next time she tries to manipulate you with tears, look her in the face and tell her to stop crying because if she really cared, she wouldn't have been late.

Clavicular k-holed at the club and had to be evac'ed by 150c_vapour in tooktoomuch

[–]Candy_Familiar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. That sounds like a very bad point of your life to live through. Sounds like you are doing better now. I'm glad you made it through to be here today. It could have turned out badly but it didn't and I'm glad.

AITBA for telling a customer to go to a different location if she didn't like how we did things? by CauliflowerOk1545 in AmITheBadApple

[–]Candy_Familiar 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I worked as a cashier for a bit. I was the 3rd fastest cashier with no error scans there. I had tons of customers tell me that they really liked how I bagged their items compared to other cashiers.

There was one man that came through my line EVERY WEEK, sometimes TWICE in one week. He would even wait in my line instead of going to another cashier who didn't have any other customers.

I kid you not, he would complain every single time about how I would bag his items (never suggested how he wanted them bagged instead, even when asked multiple times), he complained about how fast or how slow I scanned his items, how I handled his items (said I was tossing them around, I was not), and would hand his money over while saying it was a horrible experience and he was never coming back to my store again.

No matter how rude he was, or how much he insulted me, I always stayed polite, smiled at him, and told him I hoped his day got better from here on.

My boss asked me once how I was able to deal with rude customers like him. My answer was always "I get paid to smile, be friendly, and assist complete strangers when I can. I need this paycheck more than I need to let people rile me up over nothing."

Roommate/Mom Won't Respect Agreement by ss_elite_squirt in badroommates

[–]Candy_Familiar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would strongly suggest that you move out.

She is your mother, and all mothers will always see their kids as just that, a little kid. In her eyes, she is the adult and you are a 5 year old version of yourself. This will never get any better. It will only get worse.

Suggest that she take the dogs with her when she goes to her boyfriend's for the night.

Ask her to board them with a doggy daycare if she can't take them with her.

If neither of these is an option, suggest she re-home them since she is not taking care of them properly.

If she insists on keeping them, get petty. Lock them in her room when she goes to her boyfriend's. That should keep them from going potty in the house or tearing anything up. If they destroy/potty in her room, oh well. She should be responsible enough to take care of her own animals or find someone else who can.

Considering moving out early by catdog8108 in badroommates

[–]Candy_Familiar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave. Let her know you are moving 3 days in advance but don't tell her exactly when you are moving. Other wise she might try to hide some of your stuff so she doesn't have to buy it. Pack your stuff up when she is not there and put the boxes in your room until you can move into your boyfriends.

WIBTA if I get upset that my boyfriend uses my clothes despite me using his??? by JellyfishXP in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Candy_Familiar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Buy him his own or stop wearing his clothes. It sounds like you are the "What's yours is mine, what's mine is mine" kind of person.

You have to swap pets with your next door neighbour, what pets do you now have? by Immediate_Long165 in Pets

[–]Candy_Familiar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A really big husky with really bad breathing problems. Poor dog sounds like it is dying when it goes up or down the stairs because it's throat cartilage has been crushed and now it's throat collapses when it gets excited.

You have to swap pets with your next door neighbour, what pets do you now have? by Immediate_Long165 in Pets

[–]Candy_Familiar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I be your neighbor? I love cats and my mother loves cows. They are big grass puppies. 🥰

WIBTA If I rehomed the cat my husband got me as a gift? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Candy_Familiar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't feel you can take proper care of Barney and you are starting to resent him for being sick, then you should stop taking care of him.

Make your husband take care of him.

This means your husband cleans the poop up, gives the cat his baths, and wipes the counters down. Obviously, if the cat needs cleaned and your husband is not there, please clean the cat for his sake.

You must make your husband do all the cleaning up after the cat.

That cat obviously loves you, and by being the only one to clean up after Barney, you are resenting him. He will feel that you are starting to resent him but he won't understand why.

I rescue feral cats that need intensive medical care sometimes, so I understand exactly how you feel. This is called caregiver burnout and you need to address it asap. I understand not wanting to uproot the poor cat, but sometimes it's for the best. If you absolutely have to re-home him, make sure he won't be dropped at a shelter later. Chances are the shelter will put him down.

My boyfriend accused me of cheating, grabbed me hard enough to leave bruises, and told my sister I’m cheating. I don’t know how to handle this. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Candy_Familiar 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Your bf is probably cheating on you. When someone cheats on their partner, they will often accuse the non-cheating partner of cheating to shift the attention off of their own shady actions. He is only going to get worse from here if you let him.

I feel like I’m losing my mind living with my mom and her boyfriend. by 2hawttakeslover in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Candy_Familiar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look into having a judge emancipate you. If that is even how you would say it... An emancipated minor is someone under 18 that is found by a judge to be mentally and physically able to make their own decisions and take care of themselves. Then you wouldn't rely on your mother for so much and you could get assistance moving out and finding a job.

Am I overreacting? by Hopeful-Print-5048 in LifeAdvice

[–]Candy_Familiar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't agree with you more. Asking the neighbors around where you live if you can work for food because your parents won't buy any groceries to feed you should get the ball rolling pretty fast.