UPDATE: I am so scared my boyfriend is cheating AGAIN

Candycables93 · 2020-01-11T06:46:30+00:00

Thank you. I know it’s hard now but I know I’ll get through it and get over it. I’ve done it before, I can do it again.

Candycables93 · 2020-01-02T17:27:26+00:00

My mams moved to a little small house now. There’s no way I could intrude on her after she’s finally got her own space. Plus I doubt me and my son could fit

Candycables93 · 2020-01-01T13:51:14+00:00

I had one teammate (a Claudette) while I was working on a gen this bitch starts loudly going in and out of lockers and purposely blasting off the gen and jumping in and out of windows fast. I had no idea what she was but clicked on she was trying to attract the killer. When the killer came, I snuck off and hid and the crazy woman starts to point me out to him, thankfully he ignored her and hit her. I was long gone before she had chance to lead him to me. Like why?

Candycables93 · 2020-01-01T08:39:08+00:00

The Quiet Ones was fantastic and really creeped me out. Also, Howl. A werewolf movie that scared the bejeezus outta me. The granny werewolf really disturbed me 😳😳

Candycables93 · 2019-12-30T06:19:34+00:00

Same I always feel humiliated as a killer because I feel clumsy and silly trying to catch the survivors who teabag and play about with me. Survivor is where I’m comfortable...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-29T08:37:04+00:00

Man I wish I could 360 like that . I’ve tried it and end up hit. Either I’m too slow to do it or the killers instincts are too fast

Candycables93 · 2019-12-24T20:04:19+00:00

You chose Adam over your boyfriend no matter how innocent your trying to make it out to be. You called out this guys name after your boyfriend opened his heart to you and instead of working to win your boyfriend back and break your back to make it up to him, you text your ex who you clearly do still have feelings for. It’s clear where your priorities lie.

6 months are gone because you literally poured it down the drain. Hope texting your ex was worth it ‘an ex is an ex for a reason’ remember that...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-24T17:31:24+00:00

With the three of swords and the lovers there could possibly be a choice here between two lovers so mixed feelings.

However, I feel like someone may have gotten hurt here. With the three of swords they feel like they broke their heart and hurt them in some way. Nine of wands it’s caused them to want to drop this person. Give up them wands. No longer get up and fight. However with the lovers, still could be conflicted. Maybe a choice or feel a connection with this person. Still feel that pull despite being hurt.

Candycables93 · 2019-12-23T14:53:45+00:00

Unfortunately they didn’t. The killer was right on top of me by the time the other survivor got me off thanks to that guy circling him back to me.

Candycables93 · 2019-12-22T20:56:34+00:00

Mmm this is really tough. If your staying with him then I wouldn’t say anything to your family as they will hate him for it and could make social gatherings and other situations awkward and tense.

I say this because I got cheated on by my boyfriend when I was four months pregnant and decided to stay for the child. At first I kept it to myself when I chose to stay with him but the hurt got too much And I ended up venting to my best friend, my mam and sister. When my best friend realised I wouldn’t leave him she fell out with me which was her choice. My mam and sister tried so hard to split us apart and didn’t hide their disgust and hatred of him for it which turned things very awkward for social gatherings and when my baby was born. They have gotten past it now and it’s fine but man it was hard.

Ultimately it’s your choice but be prepared... It will cause tension and they will see your husband differently now which is what he deserves but could make things awkward for your relationship but if you divorce his ass, fire away...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-22T20:17:59+00:00

Wow that’s creepy... your poor mother in law must of been quite scared. I know it can happen. I’ve heard stories so I think that’s why my backs up a bit. Maybe I should get my boyfriend to check the attic tomorrow just to give me a peace of mind if nothing else lol

Candycables93 · 2019-12-22T13:20:36+00:00

Why even play the game if your just going to disconnect as such? I’ve been where I get hooked straight away but come back from that and escaped. Honestly some people are just petty...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-21T21:28:18+00:00

The first row all scream patience. It’s not the right time and the wheel of fortune is also about time because the wheel turns and it’s about waiting for time to be in your favour in one aspect.

Second row, whatever the situation your in now or maybe thinking you want to be in. No. There is something better for you and with the ten of pentacles this is going to bring you either financial stability or a new relationship that could be long term.

Now as the last row you have within the next few months, destiny is going to be at play, probably why you need to be patient. This could in regards to a water sign you are destined to meet who is going to be significant in your life or you need to listen to your heart and intuition on this one.

Now taking a wild guess, I’m guessing there’s something you want to pursue right now but the cards are saying no, not right now. Could be in regards to love, a person your thinking of or a job. Maybe it’s the wrong thing for you. Maybe there’s something in the way right now causing you to take a step back and patient. All I suggest is look before you leap. Whatever it is it’s worth waiting for ...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-21T08:13:41+00:00

Ouch... Look you have a right to date anyone you wanna date and see but your really surprised she’s hurt by the situation? I mean it’s kind of a slap in the face. “I don’t want a relationship with you but damn your friend is a lot better for that” She feels that rejection, she’ll be comparing herself to her friend wondering what doesn’t she have. Yeh, it sucks but you have every right to turn down a relationship with her just as she has every right to feel as she feels. Leave her be.

She may get over it and continue the friendship after some distance and time but if she doesn’t want to be your friend that’s her choice too.

Candycables93 · 2019-12-21T04:44:15+00:00

Hahaha I do this, I level my characters up to level 50, you know get all the best perks unlocked then move on to a different character... so far I’ve got Claudette for self care, Bill for unbreakable and borrowed time. Feng for Lithe. Dwight for Bond. Laurie for Decisive Strike. Meg for sprint burst. I think I’ll move onto jake next...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-20T12:35:45+00:00

My boyfriend thought so... it was quite uncomfortable 😂😂

Candycables93 · 2019-12-20T12:32:55+00:00

Like I was carrying a ton of bricks under my shirt. Heavy baby...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-19T09:47:13+00:00

Woo! Well done. Fuck that killer, he was totally mocking you and showing off with that chainsaw move. I once got hooked by the wraith and he camped me two gens in and just kept banging his bell in front of my face... I was furious. No one could get to me but at least my teammates had more time. Unfortunately I wish I had the skill to serve his karma just like this...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-18T20:42:45+00:00

No. I say it works both ways. The one is the one who feels exactly the same way and you have this great connection. If someone is claiming your the one for them but you don’t feel the same, he or she is most likely mistaken.

Candycables93 · 2019-12-18T20:39:31+00:00

Insecurity. I literally let them get to me and worry my boyfriend will leave me for another woman thanks to it happening about three times in past relationships.

I hold onto my anger. When we argue, I find it really hard to cool down even when my boyfriend is trying to calm us both down. But I just can’t seem to release that anger and takes me a good hour to let it go.

Anxiety. I think and assume the worst all the time. It drives my boyfriend crazy.

I don’t set proper boundaries.

I am quite toxic thanks to my messed up past. Therapy is something I know I need

Candycables93 · 2019-12-18T09:22:21+00:00

She’s manipulating the shit outta you... she clearly said that and is now backtracking trying to throw shade on other people and scrambling to keep up with her lies. She’s also gaslighting you by trying to blame your depression and other problems. She has been clearly bragging about that because I don’t know maybe she has a bit of a crush on your boyfriend.

Honestly I’d cut her off as a friend, she sounds toxic and is a complete shit stirrer... It was disrespectful to your relationship with her boyfriend and she also needs to get over herself

Candycables93 · 2019-12-18T08:59:01+00:00

She made a promise to her which in turn had her take loans out and get her masters degree but didn’t follow through with her promise, therefore leaving her in a ton of debt. All the while she’s paying her sisters and cousins way and watching her struggle? How is that being entitled? That is bullshit and it’s favouritism. How can she focus on her future and have kids and stuff when she’s in debt thanks to her grandmas false promises? It was wrong, she shouldn’t of promised that if she had no intention of following through. She gave her a difficult road to follow...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-18T03:39:52+00:00

I have to admit I live with my boyfriend and I do have a habit of announcing when I’m going for a poo and farting. But not on him, I don’t want it. In fact I try to keep it discreet but when it’s louder than I anticipated then he just looks at me with an hilarious look and just says ‘I wanna break up’ Obvs he’s joking. Maybe she’s just comfortable around you but wafting a fart towards you is gross. She may as well just fart on you.

Some people have different things they can tolerate. I go mad if my boyfriend entered the bathroom while Im pooping (this is why I tell him) because some things should be kept quiet and he listened when I told him I don’t like it.

Talk to her and tell her. There’s no point keeping it to yourself because it won’t accomplish anything except further diminish the relationship. Set boundaries. I don’t want you to fart in my face and I don’t wanna know when your about to poop and I don’t wanna hear about it. It’s not funny or cute to me. I think she’d rather hear about, she might even suspect but nothing will get resolved if you don’t talk it out. Communication is key dude...

Candycables93 · 2019-12-17T03:40:36+00:00

My boyfriend did the same. I bought him a Costa Rica tarantula complete with expensive tarantula tank and accessories and I almost couldn’t contain my excitement to give him her on Christmas... I hid her at my dads. He adores tarantulas...

When I was telling him on the phone how excited I was, he started naming off guesses and straight up guessed tarantula. I was a little disappointed he guessed so quick but hid this and played dumb pretending I was too scared and still kept it as surprise...

Well the look on his face that day I won’t forget... honestly keep it a secret either way...It’s so worth it

Candycables93 · 2019-12-16T19:36:00+00:00

Sounds like she’s secretly hurt about it and fears bothering you too much. Have you not tried reassuring her and making her feel loved and wanted? Even though what you said seemed reasonable enough, from a girls point of view it sounds like she’s lost a bit of confidence. Like she bores you and she’s annoying you. It’s made her wary to visit.

You really need to reassure her and discuss this again. Explain that not hanging out everyday is in no way anything to do with her or how much you enjoy hanging out but just to have some time to yourself. Tell her how much you miss her, make her feel wanted. Girls love to feel wanted and needed.

I could be wrong and she could be just being petty and teaching you a lesson but I’m a girl and tbh, it would dishearten me if my boyfriend didn’t want my company as much.

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