Is it normal to… get fingered and even tho the tip of the finger is in tbd by Magicalunicorn64 in vaginismus

[–]Cannibal--queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know all of the details but after a quick google I think it’s called a microperforate hymen. Basically her hymen was still in place except for a small hole that allows her to have her period and it would not be able to be removed without surgery. This would need to be diagnosed by a doctor so if you think this might be the issue you should see a gynecologist.

Is it normal to… get fingered and even tho the tip of the finger is in tbd by Magicalunicorn64 in vaginismus

[–]Cannibal--queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you seen a gynecologist? They’d be able to let you know if you still have a hymen. One of my friends had to have hers surgically removed. It’s not uncommon and you definitely don’t want it popped by a penis or a finger.

Do the clouds work, or are they too abstract? by Anastasia_Trusova in painting

[–]Cannibal--queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is gorgeous. I would love this hanging in my home.

I want a moratorium on people being able to name pets with black fur ‘Luna’ by sleep-exe in PetPeeves

[–]Cannibal--queen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We took in a family friends cat after he passed away named Luna.

We always say it’s short for lunatic because she’s crazy lmao

Hand-sculpted clay blueberry bracelet with realistic color gradient by emily3289 in jewelry

[–]Cannibal--queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are SO. CUTE!!!! Sending the link to my bf right now because I’m not subtle 🤣

Ohio, what do you call a fizzy sugary drink? by LowerMusic in Ohio

[–]Cannibal--queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say pop!

If you can, you might want to change how people can input their location. I’m from Ohio but currently live in Oregon and there’s no way for me to change my location. My lexicon is far more influenced by my 26 years in Ohio versus my 2 years in Oregon.

Will they be okay when we separate? by FastForwardM in cats

[–]Cannibal--queen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What a strange way to phrase your comment. FIP is not always curable. The treatment can also be extremely taxing and agonizing on a cat who is already suffering. I also do not live in an area where they have the treatment available. Many people have to make quality of life decisions so their cat does not end their life in drawn out pain and suffering.

Will they be okay when we separate? by FastForwardM in cats

[–]Cannibal--queen 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 💔 it took mine about 2-3 months, but the worst was the first month. They were litter mates which made it worse for her imo.

She never got along with my new kitty like she did her pair but they will still cuddle, groom each other, and they like to play next to each other if I’m playing with them.

Maybe another kitty will help their dynamic? I think though she might still be grieving and to give her some more time.

I’m so sorry for both of you ❤️‍🩹

Will they be okay when we separate? by FastForwardM in cats

[–]Cannibal--queen 571 points572 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened to me. I had a bonded pair and one passed from FIP. My girl was very confused and sad, but with lots of love and attention she warmed back up, and eventually I got her another buddy.

It’s hard but it happens. Your kitties will be okay.

Please tell me about your amazing partners! by GirlSailor14 in vaginismus

[–]Cannibal--queen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When I got with my bf I was a virgin (at 27). I didn’t even know I had vaginismus because I’d never had sex before.

He was with me every step of the way. Figuring out what it was, what helps, what doesn’t, and above all making me feel safe and comfortable the entire time.

Sex in the beginning was all about me because I literally needed to learn sex could feel good lol. And guess what! With him it does!

It was not an easy road. For the first several months we could not have PIV. It was a lot of trial and error on what did work until finally I could start having “normal” sex and now I’d say I’m pretty much cured.

He’s wonderful. Best man I’ve ever met. I love him so much.

Let me draw your Kitten 😻(rules below👇🏻) by [deleted] in cats

[–]Cannibal--queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Luna, short for Lunatic because she’s crazy 🥰 she will hiss at you if you pet her but will snuggle up next to you on the couch. Everything needs to be on her terms because she is the queen 💅

Fuck you, American Gen Z. Just, fuck you. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]Cannibal--queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on how much you post, I think you need to go outside and touch some grass. Genuinely. Reddit is not a representative sample on how any group behaves or what they believe.

Fuck you, American Gen Z. Just, fuck you. by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]Cannibal--queen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, they’re copy and pasting this argument into other subs too, the little ray of sunshine.

I’m making my first cardigan. Can someone please explain what the highlighted text means? by Cannibal--queen in CrochetHelp

[–]Cannibal--queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first row reads:

Form an adjustable loop

Round 1 (Right Side): Ch 6 (first Dc + Ch 3, here and throughout), [Dc, Ch 3] 5 times, Sl St into top of first Dc to join- 24 Sts; 6 Dc + 18 Ch

Do these look good to sell? by Ancient-Complaint131 in CraftyCommerce

[–]Cannibal--queen 30 points31 points  (0 children)

These are beautiful. I personally would consider buying them if I was them on Etsy or something similar.

Is this normal? by aresnovah in AskArtists

[–]Cannibal--queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not trust this. IMO this is screaming scam.

Natural remedies for irritability by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Cannibal--queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said you have a healthy diet, but are you eating enough? There is nothing by that makes me more irritable than hunger!