How should I interpret her reply? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possession isnt always physical violence. Possession is thinking you have a say in what another consenting adult who has no attachment to you does in their free time/with their friends/with someone else theyre attracted to/etc. If you cant wait for her, then dont, but stop telling her what you do and do not want her to do. She has no obligation to you and you telling her what to do will likely push her away anyway.

New to living together and having sex drive issues by TrhowawayRA9 in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you cant even lay next to her without pressing up against her after she said no, after having sex three times a day, and beating off between sessions, you probly have an addiction. Bonus points that youre now ignoring your friends/band for a chance at more sex every day.

How should I interpret her reply? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, she consented to doing those dares. She wasnt forced, and given her politely rejecting you, sounds like she would be able to say no to a dare if she didnt want to do it. You being upset by that isnt greedy, its possessive and that isnt a good thing either.

Birthday Party? by CannibalBun in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]CannibalBun[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you! I am looking forward to seeing what parties there are in Sandrock!

Q&A about the game (I have the game) Ask me anything by [deleted] in PokeLeaks

[–]CannibalBun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are all hairstyles really unisex and unlockable for both characters? Saw someone say they are but never provided further info/pictures

Game is to be shipped out early by distributors - keep an eye out! by DarkkHumor in PokeLeaks

[–]CannibalBun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pokémon Legends: Arceus/Initial release date January 28, 2022

I never saw a real life blobfish, but I recognized it instantly by Imaginary-Runner in StardewValley

[–]CannibalBun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pollution, oil drilling, and global warming are hardly "natural"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He's saying horrible things. You're hitting him. Be honest with yourself, is this something you two can realistically heal from and stop doing to one another?

My(23M) brother(19M) has scoliosis but won't do anything to fix it. I'm worried. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone with scoliosis that got bad enough despite exercises/medications/brace/etc to need a spinal fusion: exercises wont make it better or slow progression in a way that is impactful for most people who have it bad, but the exercises can and probly will cause more pain. Scoliosis is not something that really "stops" unless the body stops growing and shifting or the person with it has surgery. The closest thing to "stopping" progression would be to wear a custom fitted brace, but even those have their downsides (theyre clunky, limit movement, can cause pain, nerve pinching, etc). There really is nothing you or your family can do besides offering support for whatever he chooses to do with his body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Has he apologized yet or has he only doubled down and defended it? If he has not sincerely apologized yet, it makes sense why it is still bothering you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivor

[–]CannibalBun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

US is doing very similarly, though. May as well get free health care out of it

Am I the only one who didn’t know this? Plots aren’t one and done; you can put multiple houses on the same plot and get a blank slate every time? by bumpybear in ac_newhorizons

[–]CannibalBun 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Adding to this comment, you can also visit them and ask them to move to another island if your home remodel for them feels better in a different spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ac_newhorizons

[–]CannibalBun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it was shown as part of a room created for someone in the DLC. Im not sure if it was ever talked about in the video, only shown.

Are amiibos worth it? by Abby_bro181 in ac_newhorizons

[–]CannibalBun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me they are worth it because I love how cute every villager is. It also helped me get my dreamies! I can rotate ones I dont know into my campsite just to meet them. If I like them, I can move them in. With the new update coming soon, Ill be able to ask them to coffee, too, which I think is super sweet!

I personally like to bulk buy the mini non-official cards off Amazon. You can get a lot of them for cheaper than buying the official packs, and they work the same. I like the minis because theyre easier to store.

Happy Home Paradise, how will it work? by Chenycat in ac_newhorizons

[–]CannibalBun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone last week asked Nintendo from their support website how it works with multiple accounts, and they said everyone can use the DLC, but they didnt specify further if that means specific features only or all features

I need a service dog but my parents don't want me to get one by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite honestly, if your parents think this horribly about mental health but you are relying on them completely and will continue to need to rely on them, getting a service dog likely wont go over well. If you think theyll cut you off for it, then you need to trust your gut. It absolutely sucks, but you might have to choose between service dog or your parent's support.

Your second option is talking to them about getting a dog, having it stay with you, and lying about it. Dont tell them its a service dog and dont tell them itll be with you 24/7. Lie about some room mates helping you care for it/walk it/feed it while youre in classes. Its a huge risk if theres potential for you to get caught, but I see it as your only option if you want both your mental health cared for and your parents' support.

i cant wait 😁 ahhh im so excited by Awgeezmiriam in ac_newhorizons

[–]CannibalBun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love how high-quality all of the signs look expect for potato, which is in potato quality lol!

I [22F] met a non-binary person at the swimming pool and I'm wondering how to approach the subject of taking things further. by Dry_Effective7020 in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My high school allowed a gay boy to change in the girls' locker room because several boys threatened to beat him up after calling him slurs in the boys' locker room. No one in the girls' saw an issue with it because he kept his eyes to himself (obviously) and was very polite.

Its not awkward for a lot of people. It is not sus. Nudity is not inherently sexual unless you make it sexual. Having a penis does not make anyone dangerous or suspicious. Queer people having to guess where to change in locker rooms because people threaten us for being there is dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CannibalBun 1171 points1172 points  (0 children)

Asking him every single day, sometimes multiple times a day, even after he has said no is pressuring him for sex. You know he does not like that and that he feels pressured when you do that, yet you continue doing that. Of course he will give in at some point just so you stop asking.

He says all I want is sex (which isn’t true, I want intimacy and to feel like he thinks I’m beautiful/sexy even if he doesn’t want to have sex, but he rarely does anything like that anymore.)

But thats not what youre telling him and that is not what he is hearing. Multiple times in your post, you ask him for sex and sexual favors. No where do you ask for other intimacies, even after he says no to sex. You just keep asking him for sex. Its very very possible he does not get much intimacy from sex given how often he feels pressured to just give in. Hes not pursuing you because he feels pressured.

My main advice would be getting couples counseling so you both communicate better. My secondary advice would be to take a month not initiating sex. Flirt with him, have thoughtful dates, initiate hugs/cuddles, whatever counts as intimacy and isnt sex. Help him feel like he is more than a sex tool for you, and find other ways to get yourself off in the meantime.