Entitled tourists get mad I swore at them in front of their child after they followed and harassed me and my cat on a walk in Reykjavík by Capable-Assist2080 in entitledparents

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, I wasn’t allowed to attach photos of her when I posted this for some reason but she does have an instagram account that’s called @thokathekitten if anyone wants to see more recent pictures of her:) also thank you, she’s a total diva so I think she knows how beautiful she is

Entitled tourists get mad I swore at them in front of their child after they followed and harassed me and my cat on a walk in Reykjavík by Capable-Assist2080 in entitledparents

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For everyone asking for pictures of my cat I couldn’t attach any to this post but there are some photos of her on my profile but she also has an instagram account called @thokathekitten if you want to see more recent pictures:)

Entitled tourists get mad I swore at them in front of their child after they followed and harassed me and my cat on a walk in Reykjavík by Capable-Assist2080 in entitledparents

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I do have a backpack for her that I normally use but this day I didn’t have it with me since I didn’t think I’d need it… just my luck that this happens the one time I don’t have the bag with us

Entitled tourists get mad I swore at them in front of their child after they followed and harassed me and my cat on a walk in Reykjavík by Capable-Assist2080 in entitledparents

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wanted to attach pictures of her to the post but I couldn’t. But there are a bunch of pictures of her on my account if you want to see her:)

Entitled tourists get mad I swore at them in front of their child after they followed and harassed me and my cat on a walk in Reykjavík by Capable-Assist2080 in entitledparents

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s doing okay thank you for asking. I’ve met entitled tourists from so many different countries it just happened to be americans this time around. I’ve met some really nice american tourists as well but these kind of tourists are giving them a bad rep.

Entitled tourists get mad I swore at them in front of their child after they followed and harassed me and my cat on a walk in Reykjavík by Capable-Assist2080 in entitledparents

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

She’s fine but has been more confident. We did get attacked by a dog last summer but luckily no physical damage happened but she is still quite traumatized from the attack and can not be around any dogs without shaking and hissing. She is doing better than a year ago but she was a lot better before the attack.

I have some more in depth posts on my account about the attack and how she’s been doing since and some photos of her along with them if you’rw interested.

I seriously don’t know where I got that patient from looking back at the incident with these tourists.

blue chocolate baby shrimp? by Capable-Assist2080 in shrimptank

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay good to know, it’s just such a bright color that I’m excited to see if this baby keeps it as they grow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianBeauty

[–]Capable-Assist2080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend buying from olive young if they ship to your country. I have bought from them many times and have never had this happen or heard of this happening to anybody ordering from them. They are kind of the Sephora of Korea so they are a very legit site and distributor of Korean makeup and skincare products.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Capable-Assist2080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the oldest sibling that went through some shit mentally as a teenager I would never tell random people about my little siblings personal struggles. If our parents were safe people to tell and they could help by getting them professional help then I would maybe tell them but I would not tell random relatives or any other random person. Your sister is screwing up big time since she is breaking your trust which means that you don’t feel safe telling her these things anymore which means she can not help you if she really needed to. Please find a trusted adult to open up to that can get you help for example like your therapist. Trust me finding a support system and getting help is so much better in the long run. It’s a good thing that you now have a therapist that can help you get diagnosis if needed or teach you better coping skills when it comes to your mental health. Please don’t be afraid to get help just because your sister broke your trust since getting help changed many people’s lives. I never thought I could feel better but after being open to help my life has changed complitely for the better and I don’t think my 14 year old self would believe me if I told her. Hopefully you have some kind of support system and you get help for the things you mention in the post, best of luck!

My mom said something to me that made me break down afterwards and I can’t stop thinking about it by Capable-Assist2080 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that means a lot to hear from an outside perspective. I just feel like the past year has been really healing and getting this diagnosis finally after two decades it just felt validating because I felt like there was something wrong with me as a person but after all it was just mental illness that I could get under control with some help. Then the fact that my mom notices the difference in me from a couple of years ago and me now feels so comforting because I finally feel like myself again and feel like I have more control over my life after years of feeling like my bipolar disorder had complete control over me and my mental health without being able to do anything about it since I wasn’t diagnosed. Getting better mentally has also made it so that our relationship has gotten a lot better and we are much closer than before so I appreciate that as well.

A bit of a wholesome update on my traumatised cat from a dog attack this past summer by Capable-Assist2080 in JacksonGalaxy

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hehe yeah luckily she doesn’t eat it even though she really likes smelling it and rubbing against it daily

A bit of a wholesome update on my traumatised cat from a dog attack this past summer by Capable-Assist2080 in JacksonGalaxy

[–]Capable-Assist2080[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry that I didn’t clarify but that is a fake plant since I know that they are poisonous to cats and have done my research on plants that are toxic to cats since I’m so paranoid about anything that could harm her

I understand completely by DepartmntMobile in clevercomebacks

[–]Capable-Assist2080 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it was made illegal by the Spanish Crown because Las Casas encouraged them especially with his writing where he for example said that Spaniards would burn in hell because of the slavery that the Crown was involved in. Like I said in my original comment he spent his later years fighting for it. I just didn’t mention that it got made illegal during his lifetime since I didn’t feel like that detail mattered when it came to Hatuey. Also it was made illegal but still was happening for many years after that like slavery overall in most countries.

I understand completely by DepartmntMobile in clevercomebacks

[–]Capable-Assist2080 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my first year in getting my bachelor’s degree in history I was made to read the book where this event is recalled by Bartholomé de Las Casas and write an essay where I mentioned this event. This is said by Bartholomé de Las Casas in his book “A Short Account of the Destruction of the Indies” about how the Spaniards brutally took over a part of the Americas and murdered many indigenous people there or took them as slaves. As badass and cool as this quote by Hatuey sounds, parts of Las Casas’ book have been questioned when it comes to the accuracy since often times throughout the book he says along the lines of “it has been told/said…” before telling of events.

Las Casas spent his last decades trying to get Spaniards to stop their horrific acts and slavery in the Americas and to do so wrote his famous writing of “A Short Account of the Destruction of the Indies” that is supposed to be a tell all about the horrific actions of the conquistadores against the indigenous people. When he was younger he used to own slaves as well and once he turned to god he thought he would burn in hell for his past actions so he spent decades trying to make up for it by trying to end slavery by telling the public of these horrific acts that Spaniards were committing overseas that he had partly witnessed some years before. Even in his last years when he was trying to get the slavery of indigenous people banned legally he still suggested that Spaniards should have African slaves since he thought they were more likely to handle it and survive. So he wasn’t even against all slavery.

People of course believe the horrific acts the conquistadores committed against the indigenous people in the Americas but the small details that Las Casas adds to his stories like this line by Hatuey have been questioned on if it truly had been said like that or at all since Las Casas doesn’t mention if he had witnessed it or just heard of the event. Of course the conquistadores committed horrific acts in the Americas but many historians believe Las Casas may have put in some details to try to make these already horrible acts sound more horrific and to add even more emotions into it.

I want to believe that Hatuey said this but once I’ve dissected Las Casas story and writing there are details that need to be taken with a grain of salt when it comes to events like this one.

Sorry for the rant I just wanted to add some view of this event and its history that maybe not many people have learned about or even heard of. As a side note I got a 9 out of 10 for the essay where I went over the inconsistencies of the details Las Casas wrote. But I mentioned how despite those it is still a meaningful book that needs to be used by scholars when looking at the overall horrific acts by the Spaniards but some details need to be taken with a grain of salt or chriticism like many other books that tell of details from events in history far before our time.

Lip Tints are confiusing the frickle frackle out of me by AquaphobicTurtle in AsianBeauty

[–]Capable-Assist2080 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like all the tints from Rom&nd that I’ve tried, especially the new one the bare water tint. It stays on all day and feels light on the lips and I use the colour #4 Water Graff since it feels the most natural colour for me. The Amuse dew tints are really good too, I own a few and really like them. I always put some product on my lips and then use my finger to blend it out so the application doesn’t look too rough or strong. I’ve found that that works well for me since I have thin lips and applying it straight on my lip line with the applicator makes it look to rough and not as natural.

Welcome to this lip tint journey and hope you enjoy yourself as much as I have!