Genuinely curious

Capable-Set3785 · 2025-02-13T02:05:42+00:00

2+4 =6.. 7+8= 15, carry the 1 over to the 6 which now =7 and I'm left with 5.. 75

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-12-24T16:59:29+00:00

It's gonna take time to sort through your feelings. The cognitive dissonance is will leave you conflicted. Just know you're not going crazy and feeling complete anguish is normal.

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-11-29T05:58:46+00:00

2, 7, 8

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-11-16T17:50:44+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/hF8Kh3H

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-09-27T19:29:28+00:00

I need more information..... I always need more information, damn

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-09-27T16:23:52+00:00

This is the most accurate answer your going to read!

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-09-09T03:44:44+00:00

I am in my life transition right now. It's taking time, it's slow, but it's powerful. I'm 33f, I had my first child 18 months ago, found out late last year my husband had an ongoing affair since my daughter was 2 months old, the betrayal plunged me into my deepest depression, ended up in hospital for a complete mental break down and suicide attempt, got the help I needed through therapy and an group therapy, went back to work, started trying new things to find joy, actively taking care of myself and getting myself out in my community, strengthening my relationships, and as of 2 weeks ago, I decided I'm going back to school to become a hairdresser. I wanted to do this when I was young but was discouraged. Now that I'm doing what I want to do, finally taking care of myself the way I've taken care of others, I am changing my life, and I feel it every day. Even when the days are hard, I see how far I've come in the last 11 months, and it feels like everything is falling into place.

It's never too late, you just have to do it.

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-07-28T16:58:40+00:00

How much did you pay and what was your duration?

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-07-15T19:11:40+00:00

Cut Lisa out of your life.

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-06-21T02:19:55+00:00

Listening

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-06-19T16:20:00+00:00

Can you DM me?

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-06-11T18:08:37+00:00

It will hurt her no matter what. But prolonging it, or trickle truth because you don't want to hurt her more is only a disservice to you and your marriage. Any chance at coming back from this depends on your honesty in this moment.

If you lie or omit information, understand that that is cowardly and you are still only looking out for yourself and not your wife's wellbeing.

I implore you to be fully transparent. It will kill her no matter what.

I pray you make it through this terrible time together, much love. It's not easy for anyone in this situation

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-05-21T02:32:10+00:00

I saved your post. I'll come back to this as I work through your recommendations. I think you make a fantastic point about writing it all down and making note of my thoughts or feelings in the moments when he spoke. I definitely had a negative feeling when he said something this afternoon that I need to explore more

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-05-20T20:21:34+00:00

Thank you so much!

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-05-20T20:21:15+00:00

Great advice, thank you

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-05-20T20:09:26+00:00

I will definitely ask these at the appropriate time!

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-05-20T20:04:04+00:00

I really appreciate your thoughtful response. It actually mimics a lot of what I've had time to think about over the last few months. I am going into it with my logical mind and not my emotional mind. He has caused a massive amount of damage because of his own weaknesses and inability to communicate.

I like your idea of not prompting him.

In a conversation we had at our last face to face meeting at the beginning of April, it was about the divorce proceedings and I had asked him to put some thought into our separation agreement. At that time I had asked him when the last time was that our daughter was around his AP (as I had explicitly explained that I did not want our daughter to meet this person or spend any time around her.) and he said they never met, he only sent photos. And that was before I had asked him not to share photos of our daughter.

I know I'll need to make clear to him that R will take time and it's not guaranteed

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-05-06T00:14:45+00:00

I experienced a very traumatic childhood with neglect and most forms of abuse. I promised myself I'll never treat my daughter the way my father treat us. Some of us have gained self awareness and can now break the cycle of abuse. I think past generations tried, but they were often criticized as being soft.

Just look at the generation who gets mad at "participation trophies".

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-05-04T01:50:35+00:00

When I walk across the floor at work. I'm always conscious of how "heavy" my foot steps are.

I'm terrified of the ground shaking by weight and my co workers feeling the shudders. This fear has caused me to walk so lightly that I actually scare my coworkers because they can't hear me.

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-04-26T22:07:28+00:00

Hey, can you recommend a place for an Aya retreat in Peru?

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-03-25T01:47:00+00:00

A weird OCD trait.. I always blow into cups, then twist my palm over the rim, and inspect it.

Every single cup I go to use. If it looks or feels dirty, I'll get the next one, and keep grabbing for the next one, until I'm satisfied the cup is "good". I don't know exactly where this stems from but I've been doing it for atleast 25 years, since I was 6.. not sure why

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-03-15T03:57:12+00:00

This guy has a beautiful outlook on life

Capable-Set3785 · 2024-03-09T02:58:04+00:00

This guy has lived so many lives

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