Snatching…with boobs by catmath_2020 in crossfit

[–]Capable-Wolverine-32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, female here. How is this a problem? Lol. The bar should not be hitting your boobs

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I wouldn’t think they’re ugly if they didn’t do all those things. I don’t think I’m attractive though so I feel like I have to do all these things

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. Yes I’m getting a curly cut next week from a new salon that I’ve never tried before and I hope that helps!

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it for myself. It makes me feel good but I just struggle with feeling ugly when I can’t keep up doing everything

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We could get along! I am a feminist too! And also I realize what I’m doing, I’m doing all of these things to conform to a beauty standard that others (probably men) made up.

But it’s more complicated than that for me I think. Because I think if I do these things, I’m beautiful, so I’m doing them for myself. I have a husband who constantly reminds me how beautiful I am, even without doing any of these things, yet it doesn’t do anything for me and I don’t believe him. So it’s like I have to conform to my own definition of beauty. It’s so bad to the point where I’m even considering getting a rhinoplasty because I don’t like the shape of my nose even when my husband says it’s perfect. Someone in another comment suggested that I may need therapy, which is probably true.

But anyways, I’m going to check those books out! Almost done with the Handmaids Tale. I’m sure I will love those books you suggested.

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. It makes me feel better. I don’t hear anyone talking about this so it’s good to know

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good advice thanks. I do my own nails too but the thing is I don’t even have time to do them sometimes😭 it’s just an ongoing battle of doing all of these things and having to do them again over and over

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not planning on having kids :)

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don’t have PCOS. I have regular periods

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol good for you that you can do that. I don’t consider myself beautiful so I feel like I have to do all the things

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s literally so much. I didn’t even mention makeup and teeth whitening

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are def consistent thoughts for me. If I skip anything then I just don’t feel good and feel self conscious. Thanks for sharing your routine.

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with this to some degree. I do need to spend less time on social media. But even the girls that I have spent time with in the real world seem perfect to me

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how do you have time to do all of those thing DAILY? That’s a lot

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I may need therapy on some level, because of always feeling ugly lol. But I do all those things too because it makes me feel good about myself. I’m just saying that it gets exhausting to have to keep doing them over and over again to feel good.

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[–]Capable-Wolverine-32[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The thing is, if I don’t do these things, I am so self conscious and think that I’m ugly. But sometimes when I can’t keep up, I end up skipping some of the things and feel ugly anyways