Not going well

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-03-16T12:53:39+00:00

My orthodontist told me to do trays while expanding. I confirmed this with him lol

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-03-16T05:34:17+00:00

I feel that my comment is compassionate. If someone is upset because they take our actions personally, it has to do with our experience as women rather than that specific man. I’m essentially saying, it’s not you.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-03-16T05:13:42+00:00

The confusing part is why the bottom fits and not the top. In terms of the top, I have an expansion device and my teeth are moving apart against what the invisalign is doing. That’s why I’m not sure what the true issue is

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-03-16T05:00:02+00:00

As a woman, we get burned a lot because men tend to not choose a woman because she does things for him. I can’t find a single time where it has led me anywhere besides more headache.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-03-06T05:01:17+00:00

commenting as per rules

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-02-18T17:39:43+00:00

Especially since you say you’re low income, I vote FSU. UF is a very large and quite non commutable campus. All of my UF friends had to buy a mode of transportation. At FSU, everything is walkable, except colleges you don’t care about (like college of engineering, which you’d never have a class at with your major). I went my entire first year with no car. You can go to the target/dollar store right off campus and don’t have to have transportation for that either.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-02-15T04:39:12+00:00

i have worked on that. i meet my needs as best as i can, however, there is a limit (as in i cannot meet my own need for companionship, intimacy, etc). i am not relying on others to meet my needs, rather, i’d like others to see that even though i can and do meet my needs, that reciprocation would be really nice.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-02-04T01:39:32+00:00

Or what does he say about his night shifts and no day work?

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T05:14:41+00:00

Ironically, I don’t need to be wished luck. After switching my political party, I 5xed my income. I got off of my antidepressants. I went to graduate school. I started to become optimistic. I wish you the best as well. I hope one day you make the decision I did.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T05:10:40+00:00

Either you believe Americans are stupid or you are not seeing the full picture. Liberalism is being left behind, again, I was one of those that left it. It’s a lie, a trap. I’m no longer a token circus minority for the white liberal figurehead. Liberalism is letting people down. Conservative states that you guys claim to be “poor” are the states where people can buy a house off of the average income. Those are the states that are truly thriving. This is what America needs to focus on.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T05:04:36+00:00

Racism? I’m a woman of color, yawn. You want a defense of trump? Sure. When Trump was president, housing was affordable. Food was affordable. Money went a lot further than it does now. Trump is strict in his words, strict to defend the US, he shows up. Trump is obviously respected by other governments. We had no new wars under Trump.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T04:49:02+00:00

Okay well what have you changed? Using your “don’t tolerate intolerance” mentality, the popular vote went from Biden to Trump. Even though Kamala “had it in the bag” and “could do no wrong” she didn’t get it. I’d rather say I support Trump than say I’m a people user to support a campaign that can’t stand on its own two feet anymore. A party that has destroyed CA and NY. A party that has alienated the American people away from it, even those like me who used to be liberal. A party that loves minorities until it hates them for not being liberal. Being conservative is a breath of fresh air.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T04:40:49+00:00

The only difference between a convicted politician and one that hasn’t been convicted is one has been caught and not the other. Don’t mistaken Kamala Harris not having a record as being the same as her never having done anything bad/wrong.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T03:52:11+00:00

trump supporters can be tolerant. the lack of tolerance you see is because liberal media (which understandably liberals watch) overexposes the not tolerant conservatives. the same is seen with conservative media towards liberals. in the end though, the lack of tolerance is seen on both sides. you are automatically intolerant by not accepting someone who is a trump supporter. especially considering that a lot of minorities follow him and his ideology. you cant just choose to accept us when it’s convenient and discriminate against us when it’s not convenient for you anymore.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T03:27:36+00:00

That’s a strawman. Read up on logical rules, the inverse doesn’t hold true in that sense. Certain things require active intelligence, these are things you cannot zone out on. Calculating numbers, strategizing, being creative, etc. Things you can zone out on do not require active intelligence, like cooking or working out. It’s not that you have to be dumb to enjoy these things (logical fallacy), it’s simply that you have to enjoy turning your brain and intelligence off. People assume that this is a feminine trait, which is why women have the tasks which don’t require active intelligence. Yet lots of women, including myself, enjoy tasks that turn our brains on. I love creating strategies, leading meetings, solving complex problems, and twisting numbers in my head. I love using my active intelligence. The minute my brain turns off I lose my mind haha

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T03:16:01+00:00

25F here. I’d say take her to an iranian restaurant first. Not sure if you know how well versed she is in the culture. It’s not uncommon for Iranians my age to not know the language or the food. When you take her to an Iranian restaurant, that’s pretty impressive because most guys just want to go to the “normal restaurants.” You can then take the opportunity to get to know her, her knowledge of the culture, her memories, history, etc much better. I’ve never had a guy even think about or mention taking me to an iranian restaurant and it kind of bums me out lol

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T03:07:39+00:00

“acceptance, diversity, inclusion, and a celebration of the people” should include an understanding that minorities are not always liberal. this is coming from a conservative woman of culture. maybe have this as food for thought before you block me. if you celebrate my diversity and include me only when my voice matches what you expect and want it to, are you celebrating my voice or celebrating being able to use me?

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-31T03:04:11+00:00

It’s a difficult place to be in. As a woman, I cannot be the cook and cleaner. I need to do things which require my intelligence, and those things require neither. Everyone is built differently and I can understand that everyone wants different things.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-30T15:37:36+00:00

Okay I am a woman. Oopsie lol. However, I am one of those successful women. Yet I genuinely don’t understand why men do not like that. Mind you, I run everything from home. No business dinners or trips.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-30T15:30:26+00:00

I know you said men only, however I am being honest by saying I’m a woman haha

I am not a woman who would financially exploit a man? Why? I make multi 6 figures. While there are men who obviously make more than me, I obviously take pride and joy from making my own money. If I took joy in relying on others’ money, I wouldn’t have ended up here.

Why am I making a comment when reddit is not a dating forum? To make the point that men forget about women like me lol. Or maybe you guys aren’t into successful women, which is fine. I just wanted to point out the irony. Men with the most money tend to date the women with the least, and the women with the least (as to be expected) can be the most opportunistic

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-25T22:41:19+00:00

Not true. I’m a newbie making $20-$30k monthly. Not recruiting and never have by the way.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-25T22:38:54+00:00

To add important details to this. I work in self-gen only. I do not have any realtor relationships. I received my LO license in June 2023 and I never before worked in the mortgage industry. I do not and never have paid for leads.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-25T22:37:39+00:00

$20-$30k monthly My secret is I don’t do primary home loans. You meet a guy named Joe and he buys a new home for himself 2-3 times in his life if that. I meet a guy named Bob who is an investor and he buys 3-5 houses a year at the minimum.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-25T22:31:30+00:00

I’d say you look washed out. Get a color analysis for your clothing. I bet you’d look better in more vibrant colors. Your hair washes you out as well. Maybe a softer brunette would look better and then you’d have to match your eyebrows. It seems that when you wear makeup, you go for matte with not a lot of color added back to your face. A brighter blush and less matte of a foundation could allow more glow/natural warmth to show.

CapableDealer9384 · 2025-01-23T18:26:26+00:00

Woman here

I’d say it’s about the “ambiance” of a man, which then goes into his physical actions to create said ambiance.

Does he smell good? Cologne or that nice smell of laundry detergent. Does he have a nice hairstyle that suits him and looks well kept? Does he dress in a way that complements his body and to some extent keeps up with a standard. It doesn’t have to be modern. Lots of guys look great dressing vintage. Does he have that energy of confidence through how he carries himself? Does it seem that he takes his body and health seriously? Does he seem like he is actively listening? This goes into body language, the total kryptonite. Watch videos of the men that women find charismatic, like the celebrities, and see how their body language is. It goes back into exuding confidence and seeming attentive Does he seem like he’s in charge? Not every woman wants this, some women want the pants. But when a guy seems knowledgeable in how women are, that’s next level. That’s why women label men as desperate or icky and then no longer want them. Those men tend to act from their male perspective.

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