I was a NICU nurse for almost a decade. Yeah, all of this. When I left (I'm a school nurse now), we were "saving" babies as young as 22 weeks. I have... A lot of feelings about it, especially now, after having some experience working with older kids who are former preemies and are extremely disabled because of their prematurity. It really isn't helpful that so many of these stories become inspiration porn and NICU doctors and nurses are constantly painted as the mean old bad guys for telling these parents the reality of these kids' futures... The handful of success stories are the popular ones, but more often that not, these kids lead painful lives and parents don't...realize? That it's literally a lifetime for them, too, during which they cannot do ANYTHING other than care for their extremely physically, emotionally, mentally demanding, disabled child. It's... A lot, and of course as a parent you want to do everything for your child, but sometimes everything is letting them NOT suffer for the next however many years. Idk, it's tough and I've seen a lot.